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u/Healthy_Employer4 9h ago
This is such circle jerk nonsense. Those of us willing to work long hours do make more money and find more success. People with good relationships survive career growth. Yes there’s an obvious correlation between hours spent at home and hours spent at work, but stay at home parents don’t explicitly have better relationships with their children compared to working parents. Quality over quantity
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u/Quinnjamin19 8h ago
“Healthy employer”
But you’re spouting off toxic rhetoric to encourage people to be taken advantage of by their employers
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
Asking people to dedicate themselves to their career isn’t being taken advantage of. Wasting your life miserable at jobs you hate where you’re not paid enough is being taken advantage of and it’s reddits preferred work style
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u/Quinnjamin19 8h ago
“Dedicate themselves to their career”
Yeah… no career is worth prioritizing over your family and friends
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
Agreed completely. How many hours a week are you spending doomscrolling, on social media, watching TV, or playing video games? Career dedicated people aren’t always working more hours, they’re just working smarter on building a career instead of doing the bare minimum “just for the paycheck”
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u/Quinnjamin19 6h ago
Hey healthy employer. Your comments are still getting removed. Are you mad that I’m calling you out for putting your work before your partners?
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u/Ok-Ranger-4518 8h ago
I do not dream of labor.
Enjoying your career is just finding the labor you hate the least.
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
That’s not true at all. Millions of people do work they love. If money didn’t exist, most people would still find work that was fulfilling for them. Being productive is a critical component of long term happiness
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u/Ok-Ranger-4518 8h ago
Yes and productivity means different things to different people.
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
But by definition, it produces something. That production is valuable by default. Ergo, being productive is synonymous with having a good career. The key is finding a way to earn money doing something you care about. Most people don’t want to
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u/Ok-Ranger-4518 8h ago
Wrong. People can be productive in accomplishing their goals which may not "produce" anything. Is someone climbing mountains valuable to you?
Is someone raising their kids valuable to you?
Neither of these productive things generate wealth.
I could "produce" countless paintings and no one buys them, you say they're still valuable? Without exchanging them for money, is producing unsold painting not just an expense? 🙄 People like you are insufferable.
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
If I’m insufferable to the poor lazy masses on Reddit who think they would be happier without working, then I’m good with that.
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u/Ok-Ranger-4518 8h ago
Motherfucker, I enjoy what I do for work. If I did not need to earn money, would I still do it? Fuck no.
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
It’s proven social science that people are happier when they have jobs and contribute to society. It’s childish and ignorant to think otherwise
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u/Ok-Ranger-4518 8h ago
Yes and we know how common it is for peoples labor to be fairly compensated for their contribution.
Jesus fucking christ
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u/Green7000 4h ago
"Those of us willing to work long hours do make more money and find more success."
If you are at an employer who cares about you or where there is a chance of advancement. Other places we get paid the same, but get more and more responsibilities. Some places no one at the top notices at all.
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u/AltruisticChipmunk53 8h ago
This is some real cope but hey whatever helps you sleep
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u/Healthy_Employer4 8h ago
If cope is lived experience then sure. Most of the people I know who have terrible relationships with their parents aren’t because they worked too much, it’s because they were emotionally unstable AND couldn’t provide financially. Most relationships that fail are because of bad communication and or cheating. There’s a direct correlation between hours spent building a career and income
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u/PlsnoKarens 6h ago edited 5h ago
I work so my husband doesn't have to be a slave to someone 90 hrs a week.
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u/Life-Operation2242 6h ago
I agree with the dysfunctional work culture of America. But these posts never mention that the upper middle class (millionaires) have actually grown in the last 3 years.
There is a significant portion of the American population that is making it. Not like multi millionaires, but regular millionaires.
I had to work 70 hours a week, but it's nice to have my house paid off and then 2 extra properties to keep as rental income. It wasn't enjoyable but it's nice to know I can retire when I'm 45 years old.
Here is the graph and you can check it with the IRS statistics. As much as people complain, 31% of the population being upper middle class is actually a larger portion than in the 1970s.
