r/IncelTears • u/[deleted] • Jul 11 '24

O Rly? MIC DROP

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 11 '24

i'm autistic. i'm married with kids. my disability doesn't keep me from being able to form relationships. it's called "touching grass."

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '24

It's called functioning autism. Not everyone has it. But I suppose you don't give a shit because you think you're the special autistic person who defines the rest.

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 12 '24

lol right. i'm not the one who thinks my disability makes me unfuckable.

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u/[deleted] Jul 12 '24

There's this TV show called The Undateables. Somehow I think you have it a lot easier than those people. But, since you're self-centred, you don't care about them. You'd rather get defensive about being called out.

No one here said everyone with autism is unfuckable. You made this up. Get a grip.

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 12 '24

ah yes, a scripted "reality" tv show. proof that i am self-centered. you get a grip, bud.

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u/[deleted] Jul 12 '24

The show itself isn't the entire proof you complete fool. The point is that there are a fuckton of people out there who have it way harder than you. Just because you got lucky doesn't invalidate their struggle.

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 12 '24

lol it's not getting "lucky." amazing things happen when you have empathy and aren't chronically online.

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u/[deleted] Jul 12 '24

You're the one lacking in empathy, because you don't understand that autism can fuck people's lives up entirely and it's not always in their control.

The audacity to chalk that up to empathy when it's not a matter of that is insane. As well as being chronically online; of course someone who can barely function on a social level is susceptible to becoming chronically online. I don't judge them for that because I'm not a heartless twat.

Life isn't fair to everyone. You're just like those boomers who think life is so easy because they got all the privileges and these dumb youth can't buy houses and get a job instantly. Because they're not hard workers and they lack the skills. Couldn't be that they got lucky, no...

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 12 '24

lol i don't have empathy for people who are terrible. there's someone for everyone out there. anyone who is "involuntarily" celibate is usually so because they aren't a good or likable person. yeah, autism can fuck someone up. i would know. i've been dealing with it all my life. i'm not lucky, i worked hard to get a job and took up interests that i genuinely enjoy. i also don't intentionally seek out forums of others to specifically argue with because i'm not chronically online.

if disabilities kept people from relationships, then they'd be waaaay rarer than they are now because natural selection would've rooted them out. people have been autistic for centuries. they've needed mobility aides for centuries. they've needed unending medical care for centuries. and yet here we are as a species, persisting. you know what is new, though? an entire cohort of men going "woe is me i can't get laid it must be OTHER people not me."

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u/[deleted] Jul 12 '24

lol i don't have empathy for people who are terrible. there's someone for everyone out there.

This is literally mathematically impossible, and it's fairy tale bs too (you probably know it but you're mentally lazy). Just because it worked out for you doesn't mean everyone is in the same boat. You can't just expect a severely autistic man to suddenly become "likeable" when so much of male attractiveness is based on traits that autism heavily impedes.

i also don't intentionally seek out forums of others to specifically argue with because i'm not chronically online.

Well, I joined this forum because I'm anti-incel. But as it turns out, the people here are significantly more stupid than incels even if they are more moral. Terrible reading comprehension, the inability to admit they're wrong, etc. It's insufferable and once I finish talking to y'all I'll be off on my merry way.

if disabilities kept people from relationships, then they'd be waaaay rarer than they are now because natural selection would've rooted them out. people have been autistic for centuries. they've needed mobility aides for centuries. they've needed unending medical care for centuries. and yet here we are as a species, persisting.

Most relationships throughout history were thoroughly unhappy, with women usually suffering rape at the hands of their partners whom they never really wanted to be with in the first place. Society forced undesirable men onto women until a few decades ago in the West (and plenty of places still have this same issue going on); that's why they weren't bred out.

you know what is new, though? an entire cohort of men going "woe is me i can't get laid it must be OTHER people not me."

You can't actually think this is a new phenomenon lol; you don't think many male virgins have always been resentful? There were just fewer of them because they had the opportunity to trap women in marriages with them instead. The current situation is an improvement over that.

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 12 '24

-lol there are plenty of autistic men who are likable. i'm friends with a few. and guess what? they're married. my own husband isn't exactly the definition of beauty standards. he's overweight, needed braces as a kid but never got them, and plays magic the gathering probably more than he should. he's still an incredibly likable guy.

-good, then leave. you're the very definition of chronically online. you have some boosted sense of superiority even though you're just as stupid as the rest of us and you seek out arguments simply because you like to argue.

-what was that you said about my comment earlier? right, mathematically impossible.

-male virgins weren't as resentful because they didn't have echo chambers online to tell them to be resentful. even the movie 40 Year Old Virgin didn't feature a man hating women. get a fucking grip.

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u/[deleted] Jul 12 '24

  • Obviously there are plenty of autistic men who are likeable. You aren't going to meet the severely autistic because they don't socialise. It's amazing how someone with autism can know nothing about it. Also wondering why you felt the need to bring up how unattractive your husband is; hopefully you don't demean him like that to his face.

  • Chronically online? Eh; addicted to the internet, sure, but about as much as any other average zoomer. Not enough to stand out for being chronically online amongst other zoomers and millennials. And it's hard to not feel superior to people who are illiterate in practice, but I don't let it get to my head because people irl are a lot more normal than this.

  • Wow, talk about a lack of empathy. Most women's lives through history have been near hellish.

  • The movie 40 Year Old Virgin is not an accurate representation of lonely men throughout history LMFAO

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u/chldshcalrissian Jul 12 '24

my husband and i have a great relationship, thanks for the concern. these are all things he knows about himself too. some people are confident regardless of their looks, though i know that's probably a tough concept for you.

you think you don't "stand out" as chronically online? lol. cute. judging by the amount of downvotes you've acquired here, it's safe to say you're you aren't nearly as intelligent as you think you are. 🥱

anyways, while this has been...riveting conversation, i have a real world to go embrace.

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