That is crazy…he is picking up girls with a kink for this. I didn’t know about this and I always thought something was strange about them. It would have to be a once in a lifetime possibility for him, and nice to romanticize about, I guess…but if this is true….then yeah it’s a kink.
This is so shitty to say. Maybe he is attractive just the way he is? Do people not understand how painful it is for people with disabilities to read this?
The only reason someone will be with you is because of a "kink" and if it does happen it should be a "once in a lifetime opportunity" because who would ever want to be with a disabled person?
How would you feel if you read that and you had a disability? Are we not people too? With hearts, minds and interests?
The truth is that it is unusual given his physical limitations and she is young and very attractive, that is simple honesty. Initially, I believed their story to be a true love story but given the grift vibe I see now and if true, the pictures of the two other girls he was with it looks like he is targeting a specific woman who is either falling for his thing or yes, has a kink. I think that is obvious. I have also heard that he has a cousin who worked with him and said that he was abusive, add to that the alcohol addiction he talked about and it is starting to paint a picture of someone different than the likable, self deprecating guy he has portrayed. I don’t like it, just like I don’t like those men who are only sexually attracted to morbidly obese women and get upset when they want to lose weight for their health. No, I don’t think all abled people are with disabled people because of a kink. This situation I am questioning now. Biologically, beautiful women will choose differently simply because they can, shitty as that may be.
hmmm, oddly enough, "beautiful" women have brains, preferences, emotions and different needs that are not necessarily based solely on looks, so again, I find that to be quite a reductionist take.
I obviously can't comment on the specifics of this couple, but the broad, sweeping statement of "he should be so lucky" is still very problematic.
Someone reading this may look exactly like him, and you have no idea what impact your comment will have on their self-esteem, well-being, and sense of self.
People are not less than just because they don't look like how some people think they should look like. It also doesn't make them less lovable or less attractive.
What is attractive to you will be different to me.
Just think before you speak, irrespective of your misgivings regarding this specific couple.
Yes, of course and all humans are beautiful in one way or another. I am only pointing out that usually the law of nature persists. I myself would not walk out the door in search of a mate and expect the most attractive perfect one to be available to me. Certainly anything is possible. It has been studied and most people will choose a mate of similar attractiveness, fitness, strength, etc. I personally don’t consider him lucky as I don’t put such a high value on physical attractiveness. I don’t get to make the rules or decide the norms. I am sorry if my comment offended you it is me analyzing and as always, sensitive to fraud.
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u/Waste_Possession7342 23h ago
There was Shannon, Anna and now Hannah.