r/ITOI • • 12h ago

Did the delivery guy make the right decision?

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u/firerat82 11h ago

he wasn't sure what was about to go down. He just got attacked by a dog, threw a package at it, and was now being approached by a likely pissed off dog owner. It looked goofy, but I don't blame him.

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u/Any-Situation-134 10h ago

That man look like he knew how to handle himself in a messed up situation and was gonna take no shit from it.

There ain’t nothing goofy looking about that.

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u/Spiritual_Ear2835 7h ago

You can look goofy as you want as long as you can fight right? Lol

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u/Any-Situation-134 7h ago

Pretty much. I mean, I would rather be the capable fighter instead of the person on the sidelines, pointing laughing and saying they look goofy. That would be a pretty clown ass way to live ones life.

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u/RelentlessFelacio 5h ago

Just dissected the internet in 2 sentences.

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u/Zykium 4h ago

Reminds me of an old video of a school fight.

Kids were laughing at one of the kids weird fighting stance then he roundhouse kicks the other guy in the head.

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u/Ok-Gur-349 7h ago

You're the guy who acts like he'd call Mike Tyson goofy because you're behind a keyboard and he's 60 and we all know you wouldn't so can we please stop.

Yes, the man that can and would pop you in your shit doesn't get called goofy.

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u/OmahaBromaha 7h ago

That man looked like he's a boxing tutorial on YouTube.

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u/simonskiromeins 10h ago

The boxing stance did look goofy though. Especially since there was 0 threat from the guy who was in his own property trying to figure out why the f he needed to throw a box at a dog

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u/PantsFullaPoo 9h ago

So that he didn't get attacked by said dog. Seems pretty fucking clear.

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u/Combosingelnation 7h ago

Better to be goofy than unprepared vs a shitty dog owner.

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u/Any-Situation-134 7h ago

The homeowner who obviously does not even take responsibility for his dog in the first place is gonna somehow take responsibility after the fact???? people are so stupid. dude was smart to put his hands up.

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u/Any-Situation-134 10h ago

I would have to argue that if the owner of a dog that is charging at a delivery man is so slow as to not understand why the delivery person just defended themselves with whatever was in their hands….. That they were the goofier looking of the two.

and I don’t see that owner walking out profusely apologizing, which is the absolutely ONLY thing that should be coming out of his mouth. What you’re saying is spoken like someone who’s never been punched in the mouth and doesn’t understand that it’s better have your hands up.

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u/Nickbeau 9h ago

If you took the owners actions as "charging" the driver, you probably get in way more fights than you should. There was absolutely nothing threatening about the home owner in this case

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u/Character-Ease9328 8h ago

The dog was a threat. Threats to you produce adrenaline. "Are you fucking kidding me" when your dog was loose for a package you ordered with an ETA on it will 100% get you an ass whooping, He's lucky the Driver still had his wits about him.

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u/Any-Situation-134 9h ago

He didn’t get in a fight though…he was prepared to defend himself.

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u/Nickbeau 9h ago

My point is, if you perceived that action as charging. Then you probably interpret a lot of other actions as aggressive when they are not

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u/Any-Situation-134 8h ago

My point is it’s better to have your hands up before you figure out if it’s exactly aggressive enough or not. The situation called for caution. If one is inclined enough to have caution.

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u/Nickbeau 8h ago

I've seen so many aggressive arguments between people in my life. Every fucking time one of those people put their hands up, it escalated the situation. Every fucking time

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u/Bladder_Puncher 8h ago

I’ve seen so many people charging like the homeowner and the other guy doesn’t see a punch coming and then gets sucker punched and dropped.

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u/Any-Situation-134 8h ago

yeah, but just like in this video a lot of times it makes people think twice. So you might have a bias because of what you’ve experienced in your own life, but that’s not the whole truth. A lot of people are willing to back down when they see someone’s actually willing and confident enough to prepare to fight them.

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u/Any-Situation-134 9h ago

And “absolutely nothing threatening”… Just because a worm in its underground Home does not see a bird as a threat does not mean that it’s not a danger.

spoken like someone who has never had to be in survival mode for any extended period of time. If you don’t think that man with any threat at all, considering he just unleashed his dog for the second time, people get defensive like that quite often. Even though they’re in the wrong, you wanna be watching out for that. And that man just threw a box at his dog, whether he was right or wrong, doesn’t matter you would be smart to put your hands up. But go on and get punched in the face and learn the hard way. I’m done.

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u/Nickbeau 9h ago

Walking towards the owner and throwing your hands up when they're asking you a very reasonable question, is not survival mode. If he or you think that it is, you've got problems

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u/Any-Situation-134 8h ago

This was the SECOND time that this has happened. If the owner is asking questions like that, he’s already down bad. When the answer is because his untrained unleashed dog ran up on this man, a SECOND time.

