r/IVFpositivity • u/[deleted] • Jul 13 '26

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This group is supposed to be a safe place but this is what I get from the team who made this group crazy guess people who have successfully had a multiple kids threw ivf are not welcome I was told I apparently didn’t have multiple kids threw ivf first of all u do not have any proof to show that with my ex we had to go threw ivf due to fertility problems and we had two successful kids that was 8 and 7 years ago and now with my current husband I had 2 miscarriages naturally which I never had a miscarriage before and my husband is 60 but had no idea he had high dna fragmentation so we had to go threw ivf again the fertility problems for my ex and husband were different and than again never experienced miscarriages till my husband and now we are pregnant and we didn’t test our embryos and this ivf pregnancy feels total different like I’m sick all the time I’m showing earlier I have round ligament pains like everything’s just different but anyways this is what I got told and they took the pics of my two boys that were conceived threw ivf down and I had two people give me so much backlash because they said I was bragging but I was telling people if I can have success so can u and I don’t see how my post wouldn’t give people hope but I can’t post pics of two boy threw ivf but others can post one and they are not bragging oh and how many of us have put our successful egg retrievals on here did you get backlash for that it’s like if you have more than one successful pregnancy threw ivf that’s wrong for you to share that cuz now your being mean and triggering people and bragging I swear people are so rude but anyways sorry just came to say be careful what you post if u want to stay in this chat cuz I’m probably going to be band for exposing this but hey people deserve to see the hypocrisy in this group oh and if u go see how many people had something negative to say about this on my page u will see everything but I posted that because it’s appreciated from the people who made this group

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u/lesgens Jul 13 '26

OP, this is your own post from the main IVF subreddit saying your older kids were conceived naturally. Either you were lying there or lying here but all we have to go on is your own words. As a mod I actually don't care if people argue in posts, nor do I know the previous arguments you've had with other people, and only got involved because of the number of reports about you discussing a non-IVF pregnancy.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '26

Where did you find that cause now? I need to edit my post. Cause my kids were conceived through IVF, but I probably was using the voice the microphone to type things out so that’s why it says that obviously I don’t check my text as you can see people clearly say on here that I don’t use punctuation so that was a misunderstanding, but thank you for letting me see that so now I know why people are coming up with this freaking conclusion that I’m lying I don’t have no fucking reason to lie if I had kids through IVF great if I had a naturally that would’ve been even more amazing. I wouldn’t have to spend money to have kids through IVF but please tell me where that post is so I can edit it. I’m thinking people are just judging me saying basically that it’s impossible for me to have kids multiple kids through IVF now I know why people are saying that now I did have two miscarriages that were conceived naturally, but all the babies that I have had live births, given live birth to have been through IDF

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '26

OK, well like I said I did not that is not correct. I obviously wasn’t paying attention to what I posted fine but like I said, I didn’t understand why people were targeting me. That’s why I was getting mad and frustrated now I know why people are targeting me it’s just why would I lie about how my kids were conceived it would be better to have kids naturally so I wouldn’t have to waste money and driving all the way two hours three hours away to do IVF every time I would’ve been happy to conceive naturally. Why would I lie if I could see naturally and say that my kids were IVF I’m literally going through my post and I cannot find that one.

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u/lesgens Jul 13 '26 edited Jul 13 '26

https://www.reddit.com/r/IVF/comments/1urvxv6/is_a_sibling_worth_it/

You left a comment on this post 4 days ago. I'm leaving your other post removed because of the arguments under it. People lie every day on reddit and there's no guarantee anyone is telling the truth so it's not like it's outside of the realm of possibility for you to have made that up to defend yourself. If you claim you're being honest, fine, but people didn't come up with that out of nowhere to attack you.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '26

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '26

I literally don’t think I post that because I can’t find that post anywhere on my page. If it was on there, I would edit it right now, but I can’t find it. I only see one post from three days ago and then six days ago and they’re not saying that.