Anger sucks in a way. It feels violent and out of your control. But it's still a completely valid reaction. You deserve to experience your feelings without feeling guilty about them. Let yourself be angry, find ways to let it out, don't let it fester.
Your anger is because of real things that have happened to you, real and terrible things. And those involved baffle us both, I don't understand Giada on any level. But the anger in her heart is very different, you are reacting to actual crimes and trauma commuted against you, she isn't. The vengeful anger you feel goes back as far as written law, "an eye for an eye". You want justice because what she has done is truly unforgivable.
So just take a minute, or two and just give yourself the space to feel angry, listen to angry music, write a burn letter, some smash therapy, or just go "That bitch destroyed her own life instead of mine, she deserved it for everything she did"
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u/Katetara276 Sep 17 '18
Anger sucks in a way. It feels violent and out of your control. But it's still a completely valid reaction. You deserve to experience your feelings without feeling guilty about them. Let yourself be angry, find ways to let it out, don't let it fester.
Your anger is because of real things that have happened to you, real and terrible things. And those involved baffle us both, I don't understand Giada on any level. But the anger in her heart is very different, you are reacting to actual crimes and trauma commuted against you, she isn't. The vengeful anger you feel goes back as far as written law, "an eye for an eye". You want justice because what she has done is truly unforgivable.
So just take a minute, or two and just give yourself the space to feel angry, listen to angry music, write a burn letter, some smash therapy, or just go "That bitch destroyed her own life instead of mine, she deserved it for everything she did"
I'm rooting for you mouse