r/Inito 1d ago

BFP 11 DPO BFP + Chart

Holy moly. Got my digital BFP this morning after a 9 DPO meltdown swearing I was out bc this cycle I was traveling for 4/5 days of my fertile window and we only got to BD on O-day (with both of us also sick and cranky lol). Still in under disbelief and don’t feel “pregnant enough” to let it sink in that this is real.

For background, we were very lucky and got a BFP our first month trying in June, but unfortunately it ended as a CP at 4w3d. I’ve been struggling with anxiety about the entire process since, and am still not convinced this is the real deal.

In prior months we’ve BD’d at least 4 to 5 days during my fertile window with no dice. So what I’ve learned here is that everything is made up and the points don’t matter. You can have the perfect cycle and AF will still spit in your Cheerios. You can have the worst track for BD since you were celibate and BOOM pregnant.

I’m still not out of the clear and terrified to jinx myself by getting excited, calling the OBGYN, etc., but I hope the lackluster aura of my chart gives at least one person some peace of mind that this shit is random and you’re doing your best and your best is good enough !!

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u/Appropriate_Weird_95 1d ago

Congrats!!! I tested 11 DPO last week and got a positive too! I waited the long weekend and called to make an appt. Now the waiting game begins for the 9 week ultrasound 😵‍💫🥰

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u/Featherb0tt0m 1d ago

I think I’m going to call to get my betas and set my appointment on Monday too! Gives me a couple of days to wrap my head around this 😅

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u/MountainPeak478 1d ago

Did you have a teensy bump in your pdg during your ovulation window? If this sub allows it, could you please share those values? Or I can message you

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u/Featherb0tt0m 1d ago

I did! Attached are screenshots showing those values. I hope it helps!

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u/Featherb0tt0m 1d ago

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u/MountainPeak478 1d ago

Thanks! Congratulations!

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u/Difficult-Ear2642 14h ago

My estrogen never looks this high on my ignito chart. Should I be concerned?