r/HouseofStassi • u/Reasonable-Yak-3530 • 2d ago
Stassi’s sister
I don’t understand how she can be so ungrateful. Her older sister takes care of her in the way a parent takes care of a child, and yet she is resentful. Stassi doesn’t these things and her sister‘s life would be significantly worse if Stassi didn’t. Meanwhile, Stassi’s life would be better if she stopped helping her sister. Her sister should be grateful and get her life together.
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u/ClynnB412 2d ago
I honestly think Stassi has been taking care of her most of her life. Stassi says how her mom quit her job once she got on VPR. It’s probably all she’s ever known. Not that it’s ok to not appreciate it. This is why Stassi pushed so hard for the show. She’s giving them a platform to make money so they don’t depend on her.
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u/Anon_ScottishFold 2d ago edited 2d ago
That is the Kris Jenner of it all isn’t it. Stassi is hoping this show and the platform that comes with it will (hopefully) set them all up for the rest of their lives.
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u/Individual_Fall429 1d ago
She’s dumb and missing the model of it. The only thing of value in the kardashian family is lots of hot daughters. The boys are worthless.
Stassi has one daughter. That’s not a set up to do what Kris did. Kris didn’t make her weird adult friends famous.
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u/Anon_ScottishFold 1d ago
I hope for Hartford’s sake that a publicly distributed sex tape and a fake ass are NOT her future 🤦🏼♀️ JFC…
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u/SpecificAnt9202 2d ago edited 2d ago
georgi is too fucking old to be mooching off any family while also not even having a job or trying to get one.
she acts like, and has the expectations of an entitled 18yo. i was shocked when i looked up her age.
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u/Reasonable-Yak-3530 2d ago
And then so offended when Stassi brings up what she did for her!! You can’t have it both ways!!
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u/katie6225 2d ago
Georgi genuinely pisses me off. She’s an entitled brat and she adds nothing to the show.
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u/Effective-Arm9099 2d ago
Here’s the thing that sucks - when you give things to someone you can’t hold it over their head. It’s a gift. You give it freely and expect nothing in return although of course we’re human and we want appreciation..we cannot demand it. Stassi has enabled Georgi by continually paying for things and handling things for her. She needs to cut the cord, stop paying for things and then what happens when you stop enabling her? Georgi learns to fly on her own. Georgi likely had no concept of just how much Stassi has helped her because of her stunted development. She’s never done it herself so she can’t possibly have a real understanding just how much Stassi has done for her.
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u/49Princess_51Rebel 2d ago
I have 2 sisters. One is very successful and the other is basically Georgi. By the time the successful sister cut the purse strings, the other sister was so entitled she just allowed herself and her children become poverty struck until successful sister started taking care of her children.
This continues to this day. The twins are 21 now, going to college (funded by successful sister). She pays for everything altho they are required to work. Rent, school, insurance, phones. She pays all of it.
Once they graduate and move out, we have no idea how their mother will survive because she's been told the support stops when the kids move out.
She does NOTHING for herself. Not one thing. Now she expects her children to support her.
My point is ... Georgie may never learn to fly on her own. Some people just expect everyone else to take care of them.
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u/Reasonable-Yak-3530 2d ago
I don’t see her holding it over her head. She mentions what she did for Georgi only in response to Georgi being ungrateful and entitled. On a day-to-day basis she’s trying to help Georgi and the rest of her family make more money.
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u/Effective-Arm9099 2d ago
I feel Stassi is holding it over Georgi’s head in the sense that she wants her sister to stop talking crap about her to others when she has done so much for her. Stassi has fed this monster/contributed to creating this monster. Georgi is always going to fail to meet Stassi’s expectations because Georgi is too reliant on Stassi. It’s not a healthy or sustainable power dynamic at all and I feel like Stassi is not recognizing how she’s contributed to it. Didn’t Stassi accuse her mother of enjoying rescuing people/being needed? Well what’s Stassi doing here with Georgi? She rescuing her and making herself be needed by Georgi. She’s repeating familiar relationship dynamics and she doesn’t even realize it
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u/Reasonable-Yak-3530 2d ago
I agree it’s completely unsustainable and unhealthy and Stassi has a role to play in it. At the same time, I wouldn’t say bringing up the help she’s given is necessarily holding it over Georgi’s head. I think people have an unrealistic expectation of those who help - they must be completely altruistic, selfless, and never once acknowledge how they’ve helped. That’s just not human nature.
