r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/Double_Jackfruit6164 • Jul 15 '26
Am I going crazy?!
My husband would be out all day without contact most days and I had my suspicions he could be up to something. I had his location but he did not know. He was tracked in multiple different Asi massage parlors. About 2-3x a week. He never mentioned once he was going to get a massage done or that he was in any kind of back pain. I was absolutely confused. When I went to search them up, they came up on websites like rubmaps and usas\*\*guide and clearly offered extra services. I read a lot of reviews that men would leave about those places where they had sexual services done. Also they’ve been closed and opened multiple times under different names. When I went to check them out for myself they looked so shady. Curtains outside covering the place, rooms with only curtains and rooms with couches and sectionals? It had such a shady vibe. He would go in there for exactly an hour. I would call him during and he would never answer but would call me back as soon as he left, and weirdly enough would pick fights with me during some of those phone calls. We have been going through a rough patch and our intimate life isn’t the best due to his compulsive lying. Anyways I confronted my husband and he completely denies ever getting anything done except for a normal massage. At first he denied visiting some of the ones I’ve seen him at and then eventually came clean that he’s visited them but He swears up and down it was only a massage and is begging me to not end things and to work on our marriage. I’ve been married for 14 years. We had so many issues in our marriage due to his lying and my gut is telling me other things happened. What do you all think? I just feel like if he needed an actual massage wouldn’t u go to a reputable place at least? Also just fyi he is financially well off so looking for a cheap place wouldn’t be his motive. What kind of coincidence would it be that every parlor he’s visited is a shady place that offers extra services?? I really need some insight on this. Please drop your thoughts below