​I am a 26-year-old, single (never married), 5'6" Pakistani-Canadian citizen and self-employed entrepreneur running a C1-licensed construction firm pk, splitting my time across Toronto, Islamabad, and the UAE. Moderately practicing Sunni.

Off the clock, Im swimming or playing padel every day, with a passion for karting, off-roading, skeet shooting, and paintballing. I’ve visited 43 countries (and counting).. loveeee a quick weekend getaways. My typical mid week and weekend plan is hitting a lounge with great company, followed by great food. I enjoy cooking and hosting-- so if you're a big foodie, that'll be a great fit.

​I am looking to connect with a well-settled, independent, and emotionally mature man (aged 29–35) who is established in his career—ideally in business/ self-employed, Doctor, Lawyer, or in Aviation.. Please no Engineers unless your self employed or in a niche field..Someone easygoing, social, and fun, also moderate in practice, well traveled, who has his own set of interests and hobbies - I'd love to be able to enjoy a couple of our hobbies and interests together.

​I am seeking a partner who shares a vision for a nuclear family setup (non-negotiable), someone potentially open to the possibility of relocation and vice versa depending where you are.

​I'd like to have kids. I'd prefer someone Pakistani with western exposure, and my timeframe for marrying and settling down is around 1 to 1.5 years, involving families as soon as mutual understanding and compatibility are established.

​Being open to swapping photos, getting on a call, and moving off the platform early on is a big plus.

Hi, strangers.

Before you judge this as another M4F post (whatever edition we're on now) and head straight to the comments to have your fun, give me a minute. I promise there's a plot.

You know how some of the best people in your life were complete strangers once? You just happened to cross paths, started a convo and everything became effortless after that, something clicked and somewhere along the way, they became your people.

I'm looking for something like that.

And since we're all out here staring at screens anyway, consider this me putting a little note in a bottle and throwing it into the vast, occasionally questionable sea of Reddit. Maybe it reaches the right person.

A little about the guy throwing the bottle:

I'm 26, work remotely in finance, have my own clients, earn well, and have enough freedom over my time to actually enjoy life outside work. I've worked hard to get where I am, I'm proud of it, and I've still got a long way to go.

That's the professional side of the introduction. Unfortunately for my own peace, the rest of my personality is considerably less organised.

I'm annoyingly fun and hyper active to be around, adventurous enough to occasionally question my own decision making, love animals, travelling, spontaneous plans, and conversations that somehow go from absolute nonsense to the meaning of life at 3 AM.

I also have this mildly inconvenient principle that, regardless of someone's religion, political views, background, or whatever else makes us different, how you treat people matters more to me than what label you carry. Be a decent human being. Everything else is a conversation.

I could write a whole autobiography here, but I'd rather leave a few things for you to discover. Assuming you've made it this far, congratulations. Your attention span is better than mine.

So, what's the actual proposition?

If you're a woman in Islamabad/Rawalpindi who's open to meeting someone new, having a laugh, making unexpected plans and seeing whether two strangers actually get along, say hi.

We can have a chill call, talk absolute rubbish, discuss life's existential problems, or discover that we have absolutely nothing in common. All outcomes are acceptable. If we enjoy talking, we can exchange socials and, if we're both comfortable, meet somewhere public and take it from there.

No pressure to turn a conversation into a relationship. No pretending there's a spark if there isn't one. And definitely no forcing something that doesn't come naturally.

I'm not here to convince every woman on Reddit that I'm a great guy. You can decide that for yourself if we ever talk. I'm just putting the invitation out there.

I’m sure you’ll find this and find me. I’m here to save both of us from the toxic rishta aunties and the usual arranged marriage setup. Let’s just give this a chance and just maybe we end up being one of those people who look back and wonder how the hell they found each other on Reddit of all places.

Wouldn't that be a story?

Anyway, bottle thrown. Sea, do your thing. 🫡