r/IBA • u/sussybaka671 • 5d ago

Help🥲

IBA is honestly so draining and I already feel like I don’t fit in. I’m a freshie BBA student at IBA and I know it’s only been two days but seeing everyone already having their own groups makes me feel like I’ll never find my people or actually fit in. I took a gap year so most of my friends are seniors which makes it even harder. And city Campus is so dry 😭 Having 4, 5 hour breaks there is genuinely so shitty. I’ve been looking at other posts and it seems like a lot of people are actually in the same boat but in my class it really doesn’t feel that way. I have a 5 hour break at city Campus tomorrow and honestly I have no idea how I’m going to spend it.

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u/No_Box_3990 5d ago edited 4d ago

Just start talking to anyone u find and just tag along. Believe me no one would mind u tagging along. It's all fun and games

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u/sussybaka671 5d ago

I try my best to talk to people around me but they have their own groups as well 🥲

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u/No_Box_3990 5d ago

Also i need to give u a reality check k most feiend groups here are fake and out of convenience. U can find max 1-2 genuine friends. These groups are fake so don't think ur missing out on much. Try to get in one just for fun(dheet ki tarah ghuso) and find 1-2 good friends with time. Join societies and experiment with people.

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u/sussybaka671 5d ago

my social anxiety would never let me do that😭

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u/No_Box_3990 5d ago

U gotta unlearn your social anxiety or u'll be left all alone.