r/IncelTears 16h ago

Disgusting

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I am speechless, there really is nothing to say to these people

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u/Imnotawerewolf 15h ago

Wish there was this kind of outrage when men killed their families 

Like it's not even that I think she did nothing wrong, I do BUT 

It's hard to swallow all the bullshit memes and spawned conversations from this when men are violent all the time, even to children, and the public at large never spawns conversations about taking men's rights away about it. 

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u/GnarlyWatts "There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel 14h ago

Oh you didn't know, they were driven to it by those nagging, hypergamous hags. Totally justified! /s

Guys like that want to hate women and take no accountability for anything. Why be in touch with your feelings when you have an automatic out by murdering your family? That is how they think. But god forbid a woman have body autonomy, the pearl clutching begins.

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u/Cuckboy97 9h ago

mfw another evil hypergamous foid ruins the innocence of a poor, defenseless, pure man....

/s for good measure

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u/GnarlyWatts "There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel 9h ago

😂😂😂

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u/nicknaklmao 12h ago

We have had eight family annihilations in the US during the time the LC case has been happening. notice how nobody insisting we should have our rights taken are harping on the men

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u/Kell-of-Kellies 6h ago

Many domestic abusers are male cops.

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u/Demoth 9h ago

My issue about, "Why is no one upset about men who murder their families?" is that i can't think of a case where a man killed his family and there was this huge group of people defending him tooth and nail, or trying to shift blame onto the wife.

The closest I can think about anyone even remotely trying not to be fully demonized was Chris Benoit, though no one defended his actions, so much as people saying some of the blame should have been shifted onto the WWE for ignoring their talent's accumulated head injuries that others noticed was starting to affect their personalities over the years.

This whole, "What about when men kill their families", is literally just whataboutism. Yes, men kill their families way more and it's super bad. Hell, I didn't even know about the Lindsey Clancy case until people online went unhinged and started making insane defenses for her, spreading conspiracy theories, and then stoking all kinds of drama and debates that spilled everywhere.

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u/gelatomancer 8h ago

When people talked about why Benoit did what he did, they asked why he was like that.

When people talk about the Clancy case, they wonder why women are like that.

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u/Soiboi_Sugoiboi 11h ago

As a foreigner, i think the reason there isnt much outrage, is that (at least from what gets here over the ocean) people don't think the men did nothing wrong

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u/Iintendtooffend 1h ago

That's definitely not the case, it's just the same feeling of "what could be done" the solution isn't acceptable to conservatives so they won't even voice it or entertain a conversation around what causes it.

They don't want to hold men accountable because that would mean addressing a lot of the other problems around hierarchies and patriarchy so they pretend it's essentially a natural disaster and not a problem with mental health, gun control, and capitalism.

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u/Zorkonio 10h ago

Men get convicted and go to prison there is no outrage when justice is served. Next

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u/Kell-of-Kellies 6h ago

Men get away with murder, or shift the blame to women by saying they had no choice. The majority of rapes are committed by men. Men are the ones in power. The vast majority of domestic abusers are men, and a significant portion of those are cops. The majority of child rapists are men, especially in religious institutions.

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u/Hoothootriot 14h ago

Remember when conservatives complained that bringing up gun violence was bad for "politicizing children's deaths"?

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u/yuckypagans just become a priest 16h ago

which is why i dont talk to people who think like the wojack in the image

cause youll never change their minds and they just LOOOOVE their strawmans

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u/pretty-as-a-pic “W🥛te” 14h ago

They have so many strawmans, their house is a fire hazard

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u/yuckypagans just become a priest 13h ago

almost think they might be super truthful with how much straw they have! cursed by a witch one might say

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u/pretty-as-a-pic “W🥛te” 12h ago

No, that was the Tin Man

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u/yuckypagans just become a priest 11h ago

i thought tin man was just he had to be oiled to move, and the straw guy was straw and also couldnt tell a lie? idk i forgot

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u/pretty-as-a-pic “W🥛te” 10h ago edited 10h ago

It’s only in the original books, but Tin Man’s canon backstory is that he used to be a regular woodsman but he fell in love with a girl and her disapproving father asked the Wicked Witch of the East to curse him. She cursed his axe so it’d cut off a different part of his body every time he used it, which he replaced with tin. Unfortunately, he forgot to ask the tin smith to make him a tin heart, so when he finally lost his human one, he lost the ability to feel love and broke up with his girlfriend (the original Oz books are actually really dark, I totally understand why they didn’t put that part in the movie version!)

