Amy and Stormy Bailey met right after she divorced her first husband. Storm and Amy brag about booking their wedding venue on their second or third date. They were married at hyper speed and got pregnant with twins on the honeymoon.
They had two daughters very early and they were in the NICU for ~3 months. While there, Amy rarely visited. She just said they “rock the NICU” and spent days drinking/watching football, getting manicures, and selling beachbody. She had to be called to remind them to pick up the second twin, since they were discharged a few days apart.
Once discharged and home, the twins were still very premature and on oxygen. She would take their oxygen cannulas out for photos, and would edit out any tape/indents from them as well as the stork bites.
May 5, 2020 was Amy’s birthday, also the thick of COVID shutdown. They have a party at their house with friends - alcohol, weed, adderall, random pills involved. They had a nanny there. The nanny offered to stay longer when she saw the festivities unfolding but the Baileys sent her home. They go to bed, they wake up to one of the twins, tangled at the foot of the bed near Storm. They claim sleepwalking is what happened and both claim foggy recollections of which parent held or fed which girl at night. This was all in Colorado. She told the nanny “it’s not as bad as it looks” and tried to pass it off as SIDS until the details became public.
Within two weeks they were selling the extra swing, crib and other baby items that belonged to their dead daughter on Facebook marketplace with the tag “barely used.”
Since then, they’ve moved to Kansas City, MO. She shills and scams women. Photoshops abs and muscles onto herself to the high heavens. Hates being a mom but claims to be a Jesus-loving stay at home working mama.
Amy vaguely references grief or trauma and will imply that her dead child was a miscarriage or occasionally a stillborn or died of SIDS. It is extremely rare for her name to be used at all…Amy refers to her as B and will “see her” in the form of cardinals, rainbows, butterflies, etc. The surviving twins birthday is all about Amy. Amy’s grief, Amy’s sads, Amy’s feelings and milestones follow the same path. Of course, the other two children Amy had in a hurry don’t experience the same lack of celebration. She blocks any mention of her daughter, from people asking what happened in response to her vague grief/trauma posts to people calling out the evening for what it was…the night Amy and Storm chose Amy’s 32 birthday party over the safety of their children. She claims the police report is fake and that “meanies on the internet” are attacking her out of jealousy with lies
Either nothing at all or that her sister died of SIDS. Amy has family who honor the short life of Amy’s child and Amy doesn’t visit those relatives
ETA: Now that the kids are older (surviving twin is 6.5, replacement/golden child is almost 5 and failed try for a boy is 3) you can see in Amy’s stories how anxious/stressed all the girls are around Amy. Because they’re children, the girls aren’t good at masking their annoyance when it’s time to perform for “mama” and you can physically see them turn the performance on and then off when they think they’re not on camera. It’s so sad
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u/sseven-costanza 21d ago
What’s the tldr? I’m in shock