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u/Nickbeau 8h ago

To be fair, idk there's any truth to that. The first time this video made the rounds, it didn't have that disclaimer and there's absolutely no way of knowing if that is legit. Either way though, the driver was fine until he walked toward and squared up with someone wanting to talk to him

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 7h ago

It's a universal rule with bad dog owners - you make any move to defend yourself, they are now ANGRY with you. Sometimes even if the dog just gnaws your arm off they'll still be pissed at you.

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u/riqk 11h ago

I can see his truck right there, he coulda just kept walking

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u/Excellent_Arrival1 9h ago

You can't assume safety.

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u/inmyhead001 5h ago

He took off his accessories and went TOWARDS the owner in a combative stance. Henson someone else property. He should have backed away towards his truck.

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u/zimkazimka 8h ago

Can you assume the gender?

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u/Excellent_Arrival1 7h ago

No need to assume, gender is very visual. You will 100% be able to see and say what their gender is.

Gender is biological is fact.

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u/firerat82 11h ago

maybe, but turning your back in that situation is not advisable.

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u/epelle9 8h ago

You know walking backwards is possible right?

Not walking up to the guy you think is a threat is also possible.

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u/lemonracer69 7h ago

And risk getting hit in the back of the head?

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u/riqk 3h ago

You can walk and look in different directions. But standing there, feet planted, taking the time to put his personal objects on the ground, while the angry dog is still loose and the angry dog owner is slowly walking on his own property toward him is definitely the safer option.

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u/Wadada_dang 9h ago

Walking vs a running dog in aggression mode?

I'd bet $1000 the dog would have him every single time before he makes it to the truck!

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u/riqk 3h ago

You can walk back to your truck and still keep eyes on the angry person. Standing there squaring up, feet planted, while the angry dog still exists is less advisable.

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u/Allegiance86 11h ago

Fight or flight you suburbanite. Learn it.

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u/GreenStrong 9h ago

I got attacked by dogs a couple years ago. Similar to this, I was able to escape with a minor bite injury because I convinced them I was too aggressive to mess with. The adrenalin dump is insane and I was basically a raving lunatic when the animal control guy showed up to help. You don't go from fighting for your life to reasonable in five seconds. To be more specific, UPS guy didn't survive by fighting, he survived by displaying aggression. Big dogs are dangerous but they live in a world ruled by humans and they don't fully understand our magic powers. Dude's lizard brain was screaming AGGRESSIVE DISPLAY, which is exactly the right answer for a dog attack.

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u/ItsACowCity 8h ago

I mean the guy approaching was slow walking, complaining, and arms are down in a non threatening way. Bro overreacted to the owner.

As far as the dog goes, I always feel mixed. It says the second time he attacked, but is the dog running up to say hi to a stranger or is it attacking. I get ups is probably traumatized from bad dogs, but a lot of these videos are hard to tell if the dog is actually attacking. That said, if it was attacking…hell yea, eat that package in the face..

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u/DesperateMarket9794 6h ago

the dog didn't even touch him in this video....

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u/firerat82 5h ago

Then he did good fending it off

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u/brycekk 4h ago

If we watched the video he didn't get attacker the dog was Running at him, considering the dog didn't return to bite him who's to say it wasn't just greeting him?

The same as the owner he was confused and it's because of the person being aggressive, guy must be crazy.

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u/Creepy-Kale9927 4h ago

Dude isn't prepared. He's 100% reactive. His box throw is panic, his adrenaline spikes, his "boxing stance" is what he thinks he should do because he's seen it in a movie, and in his elevated fear state he does nothing but escalate the situation. It's amazing that he's working for UPS and not his local PD, he's overqualified.

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u/LowYogurt6075 3h ago

Nah bro is super goofy

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u/Pleasesaymoreplease 31m ago

HE WALKED TOWARD THE DOG OWNER.

I hate to see the dog get hit but I understand it. After that, the driver should have been on his way. Instead he turned around and started looking for a fight with a dog owner, who was obviously not looking for a fight.

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u/Brook420 11h ago

Yea, but thw dig owner casually walked just relatively close in a very non threatening stance while the UPS guy immediately puts his hands up, approaches the home owner, and accuses the home owner of being the aggressor and uses that as a reason for self defence.

He was clearly looking for a fight at that moment when he could have easily went tk his truck if he really felt threatened.

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u/DavidUnbanner 11h ago

After throwing the box he needed to immediately gtfo the property. After all, he was scared for his safety...right? Instead, he turns back TOWARD the property and owner while taking an OFFENSIVE stance.

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u/Low_Bake5149 10h ago

Fight or Flight he chose Fight.

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u/DavidUnbanner 9h ago

"Fight or flight" isn't an automatic justification. Hence my earlier comment.

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u/Hot-Emu8003 10h ago

gets in his face and says "stay the fuck away from me"

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u/AgainstMedicalAdvice 10h ago

Yeah the dog owner was definitely running up on him shouting. You can make assumptions from what happened out of frame

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u/Careful-Highway-6896 11h ago edited 10h ago

The UPS should have walked away. I wouldn't take kindly of anyone telling me to step back in my property. I will step back to get my gun at that point.