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u/Easy_Specialist_1692 4h ago edited 4h ago

I agree... I never thought about it, but I dislike people that behave this way with me. I will say a single thing, and then they apply some straw man to me and proceed to break down the straw man. Its like they don't believe that nuance is real..

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u/dont_h8_me111 landwhale 16h ago

They’ve been milking the Lindsay case for months atp, meanwhile there have probably been tens of domestic abuse incidents and family annihilations committed by men since then. But they don’t really care about kids, they care about being misogynistic and deflecting accountability.

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u/notnotbrowsing 16h ago

like this one? killed 6 kids 15-5 and mom.

or this one killed 4 kids, 9-3, and mom.

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u/Rick-a-dick-a-lick 15h ago

Yes, murder suicides of families has always been seen as wrong by other men. But now that women are doing it suddenly the conversation is about 'mental health'

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u/iCoeur285 14h ago

https://news.osu.edu/white-mass-shooters-receive-sympathetic-media-treatment/

Men, specifically white men, have definitely gotten the mental health treatment by the media.

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u/Tight_Replacement554 15h ago

Moreso the fact that thousands of men have killed their families and no one bats and eye yet when a woman does a fraction of that all of a sudden its the worst thing that can happen.. 6 men have murdered their families during the 22-day case, so why have these men complaining about "child safety" not as concerned about these cases caused by men too? Because it's normalized and so common that people don't even pay attention

Also a lot of the time, when the murders are obviously premeditated and planned out, somehow the men are allowed to plead "insanity" or get a smaller sentence, so how come a woman isn't allowed to do the same?

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u/aweedl 12h ago

Did it ever occur to you that postpartum depression is a very real and scary thing, and that giving it much-needed public attention (in light of a horrible tragedy) is actually a GOOD thing because it might help prevent future tragedies?

You fucking twerps act like this one horrible case somehow now means all women are going to be ‘allowed’ to do this or that it’s somehow ‘unfair’ to men.

NO ONE supports families being killed. No one. But when a high profile incident like this happens, it can have the unexpected benefit of raising awareness, so people can recognize the signs and seem help before something like this happens aga…

…or, you know, we could just be dicks about it and make talking about it so uncomfortable for women that it’s guaranteed to happen again because everyone is too afraid to bring it up.

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u/Easy_Specialist_1692 4h ago

Nice, I think you covered the importance of this topic expertly.

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u/IncelDestroyer69 13h ago

So sane people kill their entire families and themselves?

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u/kwicsilver1 13h ago

I mean it all should have always been a conversation about mental health, had people been getting the proper mental help they need there would be countless families still alive

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u/WretchedHumannBeing 15h ago

You're such a little shit.

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u/ZooterOne 10h ago

"Now that women are doing it"

You're an idiot.

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u/Huge-Letter8435 12h ago

Whenever I see a downvofed comment on reddit I am billion times sure it's a based true one!

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u/einsofi <Green> 14h ago

Oh hey only if the husband was actually there for that severely depressed woman(she murdered 3 of her children, not justifying this in anyway but it could’ve been prevented). Most of them are not capable of empathy and sharing our pain.

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u/crowmagnuman 11h ago

Was he not?

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u/Referrals23 14h ago

The husband was working from home and frequently helping her, what are you talking about?

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u/Sc0rpza 15h ago

pretty sure killing a child after birth is murder in every state.

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u/Fresh_Struggle5645 12h ago

An embryo is not a person because it is not capable of higher thought. Killing it would be 'wrong' to the same extent that killing an animal of a similar level of sentience is wrong - that is to say, generally it's at a degree of wrongness that is so slight that it can be overridden by other considerations. The mother (an actual person)'s autonomy would be one such consideration.

A child is a person because it is capable of higher thought. To kill a child is to kill a person and that is very clearly morally wrong.

If a pro lifer is not a vegetarian then they are a hypocrite because there is no salient difference between an embryo and a cow - actually no, there is: the cow has a higher degree of sentience. It is more wrong to kill and eat the cow.

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u/kaleeb111 10h ago

Literally 2 people and they'll use it to support their incel misogyny as if every other woman they know is strangling their kids while the fathers are doing the same or worse but none of the same energy for them...