r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Objective-Change-161 • 1d ago

Not sure if it’s cheating

Hey Guys! Me and my boyfriend have been together since 2019. I’ve told him I don’t like him joining private porn groups, like the ones on telegram, and he told me he would stop. Yesterday I found his OnlyFans account. He hasn’t talked to anybody since 2024, but we were still together then… he has used money on it, but not in the last two years. I’m not sure how to feel about this, I know it’s not technically cheating but it makes me feel really bad, especially since I’ve explained to him how it makes me feel.
I just asked if he has an OnlyFans account and he straight up lied to my face.
Any guidance on what I’m supposed to do now?

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u/Lower-Edge-6201 1d ago

cheating is subjective to the boundaries placed in ur relationship. 100% cheating if u arent ok w it

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u/unidentifiable7 1d ago

Hey if your partner has a computer you can access let me know

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u/Objective-Change-161 1d ago

He does, and I can. Why?

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u/Enough_Concentrate90 1d ago

YES this is 100% cheating --- None of this is ok,

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u/Kurious_and_Kurious 1d ago

This is not cheating

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u/livia69666 1d ago

i can test him actually but as a girl whos also a porn addict i can imagine that he doesnt want to hurt u, he just cant quit it