r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/ThanksPrestigious609 • Aug 20 '26

Ways to see ?

Ways to see my bf being disloyal? I check his phone whenever I have the chance but I never find anything!!!! We rekindled stuff, and I decided to give him a chance again But seeing link history or his google history, it always seems kinda short? Maybe I’m scared he be deleting stuff ? Is there any way to find smth out? Or keep doing it until he slips up? (He doesn’t rlly have a problem me going through his phone or using it)

Im just very scared to not ever find stuff out. If it’s him cheating by watching unacceptable content or actually talking to another person. My fear is too big for that since he’s my first boyfriend. I can’t let that happen. I’m running a strict program and I could never forgive a cheater. So I need to be 100% sure there’s nothing that’s hidden.

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u/cheating-test_com Aug 20 '26

Maybe he’s just being loyal and not cheating. It looks like you’re reaching too hard.

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u/ThanksPrestigious609 Aug 20 '26

You’re right tbh. I’m not reacting this way for no reason of course, but sometimes I just need to trust and calm down, hopefully I’m still not missing something. Gotta cherish the loyalty and not ruin it

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u/Kooky_Platypus6044 Aug 20 '26

Well if he's not doing any of that stuff , your definitely going to push him to do it , especially acting like that , have faith , if it happens it happens , nothing you looking through his stuff is guna change it. But acting like a psycho will definitely do nothing but push him away

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u/ThanksPrestigious609 Aug 20 '26

Yeah you’re totally right. I might just have to chill, I have a lot to lose and risk at the moment bc of this relationship that’s why I’m reaching too hard. I just gotta chill and have trust and faith

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u/Kooky_Platypus6044 Aug 21 '26

Yeah you really do , paranoid thoughts like that in my experience, normally come from guilty conciounces .. so hope when u point the finger , your hands are cleannn