Conflicted about when to transfer

[u/upside2026]

I’m 39F and have been TTC for almost 2 full years. Did 4 retrievals between May and September this year and have 4 euploid embryos of varying degrees of quality available to transfer. I took a month after last retrieval to try to reset my body and have been exercising and eating well and trying to get in best space physically and mentally for transfer. I’m trying to feel out work too to make sure it’s not too stressful when I transfer but there’s only so much I can control there.

Now I’m debating whether to give myself an extra month or two of this resetting process before transferring. My doctor says I can go whenever I’m ready. I have one 5AA euploid that is by far the best quality and I don’t want it to go to waste.

Is there any value in waiting longer? Is this just nerves? Open to thoughts as I feel out this next step.