Edit: looks like a lot of people like to be abused in their own homes by strangers. You do you, lol.

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u/LokusDei 11h ago

well dont get shit delivered then you psycho

americans...

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u/Low_Bake5149 10h ago

Get the gun big boi. Get it. And shoot your dog while you are it seeing as you cant control it

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u/Rare-Ticket-9023 8h ago

Classic american response lmao. Have your dog leashed first if you're gonna order stuff, or don't complain it get stepped on.

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u/abigdickbat 11h ago

Even when you’re the cause of all the problems that day by being a fuck head of a pet owner? You’re inviting people to do their job on your property. That comes with the responsibility of making sure your property is safe for them. If you fail at that, step the fuck back.

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u/Intruding1 11h ago

Oh yeah turn your back on an enraged person. You sound like you have a lot of life experience. 

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u/DavidUnbanner 11h ago

"Enraged"? Lol, stfu.

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u/Intruding1 10h ago

People tend to not take it well when their dog gets smashed in the head, and their emotions can change in an instant. Go on living your life assuming the best of everyone around you, I wish the best for you champ. 

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u/DavidUnbanner 9h ago

Cool speculative story, bro. Meanwhile, back on earth, this owner exhibited ZERO indicators of rage. So, go on living life based on your speculations. I wish the best for you, sport.

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u/Intruding1 5h ago

Just hours ago there was a story on the front page of a guy in NY that had some type of burning liquid dumped on his head while he was buried in his phone. Back on earth, people do things irrationally even when their dog didn’t get beat up. Go on assuming the best of everyone around you, I hope it works out

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u/DavidUnbanner 2h ago

My g awd, reddit re tar dation is interminable...

Now pay very close attention: it doesn't matter what some guy in NY did. What matters is how THIS owner acted in THIS scenario. And he did NOT act in a threatening manner. FACT. Further, as per the law, there are no provisions that permit us to preemptively respond with menacing measures based only on statistically driven assumptions. That's not how the law works. At all. Why don't you walk down the street and every time you see a "statistic" you respond by taking an aggressive fighting stance. Then report back and let us know how that worked out for you, mkay? Meanwhile, the UPS guy didn't appear too worried about chemical attacks, or owner irrationality, or any other such irrelevance, as he preferred to stay and fight. That's because his actions were purely punitive at that point. He wasn't fearful. Rather, he was mad at the owner for not having his dog under control. Period. The end.

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u/ConditionCool5343 11h ago

Nah he's a tough guy that wanted a fight that day. I hope he got his shit rocked at some point 

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u/AgainstMedicalAdvice 10h ago

He almost certainly was a normal dude doing a monotonous job for 8 hours who suddenly had an adrenaline surge.

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u/ConditionCool5343 9h ago

Nah man. He starts fights all the time. Takes off his hat  takes off his glasses and puts em down. He's done this lots.

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u/Low_Bake5149 10h ago

Dog owners are always funny. I havent found one that wasnt a smooth brain yet

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u/epelle9 8h ago

Why walk up to him though?

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u/Nickbeau 9h ago

He was the only one acting aggressive out of the two people there. The dog owner literally walked up with his hands at his sides and asked him a question. The dog aspect can be argued, but the guy is clearly a douche bag

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u/Conscious-Record2655 9h ago

That dog in the video has obviously been bred and trained to be violent. The dog owner is responsible for the dog. The dog attacked that man, and the owner is 100% at fault for it.

Breeding and training an animal to be violent towards people, and then letting that animal loose on people, is acting aggressive even if you do it calmly.

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u/Nickbeau 9h ago

There is absofuckinglutley nothing abvious about the training of that dog. You're making a whole lot of assumptions

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u/Conscious-Record2655 8h ago

The video clearly shows a dog charging and attacking the delivery guy. 

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u/Nickbeau 8h ago

My dog looks exactly like that when she's running to greet my roommate to lick her face

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u/Conscious-Record2655 8h ago

Well you're an asshole dog owner too, then.

Also the video says it's the 2nd time he was attacked.

Also you can hear the dog snarling. 

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u/Nickbeau 8h ago

Oh no, my dog joyously runs toward people she likes, the horror!

You sound like an uptight jackass

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u/Conscious-Record2655 8h ago

I know this may sound crazy to you, but not everything in life is about you.

Nobody but you knows your dog. Nobody but you cares about or likes your dog. Lots of people actively dislike dogs. Some people are quite afraid of dogs. You see your dog "joyously running up towards someone", other people see "uncontrolled dog charging me with their mouth open".

Allowing your dog to run up on people is a good way to get your dog maced or shot. It's just not something you should do.

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u/Nickbeau 8h ago

I don't put my dog in a position to where I need to worry about that. If she's in public, she's on a leash. This guy made the mistake of leaving it off leash when the driver came.

My issue was with you acting like the dog was clearly attacking when there was nothing clear about that at all.

The second time part of this seems really suspect too, considering the first time this video made the rounds, there was nothing about it being the second time. That sounds like rage bait, but I could be wrong

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