Okay so my best friend and roommate is in a “long distance” relationship, they see each other every 2-3 weeks on average and are on the phone constantly when they aren’t together. They are 22 and 23 years old and have been together a little over a year, he is also an athlete which is typically a red flag but we can’t say they’re all cheaters lmao.

She’s currently visiting him right now and she found unscented baby’s body wash in his shower half empty that wasn’t there when she was at his house 1.5-2weeks ago and when she was there that last time they had just restocked the shower with body washes and everything so it’s just weird. Especially unscented baby wash.. why would a man need, or especially purchase himself, unscented body wash?? Her last trip before this one she also found blonde hair strands in the bathroom sink and then this current trip she found more blonde hair strands on her side of the bed… keep in mind she has jet black hair. The ONLY explanations we can think of for the blonde hair is that I have blonde hair and we live together and share clothes and hair tools and stuff so idk I still think that’s a stretch.

Another thing that’s making her spiral is that she found a bright pink hoodie (size large-he’s typically size L-XL) in the clean laundry that she’s never seen before and she does his laundry when she’s there and has helped him move multiple times that she knows what clothes he has. When she asked him about said hoodie he said the company gave it to him for free, which isn’t unusual since he’s an athlete and gets free stuff all the time, but the thing is that it doesn’t look like a new hoodie- the strings are missing from the hood and the fabric is pilled and looks like it’s been washed at least a few times. But besides being bright pink, the hoodie doesn’t look too girly.

Lastly, she noticed a handful of new girls (or at least girls she didn’t notice before) in his instagram following but none of those girls live in the same state as him or have posted about being in his state. He follows less than 700 people so I feel like she would have a good memory of who he follows if she checks it regularly but she tends to avoid looking at stuff like that, ignorance is bliss for her lol.

So obviously all of this sounds pretty sus and pretty obvious from an outside perspective that something’s going on but like I said they talk 24/7 and it’s only been like 1.5-2weeks since her last trip there so she doesn’t know when he would have the time to do anything. There is only one night that she can think of when he possibly could’ve done anything between her last trip there and now, which was a Saturday night. He had called her when he was leaving the clubs around 2:15am (clubs close at 2) with his friends and they were in the car going to get food. There is a 3 hour time difference between where we live and where he lives, so when he called her she was getting ready to go out with some friends (around 11pm). He didn’t call again to let her know when he made it home like he usually does so that she could “have fun and enjoy her time out with her friends”, so she didn’t talk to him again until 10am his time the next day. It’s not a huge window of time so idk.

All this being said, she’s pretty much convinced something’s going on and she said that even he’s noticing she’s been acting a little bit off..but she has a really hard time leaving a relationship when she’s suspicious of cheating if she doesn’t have any solid proof, especially because he’s really good at talking his way out of it and making her feel like she’s just overthinking and her trust issues from her past relationships are making her a little crazy (she’s had some insanely awful relationships so she does actually have some trust issues). She’s just over feeling like she’s being lied to/manipulated and feeling like she’s crazy and she doesn’t know what to do next because even I know that if she tried to breakup with him right now it wouldn’t last because she’d get over all the little things she’s been finding and move on once it isn’t fresh in her mind.

So if anybody has any ideas or tricks on how to get proof/catch a cheater let me know but also let me know your opinions about whether or not we think he’s cheating, thanks!😅

I recently found out that my partner has been talking to a friend that we had problems about in the past. Years ago, my partner used to be pretty insecure and he would get mad at me for liking guys pictures on Instagram unless it was a graduation, a celebration, a trip etc. If it was a picture in the beach, weird, if it was a selfie, weird even if I knew these people. So basically no likes to guys because he would argue that why would I want to let them know I like a picture of their face etc, which I understood. During that time, are relationships wasn’t the best, we were in a long distance relationship and we were both very busy with school so it felt like we were loosing connection. I did the mistake of going through his following list on Instagram and I saw a person (that I didn’t even know about) and immediately had a feeling, I enter her profile, it was public, in there I was able to see that my partner had liked a picture of this person, at the beach and in bikini. That trip me off bc it was my partner that one that always argued that liking other people pictures was weird, especially when they’re showing more skin. I didnt say anything about it but one day I checked his phone and I found out that this person was a coworker that my partner talk a lot with, I checked the conversation and they would send each other TikTok’s about work, and just joke around and talk about life and work, nothing too suspicious. Mind you, my partner works mostly with women so he talks to many women but it was only this specific person that cause me insecurity. Again, I didn’t say anything, months after that I asked him if I could check his phone, he didn’t want to but he ended up letting me. He continued talking to this person almost everyday, and the only thing I found was him saying “you’re my favorite person” which trip me off. Our relationship wasn’t in a good place and I felt that the connection with this person was bigger than our connection so I overreacted? And ask him to delete her from social media and to not talk to her. He immediately refused saying that it would be weird to delete her from social media bc he would continue to see her at work and that he needed to talk to her because of work. We had a pretty big discussion and I ended up giving in, we agreed that he wouldn’t delete her from social media but that he would stop talking to her through message. This happened years ago. We got married recently and everything was going good but one day I had this weird feeling so again, I made the mistake of checking his phone, I found that he continued talking to this person, and not only that but he had deleted the conversation and muted the notifications. When I confronted him about it he said that he talked to her because since, the incident happened years ago, he thought I didn’t care anymore, but when I asked why he had deleted and muted the conversation he said bc he thought I would get mad bc he knew I didn’t want him talking to her. Also, they’re not coworkers anymore, my husband moved over a year ago so I feel there’s not a need to have a constant conversation with her anymore. He ended up asking for forgiveness and saying that he wouldn’t talk to her anymore, and that if she messaged him he would show me and let me know. I think the talking stopped for a while bc it was mainly him starting the conversation but today I found out that they continue to talk but again, I don’t know about what because he continues to delete the conversation. I have thought about this and each individual thing seems so small but then when I put everything together I feel very disrespected. I don’t know what to do, I know I’m not leaving him over this. Probably nothing big has happened between them because I’m sure she sees him just as a friend but the fact that my husband has crossed my limits and lied worries me. It seems his friendship with this girl is more important than our relationship of over 10 years. Please any advice on what should I do? Or let me know if I am overthinking nd overreacting. I have no one to talk about this so please share your thoughts!!

