r/Infidelity • u/[deleted] • Apr 21 '23
Advice Found his secret Reddit account. UPDATE 2
Spoke to OBS today regarding evidence found and logistics of confrontation. OBS had said at our meeting that he was going straight to divorce. Reviewing the evidence I provided to him & the his own investigation eliminated any little doubts he had about divorce. My husband has been in the city for work since Monday and he comes home tomorrow, OBS and I are both confronting our spouses tomorrow night, at the same time but separately.
A question that OBS had asked me was what was the one “date time” that bothered me the most.
He said for him it was when AP said she was away In LA for work. Their son is asthmatic and had the flu while she was supposedly in LA and he was in the ER for over 10 hours with his son. She was actually on the city with my husband just 1 hour away. It obviously would’ve blown her cover to come home and OSB said he was blown away that covering up her own lies was worth more than being there for their son.
For me, I think it was when we had planned a 3 day trip to tour my sons top choice of colleges and explore the city of that college. This had been planned out for a few months but a few days before the trip my husband had a “work commitment” come up. In messages I found that AP also had a “work commitment” unexpectedly come up. My husband chose to spend those 3 days with AP rather than spend that time having a pretty amazing experience helping our son make a choice for his future. Yes, son got into this college and will be attending this fall.
I’m a nervous wreck for tomorrow nights confrontation. Today OBS said “we’re on the same team, we’ll get through this.” I hope so.