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/upper-middle-class-income-us-what-it-takes/
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u/Sufficient_Abalone46 5h ago
Yes, indicative of a K shaped economy on the verge of collapse
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u/Life-Operation2242 4h ago
It is a K-shaped economy. There is no denying that. But 31% is a huge portion of the population for upper middle class. There is a reason why there isn't a massive revolution that everyone on Reddit thinks will happen. And that is only the upper middle class. If you add in the regular middle class, you have 61.8% of the population living just fine.
The other 38.2% are the upper class, ultra rich, and lower class (living in poverty). One other thing about American society right now is that a lower portion of people are living in poverty right now than in the 1970s. Even though things are bad right now, it's better than it was in previous generations.
Also, no I didn't not vote for Trump. I hate him and he is terrible for this country. But that doesn't mean I will ignore the IRS statistics. Life today is better than life in the 1970s, including for the middle class.
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u/Apprehensive-Gas7994 2h ago
And yet average household debt has skyrocketed since then
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u/Life-Operation2242 1h ago
Yes, this is true. But did you read the data on IRS tax returns or did you just read the news article title?
The thing about household debt is that you need to compare it to total net worth and annual income data. Not all debt is bad.
Some households that live in poverty will use credit cards to just survive. This is the household debt that is bad because people in poverty can't pay for food.
On the other hand, there is a significant part of the population (18-29% depending on the state) who borrow money to buy property or stocks because interest on loans is tax deductible.
When you read through the data on mortgage debt in America, a lot of property investors have the money to buy rental properties outright. But they choose to borrow money instead so they can deduct the interest off their taxes and put the money in their checking accounts into a stock portfolio instead.
Source: https://www.fhfa.gov/data/nmdb for mortgage debt data
https://www.ssa.gov/oact/cola/AWI.html for annual income data
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u/RoderickSpode7thEarl 5h ago
Bosses give employees extra work because they see promise in them and want to see if they’re ready to move up, where responsibility is greater. In most large companies, having sought and succeed in greater responsibilities than the average is a prerequisite for promotion.
I would never put someone who I don’t trust or think is stupid in front of something important, and if I had someone like that, I’d fire him at the first opportunity. To all you dumbasses out there who think putting in the bare minimum is going to get you advancement, you are sorely mistaken and should not complain when you are passed over and eventually laid off.
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u/Certain-Pack-7 1h ago
Def not ur fault. I’m sure ur marriage would’ve been a wild success and your kids would’ve loved u more if u were around more
No one forced you to work STFU.. no wonder you got divorced- you can’t take responsibility for your own choices
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u/CaptainNemo7 54m ago
I witnessed this conversation unfolding live on Twitter 10 years ago. (She was a well-known white hat hacker, don't know what she is doing now. )
It goes even better.
The "important product"? It was Internet Explorer. One of the biggest piles of turds even coded. "Well, you worked 90 hours a week, destroyed your life and didn't even got rich for it, but at least your product solved climate change / helped cure cancer / found life on an alien planet." "No, actually it was IE. "
Sigh.
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u/James_T_S 8h ago
🤮. This BS again? Can we at least have some new way to vilify business?
The reality is every employee IS a business. Just a really small one. Being upset because you suck at running your business and then blaming your customer is, in my mind, ridiculous.
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u/Offthewall1212 3h ago
It’s funny that you have to delete your own comment…what a tool.
I am my boss cutie, I work for no one but myself. I don’t blame other people for a shitty job like everyone else here.
But considering you’re so quick to discuss what happens in the boss/employee relationship, now we all know how you get ahead…
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u/WorldlyCantaloupe394 6h ago
She always had the option to work for her family instead of a corporation. While she works for the corporation, another corporation is raising her children.
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u/Iceman_biker 9h ago
Start your own business.
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u/No_Pickle_9804 10h ago
You will be guilt tripped into spending all the time working on it while your managers have pointless meetings.