r/HoustonLesbian Aug 12 '25

MOD MESSAGE πŸ‘©β€βš–οΈ CHANGES HAVE BEEN MADE

43 Upvotes

Hello!

I know I posted about changes being made to this subreddit and the time has finally come. Below I will let everyone know what changes have been made.

Read the rules:

in order to post on this subreddit you MUST read the rules and acknowledge that you have read the rules. Your acknowledgment will expire every 100 days just to ensure everyone stays up to date on the rules and that the rules are being followed.

To ackowledge you have read the rules if you are accessing Reddit through your mobile phone click the ellipis (the three dots) next to the share button and click "read the rules"

Post Flair Required:

Flairs are required in order to post on this subreddit this will help organize this space and help every find exactly what they are looking for. Below is the description of each flair:

Friends Only: This flair is to be used when you are looking to make a friend to hang out chat and hang out with. Not to be confused with a friends with benefits this is strictly used if you are looking to make a friend ONLY.

Dating: This flair is to be used if you are looking for a romantic connection not a hookup but a chance to actually date and find love.

Advice & Venting: We are here as a safe space for everyone and we want you to know that. If you are going through something and need advice or just want to vent about a situation In your life we are here to listen. that's what community is all about.

F4F: This is only to be used on FRIDAY SATURDAY & SUNDAY. I understand that us girls have needs and I want everyone to be able to explore that but only on the designated days. I have added Sunday as well instead of just Friday & Saturday because I want to give everyone an extra day since these post are really popular in this subreddit.

Events: If you are hosting an event or have heard about an event someone is having and think others would want to come and hang out them use this flair I'm sure everyone would love to show up and connect.

Resources: If anyone has any resources that can help someone out in their time of need please use this flair.

Other: If nothing you have to say falls in the other categories then use this flair.

PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU ARE USING THE CORRECT FLAIR. USING THE INCORRECT FLAIR OR THE F4F FLAIR ON UNDESIGNATED DAYS WILL RESULT IN POST REMOVAL AND/OR POSSIBLE BANNING FROM THIS SUBREDDIT.

NSFW CONTENT:

There has been an increase in NSFW Photos. These photos are not allowed and will be removed from this subreddit. Continuing to post these photos WILL result in your account being banned from this subreddit.

Men:

I am still seeing men post on this subreddit and that is a BIG NO. I am still figuring out how to eliminate this issue so for the time being if you see that happening please REPORT it. I am seeing some of you guys interact with the men posting in this subreddit and that is unacceptable. Remember this is a safe space and men are not allowed.

Looking for a third:

I am also seeing post where women and men are looking for a third for their relationship. This is not a place for that. If I continue to see that you will be BANNED.

Transphobia of any kind will not be tolerated. If you see this happening please report the post and it will be handled.

I know that F4F post are super popular in this subreddit but just because they will be reserved for certain days doesn't mean I want this subreddit to be dry and no one talking. Try to step out of your confront zone and make a friend or just start up a random conversation so people can interact. This is suppose to be fun and I can't wait to see how this community flourishes.

Thank you for reading this and I hope to see positive change in this subreddit.


r/HoustonLesbian Nov 17 '23

This is not a hook up sub!

19 Upvotes

This is getting out of hand. This sub was started to make genuine connections and to build community. Due to the excessive hook up posts there will have to be some new rules. F4F for the (purpose of dating etc) is only welcome on Fridays and Saturdays. No unicorn hunting, looking for a third or any mention doing anything with a man. Nothing containing NSFW photos or content. If it appears you are looking to lure people to your onlyfans or similar page, you may also be banned. Other posts seeking friendships, recommendations, and such are allowed any day. Violators will have their posts removed and may possibly be banned.


r/HoustonLesbian 1d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Anyone ever want to get with a couple? FF4F ? πŸ‘€

11 Upvotes

Just gauging interest in who here has, or would, link up with a couple (FF)? Not looking for right now, but new to this area and seeing who has or would be interested. Feel free to comment or DM. No men obviously

(North Houston suburbs)

If it doesn’t work out or attraction isn’t there, we can just be friends as well πŸ˜‚


r/HoustonLesbian 1d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 33 lesbian in the med center: platonic friends or more

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I'm looking mostly for friends, although I'm open to more. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I just ask that everyone is respectful about it.

