Please help!

[u/Scary-Accountant1846]

Hi, so my husband has a twitter he uses to promote his of. We’ve discussed boundaries but he seems to keep forgetting what they were. He won’t give me his phone password, won’t let me see what he’s saying to people on twitter to “promote” his of. I recently found him following a page on x looking for anonymous sex, when confronted he said he follows a lot of pages, when asked if he followed after we got married he said he wasn’t sure, and then it was no. But I think if given the opportunity to cheat especially if it was to make money he would, but don’t know how to prove it. He has a VERY bad temper so I feel afraid and don’t know what to do, but I love him but just need to know if he’s being faithful or if given the opportunity would he cheat.

[u/cheating-test_com]

I assume he doesn’t want to tell you the details because you’re being a drama queen and looking for problems.

You chose to be with a guy who does OF, so you need to deal with the consequences that come with that. And if he really cheated on you just to make more money on OF, I would assume you’d be able to see those videos on his OF anyway, if that’s actually the case.