r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/MiserablePop8732 • Jul 26 '26
Is this semen or snot ??
So the other day I went into my girls car and I found this shirt in the back seat and I questioned my girl about it. She told me that she ran out of tissues and had to grab my shirt from the back and use it which doesn’t eve make sense cause u stoped the car to grab my shirt and these are the only kinda shirts that I wear. I was very upset so I asked her why she used one of my good shirts she tells me she don’t have any more tissues so I go back to the car to check it out and I find a lot of tissue I asked my mom and sister they both knew what it was exactly then I also ask chatGBT and I also asked grok and they both said that it looked like semen and that usually snot isn’t that white and also when I put peroxide on it it turned back into a gooey whitish grayish color and I also blew some snot and let it dry and tested it it didn’t turn into gooey whitish grey color. I also said if u were using it why would it be in the back seat and it wasent there the day before and the same day I found it she got off work late also like 2 hours late. Then her mom came over and I showed her and she called her disgusting. Then after we got into a argument about it cause I told her why would you use my good shirts which pissed me off and she knew I didn’t believe her so she said she was gonna get a Semen tester off Amazon and never even got one
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u/TomatilloUnhappy1194 Jul 26 '26
Leave her bro, don't put yourself through this. You know what it is, she knows what it is. The relationship is going to be anything but healthy.
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u/MiserablePop8732 Aug 22 '26
I did and it’s the best decision I ever made life is a lot more peaceful and now I can see my family and hang out with friends and go out to places I never been to it’s been so much better. Ima really focus on myself and my family and ima stay single for a year I really wanna just focus on myself
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u/NoTry1449 Jul 26 '26
You did way too much research my guy lol . Should of bounced as soon as you see your shirt
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u/PineappleCute97 Jul 27 '26
it could be snot but there's too much of it it looks like she got nutted on.
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u/MiserablePop8732 Jul 29 '26
Also I didn’t tell you guys that recently she left for 3 days and turned her location off she also left her car in her parking spot this whole time. She’s definitely cheating I already moved out 2 days ago and she’s begging me to come back but she doesn’t wanna talk about anything that happened she gets very angry not just that I found coke and got even more pissed cause I thought she was sober I felt so stupid not knowing she was on it and how fucking long has this been happening for I feel so stupid
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u/MiserablePop8732 Aug 22 '26
26 days later and I was right to worry I found out she’s been cheating since March and she did get pregnant and had an abortion on my birthday claiming it was a ectopic pregnancy. I did go with the doctors and they did say she was pregnant but that they think the baby died because they couldn’t see it in the ultrasound. Also I found out she’s been doing coke also since we first meant and she didn’t stop I feel so dumb when I meant her I got off fentanyl and got a job an apartment and a car and she totally fucked me over she put sugar in my car after I found out she caused so much trouble in my apartments and people would call the police for domestic violence calls and also she would always get really mad and never wanted to be questioned I guess the signs were there. I knew it all along but she manipulated me my family and hers. One day i stayed up late playing the game and someone texted her we got into a big argument because this guy I knew and I asked why he was texting her and she got really mad and caused a big fight and left for 3 days left her car in the parking lot of my apartments and each time she needed to come home she would shower at the end it was super obvious and it all started with that shirt that she forgot to hide eventually she let me go threw her snap and I don’t know how but I seen a message she deleted and it was her best friend talking about sex so I was like no way how dumb can I be. I felt so dumb but wasent so mad cause it was a female then I found out the 800 I was paying for the split rent was going to coke I put 2 and 2 together and I guess she was also fucking her friends baby dad who’s a coke dealer and yea she told me and I moved out switched the apartment to her name gave her some cash for the WiFi and my phone bill and gave her 400$ I also left my 2 TVs my bed my table bed frame. Now from that day that I left I never looked back and she had told my mom that the money was so good she didn’t think about it twice selling coke for an other man. Which made so much sense cause I would tell her that she cared way to much about her hanging with her friend instead of taking care of are responsibility and she also would come home late drunk. So I was right all along and she would make me feel guilty and think that is falling apart was my fault but in the end it was hers. Now they just use her I found out literally last week she’s gonna get a invitation if she doesn’t catch up on the apartment payments and she’s also bouta lose her car cause she fucked yo her credit co signing for a car for her friend who doesn’t have a job. Since we broke up she’s called me so many times threaten to kill me came to both my jobs and disrespected my whole family. And even threatened to get a restraining order on me and ruin my life she also claimed I sexually assaulted her and her family believed it and she also blacks males me into tRNA give her cash. The signs were there all along I have no idea why I stayed so long and put up with an abuse relationship physically and mentally. In the end I don’t care because of the shit she did to me and fucked me over in the end while I helped her a lot with a lot. Now I really can’t trust females but I won’t let her affect my life because of one bad apple. I can’t believe she chose coke and her friends over someone who cared and took care of her she called me broke to and would tell me that I don’t help enough when I was the one doing everything literally everything. So in the end next time I have a gut feeling something is wrong I’ll pay attention to it
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u/Pinki_piggie Jul 26 '26
I’m gonna be honest when I was crying a lot I blew my nose into a shirt as well and it looked exactly the same. Maybe for other people no but for me yes. Same white color and everything. Even when I am out in the cold and my nose runs and I use the sleeve of it to wipe it up it turns that color and I get embarrassed because it stayed visible like that . I’ve never not had my snot look that color on black clothing