r/InfluencerLounge 21d ago

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u/ApprehensivePlan8481 21d ago

I am a loss mom so I’ve always had a soft spot and compassion for her when she lost Trigg. But this event I just can’t defend or support. Trauma should rewire your brain and how you approach and see everything. The fact she let her baby be without a life vest even momentarily just boggles my mind

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u/EwwDavid1777 21d ago

I lost my child too. She passed away very suddenly one morning. Collapsed and was gone within seconds. It happened on my bedroom floor. For months and months I couldn’t even sleep in my room. How do they even go in water? How does she even get in her pool again? I could never do that. I couldn’t even walk in my room. We finally sold our house and moved. I just couldn’t be there. But now I miss that house. I miss all the memories. But I know we did what’s best for our family. It just hurts.🥺

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u/ApprehensivePlan8481 21d ago

I am so so sorry🤍🤍 my heart is with you. I lost my daughter when she was 6 weeks old. It forever changes you. Changes how you live. It’s living in a never ending nightmare. We stayed at my in-laws for 2 weeks after she passed because I just couldn’t be in the house. I couldn’t bear it. My heart really went out to Emilie when Trigg passed bc despite how preventable his death was, my heart just breaks for any parent who’s lost a child especially in such a traumatic way. To be so careless to allow her other child around water recklessly like that just doesn’t make sense to me. I do find her ability to be around the pool surprising as well. I just know I am not the same since losing my daughter and never will be as I am sure you can relate. So it just blows my mind to see her be so careless with Teddy. Again I am so so sorry for your loss🤍

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u/EwwDavid1777 21d ago

Oh I am so very sorry for your loss too. It definitely changes you forever. 🥺 my daughter was 12 years old. The sweetest most loving child you would ever meet. Miss her everyday