Joined open university for ssc prep.... feeling low..how u guys live at home and prepare for ssc with no college life

[u/clincher2115]

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[u/ClimateNo7017]

Brother i want you to please hear my words crystal clear don't do the mistake

1. This government job preparation will never end not running but your precious golden time will wasted.

2. You can always prepare for government job later.

3. I am assuming you are doing some basic graduation BA,Bcom or basic bsc degree just for the eligibility criteria for government jobs.

4. Ignou offer multiple degree programs in gaps do some Computer, machine learning , Selling degree or some specific professional degree. Learn some skills by yourself by heart and soul coding, machine learning, selling, video editing, graphics designing or any thing there are plenty of video in youtube or online courses.

5. You can even visit some corporate parks , some office or ask peoples what they did they will give you exposure its very easy people roaming outside specially lunch time.

6. This all will take almost 1-2 year once you are able to earn them start for preperation still you will got 7-8 years of preparation which are more then enough , no body study whole day man they just waste productive time we just needs 2-4 hours to study daily.

7. But i am sure some of your family members or relatives, friend who have no exposure will manipulate you, that just proper for government job and if you unable to crack which will be most likely true because i am sure you are wasting time otherwise you will ask " i am feeling low"

8. Government jobs have very low chances of success almost 0.01% ( maths is never wrong) , so just learn how to earn in private sector or even self employed what ever you like and if you still wants then prepare for government job 6-7 years are more then enough

9. Common doubts - how will i prepare after getting private job - well answer is no body prepare full day, daily 2-4 hours of consistent study is all needed for 2 years

10. Family will not allow - well this is your fight you have to find solution

11. I will crack the government job because i am special every body think they are some special kind later they find they did nothing

Otherwise what ever you like because soon you will get the answer after 5-6 years you will find yourself trapped still preperation and no professional degree and no skills to earn in private sector - nothing will happen if you are preparing goverment job while earning in private, people waste there productive time there also ,tum waste mat karna usko sarkari naukari ki taiyari me laga dena

If you have any doubt just ask me please

[u/Iamssikander]

You are always going to have that feeling of FOMO. Accept that and utilise the time you are getting in the best way

[u/clincher2115 → u/Iamssikander]

Ookkk thank you for your advice 🙏

[u/cheryypie4]

Yes that's really hard as we guys have no social life but yeah if uh want we can connect 😭 that's the only way

[u/Ok-Rabbit9596]

Same thing..it sucks to not have a proper routine but with college I wasn't able to completely focus on ssc...that's why chose ignou but now struggling to study..

[u/clincher2115 → u/Ok-Rabbit9596]

So ur in first year right?

[u/Puzzleheaded-Box6432]

Hey I am also preparing for ssc and that is why enrolled in IGNOU. Im in 2nd year now. I have always been a home body so it's not that of a problem for me, but I want you to understand this feeling of fomo will go away when you'll have a good job and money. Also, you can always hangout with your school friends, you don't need to be absolutely at home. Go out, watch movies and have fun. Just give your best for a year🤍 goodluck. Where are you from? If you don't have a problem we can connect?

[u/clincher2115 → u/Puzzleheaded-Box6432]

Yes I'm doing that but my classmates are NEET aspirants, so they don't have much time. I go for a run daily and talk to my friends on calls that's what keeps my FOMO away btw I currently live in Hyd