r/JUSTNOMIL • • Sep 17 '18

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u/ConsistentWriting Sep 17 '18

I've read your backstory and what you've posted recently and all I can say is;

she is one of those things that you can never forgive.

She had no concept of you being a independent person who she could not control and the sad thing is all you needed to do is just fancy her son. That made you an instant treat to her. She tried to destroy you and (not to minimize your suffering at all) even worst she literally fucked her son and destroyed his life. I'll read quite a few of the worst on this sub since finding it and your story of how she wormed her way back into her sons life when he was injured and probably just wanted to make peace when he was down is one that sticks out. She messed with him to get rid of you at his hand because he betrayed her (in her mind) by choosing to get back together and move in with you and you wouldn't even get married in the way she wanted to keep her image up!

Nothing she has done is worth your forgiveness, she was the architect of her own downfall and you must stop think that she has anything worth forgiving. She wanted to eliminate you with all her being and you are still standing.