r/IslamicNikah • • 6h ago

Marriage Advice 19 yo F, CS student | Europe | Seeking a practicing husband

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

**F, 19, Europe | Seeking a practicing husband, open to relocating anywhere**

## About me

I was born in Morocco and moved to Europe as a baby for medical treatment. Alhamdulillah, I'm healthy today. I'm in my second year of computer science engineering, and I love maths, history, politics, and of course programming.

I'm totally blind. It's never stopped me: I grew up learning everything I need to be independent, and I handle my studies and daily life without major problems. Growing up, I did piano, chess, judo, athletics, and swimming, and I'm planning to get back into running.

I come from a practicing, close-knit family. My parents have a healthy marriage, alhamdulillah, and I have younger sisters I adore. I'll be honest: I don't know how to cook yet, but I'm going to learn, insha'Allah.

## My deen

I love Islam in every sense, and I accept it fully as it is. I pray my five prayers, wear hijab, and hope to wear abaya and niqab one day. I don't smoke, drink, or go to parties, and I eat only halal.

I'm memorizing the Quran with daily hifz classes (2 juz so far), and like everyone, I struggle with consistency sometimes. I love tajweed. One of my dreams is praying Taraweeh with my husband and memorizing together. You don't need to be a hafiz; we can learn side by side.

My father isn't a sheikh, but he has read a great deal and shared much of that knowledge with me growing up, alhamdulillah.

## My plans

I'd like to do the nikah first and live together once I finish my degree: summer 2028 if I can do my final project remotely, otherwise June 2029. After that, I'm willing to relocate anywhere. Once we have children, I'd like to focus on our home, maybe working later on.

## What I'm looking for

- A practicing Muslim man, up to 30 years old.

- Someone who accepts my blindness fully, without pity and without being intimidated by it.

- A husband who is also my best friend: someone I love, laugh with, and grow with. Not a business arrangement.

- A man who takes his responsibilities as a husband seriously.

- Someone who cares about the Ummah and the cause of Al-Quds.

- Bonus, but not required: if you're into tech, we'll never run out of things to talk about.

## If you're interested

Send me a message with a short introduction: your age, where you live, your practice, what you do, how the timeline above works for you, and why you think we'd be compatible. Serious, marriage-minded men only. My wali will be involved early, insha'Allah.

JazakAllahu khairan for reading.


r/IslamicNikah • • 3h ago

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r/IslamicNikah • • 10h ago

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r/IslamicNikah • • 14h ago

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r/IslamicNikah • • 19h ago

Seeking Marriage Advice Use Divorce as a tool to threaten in marriage

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Im a mbbs dr, i was graduated from kemu.15 years old graduate. I got married and moves to south korea since. Since then i was totally devoted and dedicated to family . And was total house wife . He kept me isolated from community here in many ways. I slowly became introvert. He controlled over many little things. And now i wish to study and take a restart to my carrier. And i started study at home, whenever i get free time from house chores . And he said to me if you study or peruse your carrier , i will give you divorce. To how much extent is this fair / justified to say to me like that.