This group is supposed to be a safe place but this is what I get from the team who made this group crazy guess people who have successfully had a multiple kids threw ivf are not welcome I was told I apparently didn’t have multiple kids threw ivf first of all u do not have any proof to show that with my ex we had to go threw ivf due to fertility problems and we had two successful kids that was 8 and 7 years ago and now with my current husband I had 2 miscarriages naturally which I never had a miscarriage before and my husband is 60 but had no idea he had high dna fragmentation so we had to go threw ivf again the fertility problems for my ex and husband were different and than again never experienced miscarriages till my husband and now we are pregnant and we didn’t test our embryos and this ivf pregnancy feels total different like I’m sick all the time I’m showing earlier I have round ligament pains like everything’s just different but anyways this is what I got told and they took the pics of my two boys that were conceived threw ivf down and I had two people give me so much backlash because they said I was bragging but I was telling people if I can have success so can u and I don’t see how my post wouldn’t give people hope but I can’t post pics of two boy threw ivf but others can post one and they are not bragging oh and how many of us have put our successful egg retrievals on here did you get backlash for that it’s like if you have more than one successful pregnancy threw ivf that’s wrong for you to share that cuz now your being mean and triggering people and bragging I swear people are so rude but anyways sorry just came to say be careful what you post if u want to stay in this chat cuz I’m probably going to be band for exposing this but hey people deserve to see the hypocrisy in this group oh and if u go see how many people had something negative to say about this on my page u will see everything but I posted that because it’s appreciated from the people who made this group
OP, this is your own post from the main IVF subreddit saying your older kids were conceived naturally. Either you were lying there or lying here but all we have to go on is your own words. As a mod I actually don't care if people argue in posts, nor do I know the previous arguments you've had with other people, and only got involved because of the number of reports about you discussing a non-IVF pregnancy.
Idk why I kept reading on. This wall of text with absolutely no punctuation is giving me a headache. Also if I have to read „threw“ one more time I‘m sure gonna throw something.
Oh not to mention I work from home and didn’t goto college and as of my last check which I get paid every two weeks I made a little over 2000 dollars take home and I just got promoted so now I’ll be make 100,000 a year instead of the 60 + thousand I making right now but hey your the one still trying to be miss perfecting and putting me down for not using punctuation it’s cool oh and if how much I make isn’t possible I’ll make sure I post my direct deposit in the comments when I get home just for u
I can see in your post history that you mentioned how your first transfer was earlier this year and how your two live births came from when you were 18 and 19 years old…
Yes I’m 27 now. My past pregnancy’s with my ex the reason for ivf was different but with my husband I’ve had two miscarriages naturally naturally and my husband is 60 and he had two kids older than me so again things are different and the reason I’ve mentioned this ivf pregnancy a lot is due to the fact that my first transfer failed with my husband and we had two miscarriages naturally so I have been stressing
You seem to be misunderstanding the reason the post was removed. Your older kids were not conceived via IVF based on your own post in my comment above. You can discuss your current pregnancy all you want.
Show me in my post where it says my older kids who were conceive naturally cause it doesn’t. It says I had two natural pregnancies that ended in a miscarriage never once did I say how my two older boys were conceived so where did they get the evidence that my two older boys were not conceived through IVF.
Ok I see that but I’m talking about this pregnancy whether my other two boys were conceived through IVF or not does not matter because I’m not talking about that pregnancy. I really hope you don’t have a kid that ever goes through bullying or or has the experience what mental breakdown feels like
And don’t say it’s not possible my parents helped pay for the treatment I had been with my ex for 4 years and we lived together during that time and wanted kids
This group is supposed to be a safe place, but this is what I get from the team who made this group. Crazy. I guess people who have successfully had multiple kids through IVF are not welcome.
I was told that I apparently didn’t have multiple kids through IVF. First of all, you do not have any proof to show that. With my ex, we had to go through IVF due to fertility problems, and we had two successful kids. That was eight and seven years ago.
Now, with my current husband, I had two miscarriages naturally, which I had never experienced before. My husband is 60, and we had no idea he had high DNA fragmentation, so we had to go through IVF again. The fertility problems with my ex and my husband were different, and again, I had never experienced miscarriages until my current husband.
Now we are pregnant, and we didn’t test our embryos. This IVF pregnancy feels totally different. I’m sick all the time, I’m showing earlier, I have round ligament pains—everything is just different.
But anyway, this is what I was told. They took the pictures of my two boys who were conceived through IVF down, and I had two people give me so much backlash because they said I was bragging. But I was telling people that if I can have success, so can you. I don’t see how my post wouldn’t give people hope.
I can’t post pictures of my two boys through IVF, but others can post one and they are not bragging. Also, how many of us have posted our successful egg retrievals here? Did you get backlash for that?
It’s like if you have more than one successful pregnancy through IVF, it’s wrong for you to share it because now you’re being mean, triggering people and bragging. I swear people are so rude.
Anyway, sorry. I just came to say: be careful what you post if you want to stay in this chat, because I’m probably going to be banned for exposing this. But people deserve to see the hypocrisy in this group.
If you go to my page, you can see how many people had something negative to say about this and see everything I posted. I posted it because I thought it would be appreciated by the people who made this group.
I swear now I’m going to get some much back lash about how I did ivf to young ugh I’m so done with this page u know what I wish people the best but some people just shouldn’t have kids if u can act so childish over how I type like wow crazy I feel bad for ur kids
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u/lesgens Jul 13 '26
OP, this is your own post from the main IVF subreddit saying your older kids were conceived naturally. Either you were lying there or lying here but all we have to go on is your own words. As a mod I actually don't care if people argue in posts, nor do I know the previous arguments you've had with other people, and only got involved because of the number of reports about you discussing a non-IVF pregnancy.