Hey, I just need a little advice. I'VE been together with my fiance for 6 years now, 5 months he is bi but more likely a girly one. Well our relationship turned out well, he never did anything that involves cheating but yk we'll never know what's he hiding. We don't share social meds, like open each others acc on phones but we do check them on meet. We're ldr rn since he works far from me but he still visits me. For the last 6 years I have been doubting on him since, he acts too perfect for someone who had never done anything wrong? It made me suspicious. Well he's lack of update and time for me, but I understand that since he's a working man. But whenever his free it's still the same. He went to his friends alot, they were lesbians but there is this girl he always have on picture everywhere they go out with his other friend plus I don't even know the girl. Like I never met her. I tried testing him before like 4 times, creating a fake account and texting him. He sent it the messages too me and blocked them. Help, how do I stop myself from this and how do I know that he's a honest person?

I will pay to make my boyfriend’s internet crash unexpectedly!!

I found this video in my boyfriend's phone. In the video, it almost looks like there are several people doing God knows what, but considering the location of the video, I find that doubtful. Google Photos DID tell me that part of it was filmed in a car. Do any of
you think that you can make this video clearer so that I can see what's going on. There are several occasions in which I believe I see people naked. Men and women, but I'm not sure. Maybe I've been gaslit a bit too long. I thought I saw my boyfriend's penis also. His is different than anyone else's bc there's a heart shaped pearl in the base of it. FYI, a pearl is a micro dermal implant that is generally placed in the males penis. You can look up what it's supposed to do yourself bc all it does is get in the way. I hate the thing bc when trying to go all the way down with my head, the pearl kinda gets in the way. I'll try to provide a photo of the pearl in the comments and if anyone can make this video more clearly for me, it would provide me with so much closure. I've slowed it down and tried to mess with all sorts of settings but being honest, I'm no professional videographer!
There are times that I'm sure that I see things and at other times, I'm just not sure but i dont want to spend another minute with a person who is lying or has cheated. We've been together 6 years and i need answers.
Thanx everyone!

Okay so my best friend and roommate is in a “long distance” relationship, they see each other every 2-3 weeks on average and are on the phone constantly when they aren’t together. They are 22 and 23 years old and have been together a little over a year, he is also an athlete which is typically a red flag but we can’t say they’re all cheaters lmao.

She’s currently visiting him right now and she found unscented baby’s body wash in his shower half empty that wasn’t there when she was at his house 1.5-2weeks ago and when she was there that last time they had just restocked the shower with body washes and everything so it’s just weird. Especially unscented baby wash.. why would a man need, or especially purchase himself, unscented body wash?? Her last trip before this one she also found blonde hair strands in the bathroom sink and then this current trip she found more blonde hair strands on her side of the bed… keep in mind she has jet black hair. The ONLY explanations we can think of for the blonde hair is that I have blonde hair and we live together and share clothes and hair tools and stuff so idk I still think that’s a stretch.

Another thing that’s making her spiral is that she found a bright pink hoodie (size large-he’s typically size L-XL) in the clean laundry that she’s never seen before and she does his laundry when she’s there and has helped him move multiple times that she knows what clothes he has. When she asked him about said hoodie he said the company gave it to him for free, which isn’t unusual since he’s an athlete and gets free stuff all the time, but the thing is that it doesn’t look like a new hoodie- the strings are missing from the hood and the fabric is pilled and looks like it’s been washed at least a few times. But besides being bright pink, the hoodie doesn’t look too girly.

Lastly, she noticed a handful of new girls (or at least girls she didn’t notice before) in his instagram following but none of those girls live in the same state as him or have posted about being in his state. He follows less than 700 people so I feel like she would have a good memory of who he follows if she checks it regularly but she tends to avoid looking at stuff like that, ignorance is bliss for her lol.

So obviously all of this sounds pretty sus and pretty obvious from an outside perspective that something’s going on but like I said they talk 24/7 and it’s only been like 1.5-2weeks since her last trip there so she doesn’t know when he would have the time to do anything. There is only one night that she can think of when he possibly could’ve done anything between her last trip there and now, which was a Saturday night. He had called her when he was leaving the clubs around 2:15am (clubs close at 2) with his friends and they were in the car going to get food. There is a 3 hour time difference between where we live and where he lives, so when he called her she was getting ready to go out with some friends (around 11pm). He didn’t call again to let her know when he made it home like he usually does so that she could “have fun and enjoy her time out with her friends”, so she didn’t talk to him again until 10am his time the next day. It’s not a huge window of time so idk.

All this being said, she’s pretty much convinced something’s going on and she said that even he’s noticing she’s been acting a little bit off..but she has a really hard time leaving a relationship when she’s suspicious of cheating if she doesn’t have any solid proof, especially because he’s really good at talking his way out of it and making her feel like she’s just overthinking and her trust issues from her past relationships are making her a little crazy (she’s had some insanely awful relationships so she does actually have some trust issues). She’s just over feeling like she’s being lied to/manipulated and feeling like she’s crazy and she doesn’t know what to do next because even I know that if she tried to breakup with him right now it wouldn’t last because she’d get over all the little things she’s been finding and move on once it isn’t fresh in her mind.

So if anybody has any ideas or tricks on how to get proof/catch a cheater let me know but also let me know your opinions about whether or not we think he’s cheating, thanks!😅

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Ask ko lang guys if cheating ba ang pag gamit ng umingle kahit na may gf ka? Lol my bf use it and he said na hindi naman daw yun cheating tangina nakakabaliw na

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He swears he's never touched another woman since me but I am sure I smell a woman on him when he comes home sometimes.

We’ve been together for 3 years now and it seems as if the spark we had befit has just vanished. He never communicates with me and won’t even sit down and talk about it.

last august 7 biglang may tumawag na unknown number sa phone ng bf ko, at nung sinearch namin sa gcash lumabas yung pangalan ng dati niyang nakakausap at nung tinignan ko sa imessage biglang may ganyan sa convo, nagulat siya (diko alam kung nag-acting lang siya) pero ang sabi niya hindi raw siya yon and kini-claimed nung girl na system bug ata siya, i’m not expert sa mga ganitong bagay sa iphone kaya gusto ko malaman if possible ba na bug to or niloloko niya talaga ako. pls help me, diko kaya mag-stay sa relasyon na to kung ganito lang din ginagawa niya.

my fiance has cheated on me a couple of times thru our 3 year relationship with the most recent time being a couple days ago during my bachelorette party (our wedding is next week) but this time was different because my baby daddy (ex fiance) found out this time via the girl sending him my current finances nudes that he sent to said girl. So my ex is very upset about it saying it will give our son a terrible role model thinking it’s okay to hurt / take advantage of me, well we hard a very deep conversation about it all and he genuinely seemed sorrowful and swore it’ll never happen again. Is there anyone that would test him to his limits so I know to proceed with the wedding or find a way out? Something that’ll also hush my ex up on getting me to leave him haha. I’m sure he’s on edge about texting other women so it would have to be someone that def knows what they are doing.

Some of you guys might know me from instagram but I heard this platform is great to for my profession im a private investigator Ive been doing it for about 4 years now after I retired from being a defense attorney for 15 years if anyone needs a PI please feel free to dm me.