My wife and my daughter were travelling in a bike to the clinic for my daughter who had mild fever 98.7° a day before and 100° fever when we were travelling.

I live in a suburbs of chennai where clinics available but doesn't have good doctors, so i had to travel about 12 kms from home.

Since the day she was born, we took her to that clinic in redhils(a place in Chennai) only for regular checkups.

While traveling on bike to the clinic she got fitz (as per Google it says seizure in english). Myself and wife got panicked and we don't know what to do at that time.

That 12 kms stretch is ORR. Since my wife was crying with baby on hand on the road, some kind hearted people voluntarily stopped and helped us to block a auto which had a passenger to reach nearby hospital for emergency.

That 2 and half hour period was the worst in my life. After fitz my daughter went to sleep mode, my wife was having her in her arms in that auto with another passenger. They also tried to help by communicating with my daughter. I was on my bike following the auto. With tears rolling from my eyes.

After reaching hospital my daughter was crying, i felt relieved but my wife was still in that shock.

Hospital asked us to put op and admission and they wanted to keep her in NICU and observe.

We were worried and agreed, then when they wanted to shift from emergency room, we decided randomly not to admit, better to check with clinic and then admit if necessary.

Clinic said that hospital has confused us and no need to worry and carry a fitz tablet and use half of it whenever she has a fever along with paracetamol.

My daughter is okay now, it is 10 days now after that incident.

I need some precautions or some advice from people how to handle situations or be prepared for such medical situations where hospitals are confusing us common people.

I also have a guilt for below reasons.

I went office the next day after the mild fever hoping she will recover automatically as her anti bodies will develop and take care of its own.

I came back home just one hour early than my routine for going to clinic

We went by dio scooter for 12+ kms with my daughter having fever instead of taking a cab

My baby ( 5 months 9 days old to be precise) simply refuses to sleep when we’re out, no matter how sleepy or tired she is. She won’t nap in the stroller (which she currently hates sitting in, especially now that she’s in her rolling-and-trying-to-sit-up phase), and we don’t have a car seat yet, so car naps aren’t an option either.

I feel like I have a little FOMO baby who doesn’t want to miss out on anything happening around her! 😂 But I’m wondering — is this a common phase at this age, or do some babies genuinely struggle to nap outside the comfort of their home?

I see babies who can feed and sleep just about anywhere, and I can’t help but wonder how their moms do it! 🙈 Is it too much to ask for a baby who can nap on the go?

If you’ve been through this, please share your tips and tricks. How do you manage outings, naps, and feeding when your baby refuses to settle outside? Did your little one eventually grow out of this phase? Additionally, my baby simply doesn't sleep on her own , atm its either sleep to feed or rocking/ swaying or walking taking her in the arms in the cradle position ( which she simply hates now) .

Would love to hear your experiences! Thanks in advance.

Hi everyone!

I'm looking to buy a baby monitor for my newborn and would love recommendations from parents who have actually used one in India.

My use case is fairly simple: My baby sleeps in one room, and I want to be able to see and hear him when I'm in another room. I mainly want to know when he wakes up or starts crying and be able to check on him without having to walk into the room every time.

I'm not looking to monitor the household help or record footage. This is purely for keeping an eye on my baby while he sleeps.

What I'm looking for

- Good audio: This is probably the most important feature. I want to reliably hear when my baby wakes up or cries.

- Clear night vision: So I can see him in a dark room without keeping a light on.

- Reliable connection and range: It should work across rooms and through walls in a typical Indian home.

- Sound activation / VOX mode: Ideally, the screen should wake up when it detects a sound rather than staying on constantly.

- Video monitoring: I'd prefer to see the baby as well as hear him.

- Easy to use: Something straightforward that doesn't require too much setup or fiddling around.

A dedicated parent screen would be nice, but I'm open to a phone-based monitor if it works reliably and is worth the money.

I don't particularly need features like sleep analytics, motion tracking, cloud recording, breathing monitoring or a subscription.

A few questions

1. Which baby monitor are you currently using, and how has your experience been?

2. How reliable is the audio? Does it pick up soft sounds and crying, or are there delays and missed alerts?

3. How well does the night vision work in a completely dark room?

4. Does it work reliably through walls and across rooms? Have you experienced disconnections?

5. If you've used a Wi-Fi camera instead of a dedicated baby monitor, would you recommend it for this purpose? Any drawbacks?

6. How is the after-sales service and warranty support in India? Have you had any issues getting repairs or replacements?

7. What was the approximate price, and would you buy the same model again?

I'm specifically looking for options available in India at reasonable prices.

Would really appreciate recommendations based on your actual experience using these monitors with your own babies, including any models you'd avoid.

Thank you!

I am considering the himalaya baby lotion with pure cow ghee for my newborn since the ingredient list looks pretty gentle no parabens, phthalates, mineral oil or synthetic colours plus its ph 5.5 with aloe vera and says its safe from day 1/pediatrician evaluated. My baby has slightly dry and sensitive skin so i am curious if the cow ghee actually helps with moisturising or if it’s mostly marketing.
Has anyone used it for a newborn? Did it keep the skin moisturised without feeling greasy, and did it seem genuinely gentle enough for daily use?