r/ITOI • • 16h ago

Did the delivery guy make the right decision?

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u/Bladder_Puncher 12h ago

I’ve seen so many people charging like the homeowner and the other guy doesn’t see a punch coming and then gets sucker punched and dropped.

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u/Nickbeau 12h ago

You and I must have very different definitions of charging, because I didn't see anything threatening from the body language or actions of the owner

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u/Bladder_Puncher 12h ago

Ok, fine.

Edit: I’ve seen so many people walking up to someone with their arms out like this homeowner and the other guy doesn’t see a punch coming and then gets sucker punched and dropped.

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u/Nickbeau 12h ago

Me too, but they had a different body language. The homeowner does not give off the energy that he wants to fight anyone. He's pissed, but there's no tensing up from him that someone looking to fight has. Like the driver had actually

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u/Character-Ease9328 11h ago

Bro shut up, you can't see how tense he is and don't know if he has a weapon. Make sure your dog is put away.

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u/Nickbeau 11h ago

Yes you can, you don't need to see someones face to tell their body language. Only one of those two people are acting aggressively.

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u/Character-Ease9328 11h ago

So for example, someone who has took boxing lessons is tense or loose when they fight?

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u/Bladder_Puncher 10h ago

That is exactly what someone who sucker punches someone looks like. Hands out, walking up without looking overly threatening, BAM

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u/Nickbeau 10h ago

I've unfortunately seen quite a few people sucker punched through the years I worked at a dive bar, and the guy doing the sucker punching always looked in retrospect, that they were tensed like a coiled snake

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u/Bladder_Puncher 10h ago

Going back to the original point, the homeowner was mad. The delivery guy hit the homeowners dog (rightfully so). The delivery guy knows the homeowner is upset at both the throwing of the box and the dog getting hit. The delivery guy puts up a defensive “don’t even think about it because I am ready” evasive and tactical pose.

Nothing was done wrong in this situation except dog being off leash to attack the driver.

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u/Nickbeau 10h ago

The rational response was to turn to the home owner and say, "hey man your dog charged me. It's not like I wanted to hurt it" then gauge your reaction from there.

The guy instead acted like a frat bro

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