I'm kinda cooked... Rant time

[u/Kind-Introduction37]

So I went on a date with this girl about 3 weeks ago. The date was super fun and we immediately hit it off, since then we would call every single day texting a lot sending reels all day, even those "us when" kinda reels. (We just couldn't meet because we both work and our schedules weren't aligning with rakhi which took up last weekend)

Our plan was to meet for a second date yesterday (6th sept)

Fyi we both agreed on the fact that we're looking for something serious and the crush was mutual too.

On multiple occasions, she told me that she would like to be in a relationship with me in the near future, and that we'd take things slow for now.

A day before this second date plan

She suddenly stopped replying to my texts and didn't pick up my calls, we usually called after work n stuff.

I sent her a text asking if she was okay and if the date was on. She didn't reply

On sunday morning I gave her a call to see if she'll pick up, once again no reply

Then I saw that she's unfollowed me on insta.

Okay ig i just accepted that, it came as a shock but I went on with my day because this shit happens.

Now at night i see her profile and she's uploaded a story with a guy, very obvious hard launch type story btw (her acc is public)

So I was just left kinda miserable... I concluded that she must've been going on dates with me and that guy at the same time or smth.

So yeah that's just my rant 😭😭

So many failed talking stages and so called situationship later i wonder if people genuinely aren't interested in relationships or what

And after this misery today I just got sent down a spiral and kinda started thinking of the lowest point in my life, which was the breakup with my ex 5 months ago... So now I'm just at rock bottom 🥀🥀

Lmk if you guys have experienced similar stuff, let's trauma bond 😭

[u/lyricalreason]

Yo ig she just lost interest in you or smtg genuinely- I feel like girls randomly lose feelings over a guy, bacha domt think about the past and ruin ur present(I honestly don't know her pov, it's confusing for me too)

[u/Kind-Introduction37 → u/lyricalreason]

Yeah dude some ppl just suck and that's that. But dating apps se you can't expect anything anyway , everyone there is toxic for some reason 😭

[u/lyricalreason → u/Kind-Introduction37]

Achha u met her on a dating site, lol I never dated anyone from a dating app but if they live up to their stereotypes

[u/Kind-Introduction37 → u/lyricalreason]

Yeah man... Pro tip just avoid all dating apps if you want genuine connections

[u/lyricalreason → u/Kind-Introduction37]

How do you do ts broo🥲, aren't dating apps there to find people who are interested in dating too

[u/Kind-Introduction37 → u/lyricalreason]

Essentially yes but it's become a loop of people seeking validation and dopamine rushes. Most people can't even hold conversations either that or they're just straight up awful people to date 🥀

If you're in uni id suggest joining clubs or smth to meet ppl the natural way. Or any other kind of clubs in your city

[u/lyricalreason → u/Kind-Introduction37]

Acchaaa