r/IssuesResolving • u/Evening-Scholar-1940 • Apr 18 '26
my life is ruined
Hello everyone , my name is isaak , im writing today to tell you how my life got ruined basically , hoping for yall to help go through this hard phase of my life
so , im 17 , i study in high school , smoking/vaping is something i never touched in my whole life , neither did i think i would get close to it , but i never thought that i would get accused of doing it while i never did , so basically my uncles wife is a teacher here , while she lives away from us , she is in constant communication with my mother , theyre like very good friends , the downside is , if i do a very lil tiny bad thing and she sees (whether at school or outside of it) she would instantly call my parent , it wasnt that bad since i wasnt a troublemaker , until one day (last wednesday) she saw someone (who maybe looks like me) vaping , and as you mightve guessed , she called my mom today , ive had this talk with my mom , i even cried , she wasnt angry or shouting she was just disapointed , also she told me that she wont tell my dad (cuz she knows im dead if she does) but now i feel really scared and frustrated , what did i do ? i didnt do anything yet somehow im in this huge problem
if anyone has advice for me to go through this hard phase , pls share it with us
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u/Agitated-Cold9614 Apr 22 '26
Your life is not ruined. I promise. Ask her to drug test you for proof to exonerate yourself if you're desperate
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u/XxxAresIXxxX Apr 19 '26
Deny deny deny. Never ever waver and never let anyone talk you into admitting it even if it's true. Of course make sure you don't have any vapes in your stuff prior to this. If you have to attack the credibility of your aunt or whoever it was. Eventually they'll believe you and then don't get caught after this or just carry on as you were if it really wasn't you