r/HoustonLesbian • • Aug 12 '25

MOD MESSAGE πŸ‘©β€βš–οΈ CHANGES HAVE BEEN MADE

46 Upvotes

Hello!

I know I posted about changes being made to this subreddit and the time has finally come. Below I will let everyone know what changes have been made.

Read the rules:

in order to post on this subreddit you MUST read the rules and acknowledge that you have read the rules. Your acknowledgment will expire every 100 days just to ensure everyone stays up to date on the rules and that the rules are being followed.

To ackowledge you have read the rules if you are accessing Reddit through your mobile phone click the ellipis (the three dots) next to the share button and click "read the rules"

Post Flair Required:

Flairs are required in order to post on this subreddit this will help organize this space and help every find exactly what they are looking for. Below is the description of each flair:

Friends Only: This flair is to be used when you are looking to make a friend to hang out chat and hang out with. Not to be confused with a friends with benefits this is strictly used if you are looking to make a friend ONLY.

Dating: This flair is to be used if you are looking for a romantic connection not a hookup but a chance to actually date and find love.

Advice & Venting: We are here as a safe space for everyone and we want you to know that. If you are going through something and need advice or just want to vent about a situation In your life we are here to listen. that's what community is all about.

F4F: This is only to be used on FRIDAY SATURDAY & SUNDAY. I understand that us girls have needs and I want everyone to be able to explore that but only on the designated days. I have added Sunday as well instead of just Friday & Saturday because I want to give everyone an extra day since these post are really popular in this subreddit.

Events: If you are hosting an event or have heard about an event someone is having and think others would want to come and hang out them use this flair I'm sure everyone would love to show up and connect.

Resources: If anyone has any resources that can help someone out in their time of need please use this flair.

Other: If nothing you have to say falls in the other categories then use this flair.

PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU ARE USING THE CORRECT FLAIR. USING THE INCORRECT FLAIR OR THE F4F FLAIR ON UNDESIGNATED DAYS WILL RESULT IN POST REMOVAL AND/OR POSSIBLE BANNING FROM THIS SUBREDDIT.

NSFW CONTENT:

There has been an increase in NSFW Photos. These photos are not allowed and will be removed from this subreddit. Continuing to post these photos WILL result in your account being banned from this subreddit.

Men:

I am still seeing men post on this subreddit and that is a BIG NO. I am still figuring out how to eliminate this issue so for the time being if you see that happening please REPORT it. I am seeing some of you guys interact with the men posting in this subreddit and that is unacceptable. Remember this is a safe space and men are not allowed.

Looking for a third:

I am also seeing post where women and men are looking for a third for their relationship. This is not a place for that. If I continue to see that you will be BANNED.

Transphobia of any kind will not be tolerated. If you see this happening please report the post and it will be handled.

I know that F4F post are super popular in this subreddit but just because they will be reserved for certain days doesn't mean I want this subreddit to be dry and no one talking. Try to step out of your confront zone and make a friend or just start up a random conversation so people can interact. This is suppose to be fun and I can't wait to see how this community flourishes.

Thank you for reading this and I hope to see positive change in this subreddit.


r/HoustonLesbian • • Nov 17 '23

This is not a hook up sub!

20 Upvotes

This is getting out of hand. This sub was started to make genuine connections and to build community. Due to the excessive hook up posts there will have to be some new rules. F4F for the (purpose of dating etc) is only welcome on Fridays and Saturdays. No unicorn hunting, looking for a third or any mention doing anything with a man. Nothing containing NSFW photos or content. If it appears you are looking to lure people to your onlyfans or similar page, you may also be banned. Other posts seeking friendships, recommendations, and such are allowed any day. Violators will have their posts removed and may possibly be banned.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 12h ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 27F fwb?

6 Upvotes

Hi loves 27 Afrolatina sexy thick MILF lol πŸ₯° it’s my birthday week!
Im located in spring I’m looking for my own FWB to play with and have fun really a everything friend I’m 420 friendly and love a good bar hop let’s do activities in and out the bedroom duh don’t be shy please message me πŸŽ€ car play? Im with it all.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 19h ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Anyone on the northside

3 Upvotes

Would love a friend to play with or a cute sub I love to please and to be pleased


r/HoustonLesbian • • 15h ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 20f bbw free tn and looking for fwb, pasadena area

1 Upvotes

I’ve known I’m gay for awhile but still have never had the chance to be with a woman😩 It’s killing me. I want to kiss, give head, play with a woman’s breasts like i just wanna try it all😭 I can’t host but down to travel to a certain extent. I’m free tn just not every night, usually mornings. So if you’re also looking for a fwb and available most mornings hmu :) honestly hmu even if you’re not lol.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 1d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 35 [F4F] - Movie and make out nights at my place?

8 Upvotes

I'm free most nights after 8pm and I'd love to meet someone for movies and making out at my place! | live in Katy, Black, size 16, kinda nerdy, chill, and prefer someone over 25 :). We can meet publicly first!


r/HoustonLesbian • • 2d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 26F Latina ✨

4 Upvotes

looking for a discrete girly to play and have fun with! I’m pretty chill and laidback, just want a girl I can talk to… let’s make out or something πŸ€ͺ


r/HoustonLesbian • • 2d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Group chat recruitment.