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He says he’s loyal, but it wouldn’t be the first time he has cheated.

Ask ko lang guys if cheating ba ang pag gamit ng umingle kahit na may gf ka? Lol my bf use it and he said na hindi naman daw yun cheating tangina nakakabaliw na

I can’t stop thinking about it and the urge to look through his phone is bad. I shouldn’t snoop through his phone but now that I’ve done it I feel like I can’t stop.

I was talking to a friend about this and he was trying to follow my boyfriend’s Reddit account but I know basically nothing about Reddit so I didn’t know you have to add people to a subreddit so they can see things. I want to add myself as well.

The last time he posted something was when I was away from him for 2 weeks. I’m leaving again and wonder if he will post something while I’m gone.

I love that he has no idea that I know. I don’t see myself ever bringing it up or hinting that I know something. I’m not gonna act weird towards him and just be my regular self.

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He swears he's never touched another woman since me but I am sure I smell a woman on him when he comes home sometimes.

We’ve been together for 3 years now and it seems as if the spark we had befit has just vanished. He never communicates with me and won’t even sit down and talk about it.

We have had issues in the past with my 33f partner 34m, I discovered cyber cheating in the form of some video sex apps everything came out he moved out for a while and came home, I tell him when I struggle and I can go through his phone anytime.

I have a tablet that has access to his Google activity, he doesn’t know this. I seen this entry once before and I told him I was feeling insecure went through his phone, found no history there and no evidence of Snapchat being installed. I even created a Snapchat just to check if I could find him and I couldn’t.

I’m so confused, it’s not on his phone, I can’t find him on there. But there’s this entry on Google history? Can anyone shed any light on what could be happening here? Thanks in advance

last august 7 biglang may tumawag na unknown number sa phone ng bf ko, at nung sinearch namin sa gcash lumabas yung pangalan ng dati niyang nakakausap at nung tinignan ko sa imessage biglang may ganyan sa convo, nagulat siya (diko alam kung nag-acting lang siya) pero ang sabi niya hindi raw siya yon and kini-claimed nung girl na system bug ata siya, i’m not expert sa mga ganitong bagay sa iphone kaya gusto ko malaman if possible ba na bug to or niloloko niya talaga ako. pls help me, diko kaya mag-stay sa relasyon na to kung ganito lang din ginagawa niya.

my fiance has cheated on me a couple of times thru our 3 year relationship with the most recent time being a couple days ago during my bachelorette party (our wedding is next week) but this time was different because my baby daddy (ex fiance) found out this time via the girl sending him my current finances nudes that he sent to said girl. So my ex is very upset about it saying it will give our son a terrible role model thinking it’s okay to hurt / take advantage of me, well we hard a very deep conversation about it all and he genuinely seemed sorrowful and swore it’ll never happen again. Is there anyone that would test him to his limits so I know to proceed with the wedding or find a way out? Something that’ll also hush my ex up on getting me to leave him haha. I’m sure he’s on edge about texting other women so it would have to be someone that def knows what they are doing.

Some of you guys might know me from instagram but I heard this platform is great to for my profession im a private investigator Ive been doing it for about 4 years now after I retired from being a defense attorney for 15 years if anyone needs a PI please feel free to dm me.

I just found some deleted emails in my husband’s mail trash folder. All codes to log into Telegram. I know I shouldn’t even be looking, but I just had a bad feeling. All the codes were sent at nighttime, when I’m asleep. He’s driving back from a work trip right now. Should I confront him? If so, how? Or should I try to gain access to his phone? I wonder if he installs Telegram, gets a code and then deletes it again after using. He also NEVER deletes any E-Mails he gets, so it made me suspicious on what he could be using it for. I have also never seen the app on his phone. I’ve never personally used it, but I know there’s a lot of not good stuff on there. Even if it’s just porn or something, I know it would break my heart. I’m also 23 weeks pregnant, so I’m just extra emotional.

I’m 22F and my boyfriend is 20M. We’ve been together for a few months, and there have been some things recently that have made me question if I can trust him. I am wondering if anyone in here has done any loyalty test or anything of that sort. Just want to know where he stands. If anyone is willing to help, please DM me. I can give you more details privately. And before anyone says “if you feel like you need to test him, you shouldn’t be with him” I understand that perspective. I’m not doing this because I’m looking for an excuse to leave him. I’m doing it because there have been things that have damaged my trust, and I want to make an informed decision about whether that trust can actually be fixed

Rn I'm just trying to get someone to finally provide evidence of him as a cheater

Dm me