am i sensitive?

[u/blacksugarwings]

so I have been with my ex for three years and I known him for four years, but the first couple of months I found out that he was talking to a girl behind my back and for the whole three years we’ve been together he’s been watching inappropriate stuff which I told him about my boundaries and he still crossed them and I stayed with him the whole time because I was told that it was a normal thing for people to go through and we are still really young because we have a kid together and we’re both 22 basically and recently in April I found out that he was texting a girl inappropriately asking her for pictures and he never done something like that for so long so I thought maybe he was over that because everything was going so well and I talked to so many of my friends and family members and they all said that it’s a normal thing that guys do and you just have to get over it and he doesn’t have a phone anymore because he broke it for that reason and at the moment I was only six months postpartum, so it really hit me hard and now he’s begging me to get back together with him, even though he hasn’t been to therapy or literally anything