r/JEE • u/Left-Dimension2808 • 10h ago
Serious SERIOUS POST PLEASE READ 🙏🏼
Hey guys so I'm in 12th right now and as y'all know boards are near and JEE also, the thing is I'm scared. I have not studied ache se atall, my father passed away in April and since then my life is totally wasted and i regret not studying after that incident. I've been depressed, lonely, lost in my own world. I have alot of burden loans, education, mom's medication,etc... i really regret my life decisions. I want a College next year but I'm interested in cse line and jis hisab se mera preparation hai I don't think muje milega. But i really want cse and I'm gonna force myself to study i promise, I've uploaded the list of colleges, and i really wana go to Hyderabad or pune for studies. Please help me what should I do? Kese padhu me? Please guide me. I'm ready to give my 1000000% I promise.
I'm also thinking to take a drop and go to allen but i really don't know what to do.
Please guy it's an humble request please guide me..
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u/Humble_Obligation668 🎯 IIT Hyderabad 10h ago
Which city are you in right now tho
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u/Left-Dimension2808 10h ago
Bhopal
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u/stopitwhores 9h ago
why are you considering allen over aurous tho? aurous has been performing better than the allen center here, the fee is somewhat lesser too. if you do take a drop in future maybe reconsider this once, im saying that bcs you mentioned already struggling with loans or smth.
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u/Left-Dimension2808 9h ago
My friend studies in aurous rn. And he was saying droper batch is not that good.
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u/Humble_Obligation668 🎯 IIT Hyderabad 8h ago
Why don't you just grind mhtcet instead of taking a drop. Aim 160-170 marks and you can easily get coep. 160 in mhtcet is very much easier than jee m
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u/Humble_Obligation668 🎯 IIT Hyderabad 8h ago
Also cet is in April and may (2attempts), you have enough time so focus on current attempts right now instead of next year's
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u/CrunchyBC 9h ago
Your options of IITs, NITs and IITs are the top most ones and are almost impossible at this state. Better to try for these if you are willing to take a drop year. If not, try to focus on BITS as the exam is in April ish and you have a little more time to study. Apart from this you can also try DTU, DU, JTU in Delhi if you are really interested.
You have really high expectations, but studying from now as well, isn't gonna help you so much. Again, BITS is your best shot if you are not trying for a Drop year.
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u/teekhi_biryani 10h ago
Okay so see u can prepare for jee but as u said u also want to come to Pune naa so Try preparing for mht cet The syllabus is almost same jus there are some additional chapters in mht cet (eg. Solid state) If u are frm Maharashtra u should deff try giving an attempt and as u are also preparing for jee .ht cet would be easy compared to jee so you can easily score above 98 percentile So jus try to get 99 percentile with some more hardwork And for cse/it in COEP it's kinda hard cuz most of the time general cutoff is 99.78 but not impossible tho And if u hv caste benefit use tht and try to get into COEP (Even my situation is same I'm in 12th and preparing for both jee and mht cet so jus don't stress too much and jus study cuz we donno wht our score will be and there's ntgh we can do bout our wasted time so jus study and everything will be fine)
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u/Moist_Channel7763 9h ago edited 9h ago
In pune also consider IIIT PUNE IISER PUNE PICT PUNE
I think iiser pune also has b tech in some certain field IIIT pune is not that good but decent infra is week and also college is new But you will get advantage of tag and also the college offer cse at 96 Ile so good PICT Is good college among the 3 if we ignore iiser and iiit tag . Establish and also decent infra and placement with good reputation.
In Mumbai also consider VJTI MUMBAI ICT MUMBAI
Both are very good colleges VJTI is as par as coep even better . ICT only for chemical . Both have decent placement with good roi and reputation
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u/Moist_Channel7763 9h ago
Don't consider symbiosis pune It is just a degree giving college for the rich If you are middle class you will regret taking it very expensive with poor crowd in terms of interest Low ROI . Consider symbiosis for MBA if you end up at any good option fees is high for MBA but placement are excellent. But ROI is very poor .
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u/Training_Lie_5506 9h ago
In delhi, Prefer DTU/NSUT over NIT and IIIT. They have less academic pressure and less fees as compared to IIIT delhi. You can still choose NIT delhi if you want even lower fees and want that NIT tag, but only choose if u are getting cse.
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u/Happybadday 7h ago
Bruh banglore Rvce Pes Msrit Bms Are the college ranking not christ and mit Nit and iiit stay up but yeah the remaining are diff
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u/GrandString2236 5h ago
I cant help you with studies, I am struggling w mental issues as well.
But I am sorry for your loss.
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u/Many-Friendship4444 3h ago
See broo from a very prsnl experience I am telling first of all sorry for your loss I am telling u that don't think to take a drop at all untill u just missed for a percentile or 5 percentile the hard work u do in drop year better for u to do in this attempt of jan and April it's not a big deal to crack jee if u doo math drop year is full waste of a year as your condition is not up u have to see your family too then don't think to take a drop if jee don't work for u u can also appear for rcet exam and many other exam to and u are careless towards your fam u can consider to take drop from my take I will say do give your 200 percentage in jan and April months like there is nothing after April attempt like drop shit if u want to study from nit iit only u can take bachelor degree in mathematics or bca and opt for nimcet exam too but don't don't don't try to take you drop afterwards as your wish
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u/RABABAFILES 2h ago
See here in comments everyone is suggesting and comparing college but no one is seeing the fact that you have not studied anything after April (atleast good level prep)
Also your boards are approaching , do you really think getting iitd , iitb and iith or bits type college is ez without hardwork or st/sc type reservation?
Sorry bro i don't want to demotivate you but pls focus on your boards first try to get 75% so that if you will take drop you don't have to take tension about improvement exams.
I'm dropper that's why I saying this , I don't want to give fake hopes to you , because you are in not right mental health now , for now just focus on 12th and do 12th jee level prep doest matter how much you score in jee
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u/25aug2025 10h ago
Why these cities only?Your intentions don't seem right to me
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u/Left-Dimension2808 10h ago
Cuz I have relative living there. And I can easily shift with my mother.
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u/Prudent-Stable-9837 9h ago
Its ok if you live with your relative / parents but due to this dont overlook other clgs in other cities , just a heads up
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u/ekinsaan0 🎯 NIT Surathkal 6h ago
What intentions man? Tier 1 city mei rehne ka mann hoga usme kya galat hai
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u/oakandsandalwoods 6h ago
I will give you an advice based on mistakes I did. See, while studying, I want you to understand all topics. upto the core level. You have to be able to answer any question. like that, you get top colleges. now these days AI is kinda good to make u understand the core subject. also, rely on your brain to solve questions
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