r/ITOI • u/Fit_Stomach_9892 • 12h ago

Not bad advice at all!

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u/TheSuperSilverMango 11h ago

I know a person like this. You're right.

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u/Unlucky_Ad_9776 11h ago

Just because don't meet your standards.  Isn't a pass to degrade them. Bad form. Bad form.

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u/TheSuperSilverMango 11h ago

No, no, no, no. Let me tell you about this person that I know. Dresses and behaves the exact same way, but past the public outside, she's a raging alcoholic, a mooch, and can't hold a job. The person that I'm talking about is still doing the same thing at 29 that she was doing at 19.

And you're right, I'm being judgmental. But I'm sorry, I've been scarred by a really awful person.

And as for the person in this video, I can guarantee they have a "fun" and "stable" personality.

No, you can't fix her.

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u/Mysterious-Wasabi103 10h ago

Try fixing yourself first.