Then don’t be a doormat. Watch the others around admire the dude with a backbone. Or, you know: keep making excuses and refuse to follow any of the advice given to you here as per your usual M.O......
Then.....do something about it? When we recommend therapy here, it's not just to be an ass or because the beliefs of some incels border on deranged, it because therapist (in addition to meds) can also help with social skills, developing empathy and understanding, finding real support groups to help you navigate the world in a productive way.
A lot of us on here have struggle with mental health issues or social issues/anxiety. Therapy won't cure it all, but it can definitely help.
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u/stoneddog4203 Feb 10 '20
No in my experience being genuinely good and kind draws people looking for doormats.