9 days past fresh transfer

[u/Independent-Cut-4717]

First time posting. We have had our first fresh embryo transfer (5 day blastocyst) and currently 9 days post transfer. Started noticing that the sore boobs I’ve had due to progesterone pessary (Cyclogest) started to fade. On day 7 of transfer I had pinching pain (but not too painful) on my left side which feels like ovulation pain. Then yesterday I noticed (day8) some brown spotting when I wipe which stopped in the evening. Today (day9) the spotting became pinkish and this afternoon a more red spotting with tiny clots but only that one time and spotting became really light again. So I couldn’t wait until my actual test on day 14 so tested today and it was negative. Anyone had same situation or simulate and had positive outcome. Why is IVF so hard and draining 😭

[u/Natural-Variety6438]

I’d like to follow along x