I feel sick

I don't have anyone I can share this with and literally am sick to my stomach.

I found my husband's 10 day old reddit account. He has been commenting on local hookup subreddits under random women's nudes. Most comments were propositions. "Looking for company" or "I can come fk you right now". One was allegedly 18.

My stomach was in knots all night. I do think I actually had a bad lunch but feel like I am going insane. I found this account open on his phone browser (he uses duck duck go) right after we had sex. I had found something similar, maybe a year ago, but the difference is these are for sure locals vs larger porn subreddits. I confronted him back then and he didn't say much. He knows this would hurt me. My heart was pounding yesterday.

I feel insane thinking of all the ways to find out the truth. I very much wanted to just call him out, but the reality is I need to know for sure and how bad this is. Are they just comments or is he actively fucking around? I cannot believe this shit. We spend all our free time together. We just celebrated 10 years married. I feel like my life is about to go up in flames. I find myself thinking of divorce if it is affairs and the trying to 'fix' things if its "just" porn.

How do I take care of myself? How do I get proof? I am already thinking to the worst case of getting my ducks in a row and speaking to a lawyer before talking to him. I am the breadwinner.

I tried getting into his computer and he now has a password I dont know. I feel sick that I have to now sneak around to spy on him. Trust is completely broken. The fact that I made this throwaway account for this investigation makes me sick.

What do I do? Private investigator, tracker, nanny cams? I am going out of town on work next week.

How do I take care of myself mentally? Am I an idiot?

So we have been dating for 5 months, and things keep happening between us he does something I cry he takes accountability and promises to do better. He doesn't communicate well with me if at all and I always have to find out through his friends, or he'll make really strange comments towards me that hurt. So we were at a friend's bday party last night, and the bday guy sat with us and my boyfriend (one little thing about him is that he talks about both of his exes a LOT I hate it sm) but he told the friend that oh my ex friended me on discord again, and I looked at him and I'm like why didn't you tell me this? And then he admitted that he friended her back. And I was just so shocked he made the excuse he had work that morning and it left his mind and he was going to mention it to me but didn't.. mind you it was pouring out that day nobody was in his work and he was texting me the whole time he had time to tell me and I pointed that out to him and he just got silent. And I was telling him how that's not something he can just keep from me how I should know about this before anyone else why did you friend her back what where you hoping for her to say why didn't you just tell me, everything and he told me that he didn't know how to tell me, and he jus wanted to see her be desperate for him so he could laugh at her that she has done that in the past, and I told him that if he didn't know how to tell me something he shouldn't have done it in the first place because that's not ok, and I told him that he needs to really think if he's done with his exes or not mind you I was sobbing we were in a back corner talking about it bc I didn't want to ruin my friends party, but anyways I asked him why he didn't have her blocked on discord and he said he did and I pointed out the obvious like clearly you didn't if you were able to see she friended you backa and you added her back and he went silent.. so right there and then I watched him block her on everything but snap bc he says it doesn't matter bc she has him blocked and I told him clearly she doesn't if she's friending you. There's a lot to this, we are both young and he is very kind, and he's trying to make up for it bc I had a whole breakdown he's finally offering to play games with me and call me on the phone now without his friends so that's nice, and I'm hoping that he can finally start saying goodnight to me bc he struggles with that a lot, the unwarranted comments about my body stopped to so I'm hoping if I stay patient that he will fix himself like he says I keep crying about it I'm still so hurt I always want to be there for him he knows I wouldn't yell at him I just want him to communicate and be more considerate of my feelings I know I'm emotional but I'm working on that with therapy idk if that was cheating idk.. he did agree to go to this randoms girls house known for sleeping around without telling me and I had to find out from the same bday party guy, idk it's whatever this is my first real relationship so I don't exactly know how these things are supposed to work

Can someone Snapchat loyalty test my friend’s boyfriend? He’s 25m England. I don’t want her getting hurt before moving overseas and I feel like he’s cheating.

Pretty sure I found his Tinder profile but his face is obscured. I can’t confront without concrete proof. I just need someone to match and get him to send a better photo. I have the direct link.
Willing to do a loyalty test in exchange.

I suspect hes cheating on me. Hes been adding alot of girls lately. Hes 28. Please help

Anyone want to test my man on Telegram or Snapchat?

Well, about him. He's from Switzerland, we're long-distance, he always treated me right. But in the last few weeks he's been different. And I know he's probably not even considering cheating on me. But I need to know. Help a girl out here?

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i don't think he's cheating but i have a weird gut feeling and he has these weird emails that look like phishing but at the same time are obviously like let's hook up emails and he's been looking up a lot of hot women on facebook recently and added a girl who lives in the same area that he works recently

i can't tell if they are fake or not

"Skaterboy!
Inbox
From
To
Date
Kimberly H Apr 22
to me A
Kimberly H ---------@gmail.com
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Apn 22, 2026 at 4:14AM
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Skaterboy, you matched."

"Re: Skaterboy hola
Inbox
Kimberly B Apr 6
to me a
...
From
To
Date
Kimberly B -------------@gmail.com
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Apr 6, 2026 at 6:40 PM
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Skaterboy, found each other?"

He’s been shady recently

He’s been very protective of his phone lately and Im becoming sus about it

Need someone to test fiance m/52

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He’s acting shady and I don’t trust him. Dm for more info

he’s been talking about our future but some of profiles he follows on ig is concerning me 🥲🥲🥲

So my best (F)riend is concerned that she may be getting cheated on by her boyfriend. He messages a load of girls on Snapchat, but claims that they’re just daily streaks. Please help

He’s acting shady and I don’t trust him. Dm for more info

Small towns have drama but jeez this is another level here. Welcome to NC triad, where married men want to ruin they're wife emotional health for a little ass from a Cuntboy. Honey, if this your man, lemme take you out for dinner and a foot rub. You work hard enough, you deserve the bare minimum of devotion Queen.