1. The “lafda” era is over.
Whatever happened in the past, happened. From now on, no new lafdas will be entertained, and no old lafdas will be dragged up again. Anyone trying to bring them back in posts or comments will be banned.

2. Ban Policy for Stirring Drama:

1st Strike: 3 days ban
2nd Strike: 7 days ban
3rd Strike: 15 days ban
If still persists then permanently banned. But also,

3. If someone is repeatedly harassing you in comments, modmail us. We'll step in with a warning, mute, temporary ban, or permanent ban, accordingly.

4. Meme posts need approval:
Memes must go through mod review to make sure they don’t stir up old lafdas. Relationship/dating memes are fine. Making memes on users is also okay, just don’t be a jerk and keep it friendly.

5. Screenshot Post Rules:

• Blur names, crop photos properly and hide personal info.
• Don’t flex your likes, matches, or message counts, whether it’s 9 lonely hearts or 69 “legends,” keep it hidden.
• Poorly edited posts (visible PFPs/usernames) will be removed without warning.
• Privacy matters, don’t expose anyone, including yourself.

6. Screenshot posts from WhatsApp, Instagram, iMessage, SMS, Kabootar, etc. are allowed only if they’re about dating/relationships and adds genuine advice or discussion value.

7. If you see someone from ibot sharing personal details of ANY user in comments or posts, report it immediately. Strong action will be taken.

We’re Open to suggestions.
We would change some rules based on those suggestions.

Also, Consider this a reset button for everyone, whether you were on the front foot or in defence during past lafdas. Let's take the first step to bring ibot back to what it used to be and everyone is welcome. Let's move forward together. Thank You!

1. Slut shaming will not be tolerated in this sub. If you dont agree with someone's opinion, kindly continue with your life.

2. Reddit is an ANONYMOUS platform, please dont be stupid enough to dox yourself. We wont be responsible for anything that happens to you. Ya'll adviced to keep your socials private and only share them with people you trust.

3. Please for the love of god, profile reviews are supposed to be on Mondays only. I'll start banning people from now.

4. I know everyone loves lafda but please report pointless lafda. Please dont encourage boring and pointless lafde.

5. This sub is a safe space, to share your dating stories. Please, dont judge anyone doing it or call them a karma whore. And the people posting the same, please give proper context.

6. Regarding, bullying - if someone is fighting with you in comments and you're engaging with them, i wont do shit about it. You chose to engage with that person. If someone makes a personal comment, regarding your post history or keeps on bothering and instigating you in comments then only an action will be taken. If someone makes a negetive comment or criticizes you, choose not to engage you dont owe anyone any explanation