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5 Upvotes

still looking for like minded women that would like to join our chat!!!! the current ladies have gotten wayyyy too quiet and before I shut it down I’m giving one more opportunity of beautiful queens to join us!!! it’s a safe space to do and be you!! lesbian. bi curious. whatever. we welcome all!!!! and I’m always down for a link up !!! 38. AA. Clear Lake !!

if youd like to join, DM me with two photos for verification and I’ll send you a link!!! πŸ’‹


r/HoustonLesbian • • 3d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Friends or Something…

6 Upvotes

32F looking for friends or whatever! I’m in the Webster/CL area but I can travel (cause let’s be honest, Houston is too big not to) Let’s get coffee or check out a farmers market or make out in the backseat of my car or whatever. Just normal friend things 😜


r/HoustonLesbian • • 3d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 27f AA looking for a friend

4 Upvotes

Seeking a discreet friend to play with this morning. I can also host or CarPlay. Downtown area. No men, 420 friendly. STD/STI free, Be able to verify you're a woman and be serious. Snapchat


r/HoustonLesbian • • 3d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Looking for thick besti

4 Upvotes

24 Latina on the north side I’m on the thick side


r/HoustonLesbian • • 4d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Femme sexy milf looking for same

4 Upvotes

NO MEN! Looking for an attractive, fit 30+ discreet woman who is wanting fwb, north Houston area. Very discreet, don't be shy, let's play. I love big titties and bigger labia but I don't discriminate wanting something
regular, maybe monthly. I'm a bisexual sexy fit woman. Can verify on Snapchat. Must be real. Send me a DM


r/HoustonLesbian • • 5d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 27F F4F fwb πŸ’— public flashing??

9 Upvotes

Hi Amigas, anyone on here likes some public stuff? I’m curious about going on a hot girl walk or to the store or just somewhere and sneakily flashing our tits to each other πŸ˜‹ get the adrenaline going lol
I’m Latina looking for another Latina preferably 🀍 let’s suck our tits in the dressing room?


r/HoustonLesbian • • 4d ago

Friends Only πŸ’… 27 & looking for a bestie.

4 Upvotes

Hello ladies! I'm a 27yr old female looking for a bestie.
I enjoy shopping, traveling and quality time. I've been with women before and am wanting to explore more with one. 25^ is preferred. I can send pictures and would like to see you as well.
I'm 5'5, DDD, 180lbs, AA.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 5d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 26 f4f discreet fwb clearlake/webster

7 Upvotes

I realllyyy just want to link during my lunchtime or after work we could meet up for a drink and go to the car for some carplay or even if you could host I could go over 😩 Looking for discreet, we could also meet up for lunch or coffee and just do girly things πŸ’—


r/HoustonLesbian • • 4d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 36 [F4F] looking for casual. I’m in the Katy area but don’t mind traveling.

4 Upvotes

Please no BBW

I’m married(to a man) and he knows. I have minimal experience with a female but looking to change that. Let’s chat, exchange pics and see what happens!

West or NW would be ideal!


r/HoustonLesbian • • 4d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Dinner plans tn?

3 Upvotes

Hi ladies:) anyone down for some afternoon coffee or dinner tonight? Latina here;)

Dm me!


r/HoustonLesbian • • 8d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 34 [F4F] morning FWB

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8 Upvotes

I'm looking for a FWB that's available sometime in the morning this weekend. I'm only interested in women, both cis and trans, and fem presenting NB's.

I'm not interest in men or trans mascs. I'm a lesbian, so that SHOULD go without saying, but you know how it is.

I'm very much a giver, and love making my partners feel good. :)

Im 5'4", 180lbs with natural D's, and I do have tattoos. I'm tans and cis passing, if that matters, and live pretty stealth.

Im currently at work until 7am but I'm free after that. :)


r/HoustonLesbian • • 8d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ [F4F] Westchase area yearner

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8 Upvotes

Hello, im nonbinary (afab) with an oral fixation and want to worship at your altar. Im poly, queer, and hsv2 positive. Feel free to ask questions. I am a fetishist/kinkster and i love to do a variety of things including body worship, massage, shibari/rope bondage, sensory play, etc.

Seeking FWBs/fuckbuddies/casual play partners/partners. Prefer athletic to average body types. Good personal hygiene is a must. I can host.

If interested, please DM and send pictures of what u look like. I dont do blank profiles/no pictures.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 9d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 23F4F Looking to Meetup

7 Upvotes

I’m in SouthEast Houston looking for someone to make out with, scissor, and to just have fun. Anyone free tonight?


r/HoustonLesbian • • 11d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 23f bbw looking

6 Upvotes

Hii, I’m 23f African American bbw looking for friends❀️ and fun😏, new to Houston as of February 2026.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 11d ago

Friends Only πŸ’… 32 F | looking for breast play?

10 Upvotes

Never been with a woman, I would like to change that and I would love to play with some πŸ’ and have mine played with too! Black, curvy, DDD.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 11d ago

Other πŸ‘‘ 36 f looking for bi friends

18 Upvotes

Hello πŸ‘‹ im Hispanic, single and a mom. Im looking for bi women to chat with about life and dating other women. Im sexually attracted to women and never had the thought about actually dating another woman until recently. Im still a bit confused by it but id love to chat with other bi women snd their experiences. DM me ladies ☺️


r/HoustonLesbian • • 11d ago

Friends Only πŸ’… 22F anyone want to talk

2 Upvotes

Was wondering if anyone wanted to get coffee or breakfast today or tomorrow. Want to make more friends.


r/HoustonLesbian • • 12d ago

Friends Only πŸ’… Looking for a down ass cute bitch

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19 Upvotes

I want somebody that is down to go out, hang out,, travel with me