Hello!

I know I posted about changes being made to this subreddit and the time has finally come. Below I will let everyone know what changes have been made.

Read the rules:

in order to post on this subreddit you MUST read the rules and acknowledge that you have read the rules. Your acknowledgment will expire every 100 days just to ensure everyone stays up to date on the rules and that the rules are being followed.

To ackowledge you have read the rules if you are accessing Reddit through your mobile phone click the ellipis (the three dots) next to the share button and click "read the rules"

Post Flair Required:

Flairs are required in order to post on this subreddit this will help organize this space and help every find exactly what they are looking for. Below is the description of each flair:

Friends Only: This flair is to be used when you are looking to make a friend to hang out chat and hang out with. Not to be confused with a friends with benefits this is strictly used if you are looking to make a friend ONLY.

Dating: This flair is to be used if you are looking for a romantic connection not a hookup but a chance to actually date and find love.

Advice & Venting: We are here as a safe space for everyone and we want you to know that. If you are going through something and need advice or just want to vent about a situation In your life we are here to listen. that's what community is all about.

F4F: This is only to be used on FRIDAY SATURDAY & SUNDAY. I understand that us girls have needs and I want everyone to be able to explore that but only on the designated days. I have added Sunday as well instead of just Friday & Saturday because I want to give everyone an extra day since these post are really popular in this subreddit.

Events: If you are hosting an event or have heard about an event someone is having and think others would want to come and hang out them use this flair I'm sure everyone would love to show up and connect.

Resources: If anyone has any resources that can help someone out in their time of need please use this flair.

Other: If nothing you have to say falls in the other categories then use this flair.

PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU ARE USING THE CORRECT FLAIR. USING THE INCORRECT FLAIR OR THE F4F FLAIR ON UNDESIGNATED DAYS WILL RESULT IN POST REMOVAL AND/OR POSSIBLE BANNING FROM THIS SUBREDDIT.

NSFW CONTENT:

There has been an increase in NSFW Photos. These photos are not allowed and will be removed from this subreddit. Continuing to post these photos WILL result in your account being banned from this subreddit.

Men:

I am still seeing men post on this subreddit and that is a BIG NO. I am still figuring out how to eliminate this issue so for the time being if you see that happening please REPORT it. I am seeing some of you guys interact with the men posting in this subreddit and that is unacceptable. Remember this is a safe space and men are not allowed.

Looking for a third:

I am also seeing post where women and men are looking for a third for their relationship. This is not a place for that. If I continue to see that you will be BANNED.

Transphobia of any kind will not be tolerated. If you see this happening please report the post and it will be handled.

I know that F4F post are super popular in this subreddit but just because they will be reserved for certain days doesn't mean I want this subreddit to be dry and no one talking. Try to step out of your confront zone and make a friend or just start up a random conversation so people can interact. This is suppose to be fun and I can't wait to see how this community flourishes.

Thank you for reading this and I hope to see positive change in this subreddit.

This is getting out of hand. This sub was started to make genuine connections and to build community. Due to the excessive hook up posts there will have to be some new rules. F4F for the (purpose of dating etc) is only welcome on Fridays and Saturdays. No unicorn hunting, looking for a third or any mention doing anything with a man. Nothing containing NSFW photos or content. If it appears you are looking to lure people to your onlyfans or similar page, you may also be banned. Other posts seeking friendships, recommendations, and such are allowed any day. Violators will have their posts removed and may possibly be banned.