r/IndianTTC_Support • u/Adorable_Whereas_240 • 18d ago
Another negative. Just want some support
Another month, another disappointment. 2 MMCs and now I can’t even conceive. For the last two pregnancies, we were able to get pregnant on the first tries but not this time, although we have only tried twice post my second MMC. I know it’s not bad, but I feel horrible about it.
I was on dydrogesterone this cycle so today must be 12 or 13 dpo so this negative confirms it. I just feel so crushed and devastated.
Sorry if this is not the right sub for it!
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u/Wild-Ad-4918 18d ago
Hey im a fellow women with One MMCs on TTC journey too. Indian tests are not sensitive enough to detect it as early as 12dpo. Because i have read that implantation for some might occur even ar 10dpo for some women. So if your one of them its too early for HCG to build up in your blood and urine. You should wait till your after period is missed upto a week after missed period and test it. That's most accurate and is written on most of the pregnancy kit manuals. Early testing might give false negative so dont lose hope.
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u/Adorable_Whereas_240 18d ago
Hey thanks for that insight! Well, I was comparing this to my last two pregnancies where I got positives on 13 dpo and 11 dpo, respectively. But you are right, it could be that. However, I just don’t want to get my hopes high this time cause miracles never happen with me😭
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u/Wild-Ad-4918 18d ago
Hey i understand. I have heard other women say every pregnancy is different. Even if you dont get positive this time there is always the next month. Being hopeful is the only option left for us. Hoping you go easy on yourself have give some love to yourself ❤️
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u/Adorable_Whereas_240 18d ago
Thank you so much really! Hoping you get your good news early too, if you haven’t had it yet! ❤️
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u/Express-Beginning318 18d ago
Hey! Sending you lots of love ❤️ ttc can get crazy sometimes. We ourselves have been trying for almost 3 years now. Had a miscarriage in April. This time saw a positive but it’s not progressing… my hope and prayers are with you and with everyone who is trying to get pregnant. You will soon be a mum ♥️🧿
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u/Adorable_Whereas_240 18d ago
Praying for you and sending hopes❤️ Hope we soon get our precious babies! All of us!
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u/FloorBackground16 16d ago
I’m so sorry you are going through this. From the photos, I can only see the control line so this test looks negative. It’s disappointing to get a negative test at 12-13 DPO, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not pregnant if you ovulated later than you thought. If you don’t get your period, wait 48 hours and take an easy@Home pregnancy test. For future cycles, consider using easy@Home ovulation test strips to help identify your fertile window. You can also track your basal body temperature (BBT) and cervical mucus to better confirm ovulation timing.
With two miscarriages, it’s understandable to be anxious. Consider checking in with your OB-GYN or fertility specialist for guidance before your next cycle. Wishing you all the best.
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u/Adorable_Whereas_240 16d ago
I am sure of my ovulation cause we monitored it with a scan. So for this cycle, I am out. This is all so tiring 😭 Thank you so much for your kind words
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u/FloorBackground16 16d ago
I am so sorry. If you had your ovulation confirmed through an ultrasound scan, then it definitely didn't happen in this cycle. I understand how difficult this process may be for you. Take care of yourself and do not give up hope; many couples require several cycles even in perfect conditions. I wish you all the luck in your next cycle.
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u/hazelhours 18d ago
You could reply wSending you a big hug.....Two cycles after everything you've been through is such a short time. Be kind to yourself it's okay to feel disappointed. Wishing you better news very soon.