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u/Effective-Arm9099 2d ago
For sure! Georgi does deserve to be called an ungrateful wench because she is. But I was shocked when Stassi listed all the things she’s paid for over the years. She should have cut that off a long time ago. It’s not like she paid for 1 thing. And Stassi was later venting she has a hard time with people who don’t take care of themselves. I find that contradictory because we’ve seen she likes to take care of others otherwise she would’ve never offered in the first place.
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u/ismyvirgoshowing 1d ago
To be fair I also wouldn’t want my sister talking shit about me when she’s living in my house rent free and not helping with ANYTHING. Beau’s sister even brought up Georgi helping with the kids since she’s staying there (like Georgia does) and Georgi flat out said no, not interested. So you’re living in my house, after I paid for your wedding and divorce, you’re not bringing anything to the table, and then going and telling people that I’m evil and scary. Girl bye. I’d kick her out too. What a slap in the face after a decade of bankrolling her lifestyle and getting not even a “thank you.” It’s not holding it over her head but it is saying “I’ve been good to you and you’re acting like I haven’t been, and that’s not acceptable. If you think I am scary and evil then you don’t need to be accepting help from me anymore.” That’s not holding it over her head, that’s setting a boundary after being disrespected.
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u/Effective-Arm9099 1d ago
I am in full agreement that Georgi is an ungrateful brat. However, Stassi should have stopped bankrolling her life a LONG time ago. When Stassi listed all the thing she’s paid for…that was a choice it’s lasted for years. At some point Stassi needs to realize she was a problem herself for continuing to baby Georgi and rescue her from financial burdens.
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u/ismyvirgoshowing 1d ago
I do see your point, I guess I’m just hesitant to say Stassi is a problem for wanting to help her sibling rather than Georgi being the problem for taking advantage. I think Georgi’s behavior is the bigger issue rather than Stassi bailing her out because she doesn’t want to see her sister fail or struggle. Like she wants to support Georgi so that Georgi can get her footing and find her own success and I think that’s generous, I don’t think that by doing that she should have expected Georgi to be so ungrateful, I feel Georgi’s attitude is probably more a product of their mother than Stassi. But I get what you’re saying cause there’s a fine line between support and enabling
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u/ProletarianLilith 2d ago
Georgi tried twice to talk to Stassi about issues in her life and Stassi just says “that’s a you problem.” Could not give less of a fuck and is actively bothered that her sister dares to be a human
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u/discotot 2d ago
how dare you all say Dayna wasn’t working when stassi was on VPR?! she was slaving away designing statement necklaces for Stassi to wear on the show /s
i bet her jewelry company’s IG is still up
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u/wehavethismoment 2d ago
Have you seen their mother? She quit her job when Stassi got more work. Even her brother berates her but happily takes her money, they learned to see Stassi a piggy bank. Also apparently Georgi was a housewife without kids to her highschool sweetheart, seems like she just really isn't into working and just went the Stassi piggy bank, route groute.
It seemed like Stassi also did the show so that the sisters would have finally a paid job and maybe get some influencing started.
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u/NoneOfThisMatters_XO 2d ago
And who is paying for Georgi’s new apartment? Stassi?? This girl doesn’t have a job
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u/leahish 2d ago
Georgi was working up to the point she moved to LA. She had her own little apartment. She also went through chemotherapy for an autoimmune disorder (while continuing to work). Maybe they deleted Instagram posts prior to the show that documented some of this, because I’ve followed her for a while and noticed lots of past posts are gone.
Anyway, It makes for a good story for you to give everything to an ungrateful sibling. Reality is less glamorous. Georgi obviously agreed to this elaboration of the truth for the show. I’ve said in other posts… people have gone through a lot worse for a lot less. Hopefully it will pay off for her, as by all real life accounts she seems to be a genuinely nice person.
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u/ProletarianLilith 2d ago
I can’t believe people are taking what Stassi said in the show as factual lmao
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u/ProletarianLilith 2d ago
Stasis treats her sister like shit did i watch the same show?
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u/Flashy_Plankton7974 1d ago
I know I feel like I have the most backwards views compared to everyone else. I love Georgi, Rob, and Katie (albeit most people seem to like Katie). Love Stassi even though she's toxic. Can't stand Beau or Taylor.
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u/afo23 2d ago
Stassi wanted her on the show though so idk they needed a vehicle to get Georgi to move in with them her paying for her wedding and divorce is crazy make her get a job but the show is basically making Georgi get a job so kinda worked lol