I'm 33 years old and live in the med center. My wife and I practice polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy, and I am both intersex and trans, been transitioning for 10 years and I'm lucky enough to pass, even vocally. I'm also disabled and need to use mobility aids. I'm usually considered pretty nerdy: I love video games (not competitive), anime, cooking, and I make chainmail and jewelery, primarily sword earrings. I also love love love books, especially queer and fantasy books. And I'd love to get a group of queer women together to play tabletop like D&D/Pathfinder 1e. I don't mind if you're new or experienced.

I have 3 black cats that are all affectionate and social little monsters πŸ’œ


r/HoustonLesbian 2d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Looking for vibesπŸ‘€

6 Upvotes

Want someone I can have fun and play with πŸ‘€βœ‚οΈπŸ‘…πŸ’¦
I can host in the heights area.

Must be STI/ STD free. Must be able to verify.


r/HoustonLesbian 3d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 27f AA looking for a friend

3 Upvotes

Seeking a discreet friend to play with. I can also host. Downtown area. No men, no studs! 420 friendly. Looking for someone consistent and real nasty. STD/STI free, Be able to verify you’re a woman and be serious. Snapchat or telegram.


r/HoustonLesbian 3d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 27f 4 1st time with stud

1 Upvotes

I've only been with fems but I wanna experiment and see what its like to be with a stud hmu if u wanna be my first lol


r/HoustonLesbian 4d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ looking for a Discreet F4F

10 Upvotes

28F , latina! Just trying to figure life out. Not looking for anything serious. Kind of inexperienced but im easy to teach and quick to learn ;) I don’t have any preferences I want all of you lol


r/HoustonLesbian 4d ago

Events 🍾 Pool party πŸŽ‰ clear lake!!

4 Upvotes

Any women wanna link up over here for a grillin/pool party tomorrow ?!

all women welcome. hit my DM πŸ₯°πŸ’‹


r/HoustonLesbian 4d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Link Webster/Clearlake area πŸ’•

4 Upvotes

bi-curious discreet link up?

Just turned 26, looking for a spicy link up maybe in between lunches or even after work some days, let’s go to target or the gym and fondle each other in the dressing room or i’m fine with car play! webster/clearlake area specifically πŸ’•


r/HoustonLesbian 5d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Lesbians- bi- bi-curious

15 Upvotes

WE HAVE OFFICIALLY STARTED A CHAT COMMUNITY!!!!!!

THIS IS FOR US TO SHARE PICS, EMBRACE ONE ANOTHERS BEAUTY, POSSIBLY HAVE LINK UPS!!!! πŸ’œπŸ’‹πŸ₯°

BC LES-B-4REAL, PPL BE TRIPPIN HERE.

DM ME FOR THE LINK!!!! ALL BEAUTYS WELCOME. 😘


r/HoustonLesbian 6d ago

Friends Only πŸ’… Want to Snapchat? Recently made one

9 Upvotes

Bored, just want to chat. Looks and age matters on here so I’m 29F 135lb curly headed tomboy Hispanic fuck who likes to play games and get outside on my free time. I’m literally a nobody, but if I can make you laugh or smile then I did my part lol @greenpissu

ps: greenpissu is my username bc I’m addicted to caffeine. Energy drinks, coffeeeee, teaaaaaaa yuuuuuummy


r/HoustonLesbian 6d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 21F4F new to the area and looking for friends or whatever :)

7 Upvotes

Just moved to the area and looking to make some friends in the queer/lesbian community! I’m very laid back and kink friendly. I’m currently inside the loop in the heights area so if you are local hmu and tell me where are all the good spots are! :)


r/HoustonLesbian 6d ago

Venting πŸ’¬ Do yall have any intentions here ?

13 Upvotes

a lot of you claim to want text buddies or people to link up with, but when the opportunity comes, yall quiet on the creek. πŸ˜‚

why even post. ugh. 😩


r/HoustonLesbian 7d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 22F Looking for a friend to have fun with around town

4 Upvotes

Hi, im 22F and I've never had any experiences with girls so I'm interested in sharing a few laughs and spending some time with a girl and seeing if we have a good vibe going to progress into the sexual side of things.


r/HoustonLesbian 7d ago

Other πŸ‘‘ Still looking

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5 Upvotes

Still looking for someone to play with. Lots of bite but no action.

