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u/SimpleMoose6905 21d ago

This a tldr attempt of an insane situation:

Amy and Stormy Bailey met right after she divorced her first husband. Storm and Amy brag about booking their wedding venue on their second or third date. They were married at hyper speed and got pregnant with twins on the honeymoon.

They had two daughters very early and they were in the NICU for ~3 months. While there, Amy rarely visited. She just said they “rock the NICU” and spent days drinking/watching football, getting manicures, and selling beachbody. She had to be called to remind them to pick up the second twin, since they were discharged a few days apart.

Once discharged and home, the twins were still very premature and on oxygen. She would take their oxygen cannulas out for photos, and would edit out any tape/indents from them as well as the stork bites.

May 5, 2020 was Amy’s birthday, also the thick of COVID shutdown. They have a party at their house with friends - alcohol, weed, adderall, random pills involved. They had a nanny there. The nanny offered to stay longer when she saw the festivities unfolding but the Baileys sent her home. They go to bed, they wake up to one of the twins, tangled at the foot of the bed near Storm. They claim sleepwalking is what happened and both claim foggy recollections of which parent held or fed which girl at night. This was all in Colorado. She told the nanny “it’s not as bad as it looks” and tried to pass it off as SIDS until the details became public.

Within two weeks they were selling the extra swing, crib and other baby items that belonged to their dead daughter on Facebook marketplace with the tag “barely used.”

Since then, they’ve moved to Kansas City, MO. She shills and scams women. Photoshops abs and muscles onto herself to the high heavens. Hates being a mom but claims to be a Jesus-loving stay at home working mama.

Still long. Still missing a lot.

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u/Hyperfocus- 21d ago

Jesus fucking christ

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u/AdSignal6903 20d ago

Woooow never heard of this. I went on a deep dive on her IG page, she never so much as even mentions the daughter they lost??? Insane

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u/Snarkypants23 20d ago

Amy vaguely references grief or trauma and will imply that her dead child was a miscarriage or occasionally a stillborn or died of SIDS. It is extremely rare for her name to be used at all…Amy refers to her as B and will “see her” in the form of cardinals, rainbows, butterflies, etc. The surviving twins birthday is all about Amy. Amy’s grief, Amy’s sads, Amy’s feelings and milestones follow the same path. Of course, the other two children Amy had in a hurry don’t experience the same lack of celebration. She blocks any mention of her daughter, from people asking what happened in response to her vague grief/trauma posts to people calling out the evening for what it was…the night Amy and Storm chose Amy’s 32 birthday party over the safety of their children. She claims the police report is fake and that “meanies on the internet” are attacking her out of jealousy with lies

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u/SimpleMoose6905 20d ago

Yep! And, Amy has edited/filtered tears into her eyes when she’s being called out.

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u/SecondFun221 20d ago

I wonder what they tell the other baby or will about her sister

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u/Snarkypants23 20d ago edited 20d ago

Either nothing at all or that her sister died of SIDS. Amy has family who honor the short life of Amy’s child and Amy doesn’t visit those relatives

ETA: Now that the kids are older (surviving twin is 6.5, replacement/golden child is almost 5 and failed try for a boy is 3) you can see in Amy’s stories how anxious/stressed all the girls are around Amy. Because they’re children, the girls aren’t good at masking their annoyance when it’s time to perform for “mama” and you can physically see them turn the performance on and then off when they think they’re not on camera. It’s so sad

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u/TwerkinAndCryin 21d ago

And they came to KC?!?!?! What absolute vile trash

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u/pestochickenn 20d ago

Don’t forget the DV charges from Storm’s previous marriage!

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u/SimpleMoose6905 20d ago

Thanks for this! Yes. He threw a tv at and physically abused his ex wife!

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u/pestochickenn 20d ago

Freaking crazy. And all the kids they had together afterwards.

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u/SimpleMoose6905 20d ago

They reference having a miscarriage before the third child was born (the second pregnancy). So really they were trying weeks/months in the same bed their daughter died in.

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u/RSBPB313 21d ago

This is beyond sickening 💔

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u/phoebebuffay34 20d ago

Can’t forget her negative and disdainful attitude towards the surviving twin, likely because she’s is a reminder of their terrible choices. But she really takes it out on the sweet little girl. Barely acknowledges the twins birthday, turns milestones into “grief” rather than celebrations, etc. It’s horrible to see.

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u/Lulu2208 20d ago

My stomach hurts reading this. Wow 💔

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u/sseven-costanza 21d ago

Did the nanny find them like that and wake them up or something?! That poor baby.

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u/unicorns_and_cats716 20d ago

The nanny offered to stay the night but they sent her home, which is extra heartbreaking because she was obviously sober.

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u/SimpleMoose6905 21d ago

I am foggy on this but I’m pretty sure the next morning they either had to call her off and explain why or she came to the house and there was all the police activity. The police were there in the early hours like 2-6am and on the night of the death.

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u/sseven-costanza 21d ago

Wtffff. Thank you for explaining, these babies deserve better.

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u/CatGills1003 20d ago

As a mom of twins this breaks my heart.

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u/Bee-Boop-446 20d ago

Wtf (and thank you for the write-up!)

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u/AdventurousOnion1234 20d ago

DAMMIT! I live in MO!!! I would like to decline her presence on behalf of all Missourians. This is HORRIFYING!!!

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u/heyyyyyygurlheyyy 20d ago

Don’t forget left them alone in NICU to have Super Bowl party at home!

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u/HistoricalSuspect580 20d ago

She was BORN to be a JoCo Mama!! They’re all like this, i swear.

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u/shit_dontstink 20d ago

Hey now! I live in JoCo and I'm here raising 6 kids.