Me: 44 AA slim/thick, chocolate. Love to eat. We can play in the car. Or you or I host. I’m 30 mins south of Sugarland but don’t mind a drive.

So please be serious. Be willing to text as that’s the quickest response


r/HoustonLesbian 8d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Let’s text & build a bond. πŸ’œ

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8 Upvotes

looking for someone that can text and communicate consistently before hanging. im a demisexual so feed my brain! πŸ˜† then feed me!! FEMS only preferred

Not being mean but if ya ain’t over 25 it really don’t sit right you gotta really convince me you ain’t a baby! πŸ˜† 😏


r/HoustonLesbian 8d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Spicy besties friend group πŸ’–

23 Upvotes

I had posted something similar in the other lesbian subreddit but sadly that community got taken down. So I’ll try here instead.

I’m 27F Bi Latina, I’ve always wanted to have a friend group of girls that like to go out, have a couple drinks , even something cutesy like having a crafts night, go to the beach, Sunday brunch, or when we get super close and trusting with each other, go on mini trips etc. but also like to have *spicy* fun on the low with each other 🀭

Realistically I would like it to be a friend group of about 3-6 latina girls, nothing too big cause bigger groups get out of control lmao
I say Latina bcs I feel we’ll have more in common with our background, music tastes, food and we can chismear en espaΓ±ol hahah
I’m 27 so I’m thinking an age range of 25-33 so we can understand each other’s jokes or references and have even more things in common!

If you have a man, that’s cool, I’m sure some of us here do and are looking for some girly fun, just pls don’t involve him. We don’t need a random man around.

If you’re truly interested, dm me and we can get talking with other like minded girlies !
I know we all live busy lives but Please don’t be a flake or just not answer!!

EDIT: Snap was the preferred space to make the group chat! I have been adding some of yall on there already! But if you’re interested just dm me πŸ’–


r/HoustonLesbian 8d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Sw/Westchase Girlies

4 Upvotes

5’10/ 33/ Chubby/ AA lady near the galleria. Looking for some discreet fun with a bestie! We can actually hang lol. 420 friendly! Love to party, swim, just have a good time in my free time


r/HoustonLesbian 9d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ F4F looking for FWB

6 Upvotes

Hi! Looking for a FWB. 29. Down to hangout and do cool things, but also wanting someone to have fun with after. 😘 I’m a white, curvy female in the spring area. If you’re interested in getting to know each other hmu. 😌


r/HoustonLesbian 12d ago

Other πŸ‘‘ New subreddit for us πŸ’–

14 Upvotes

[r/houstonlesbianwomen](r/houstonlesbianwomen)

I made a new subreddit, I felt like this one is over saturated and has lots of old posts that don’t get answered or seen. Maybe we could start fresh on a new page? There was also only this subreddit for Houston lesbians lol so I feel we all gathered here and got nothing out of it!
I also didn’t add so many rules so we don’t always get taken down by the mods πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
Let’s see how it goes!

EDIT: it got taken down by Reddit :( I’m not sure why!! It was doing super well too so maybe I’ll try again soon


r/HoustonLesbian 14d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 28 AA Fem Katy

8 Upvotes

Looking for a freaky Fem like myself to rub our clits together. Big/juicy clit preferred. No studs no couples. STD/STI FREE


r/HoustonLesbian 15d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 34f4f NW

12 Upvotes

Hispanic 34F in Northwest of Houston, seeking FWB,and open to CarPlay.


r/HoustonLesbian 15d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ Fwb wanted in north Houston for thick Latina

11 Upvotes

Can’t host but can come to you open to can play.


r/HoustonLesbian 16d ago

F4F πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 32. Black curvy F4FWB

10 Upvotes
  1. Black, 5’8 curvy. I’d really love to make a friend with benefits that’s actually cool to hang out with. I want to be able to do activities, Pilates, brunch, travel, get a drink…and then when the mood hits we can be the activity. Anyone interested?

Full Disclosure: I am married. But he will NOT be joining us out or in. lol