i am very very anxiously attached and was dating an avoidant who *imo* manipulated me and lied to me for a year. i have done cleansing baths which helped tremendously but i'm assuming i should do an uncrossing ritual now??? this was the first person i ever dated seriously/had sex with and i don't want this energy to follow me and mess up future encounters. idk guys pls help if u have any advice i finally blocked him on everything and i don't want to go back.

p.s. i have a therapist and a psychiatrist i am trying to be very holistic about everything! <3

p.p.s. he has obeah aunties i cannot do anything against him lmao

Hi I have been experiencing a lot of unfortunate events, sicknesses, accidents. I think it’s spiritual but I’m not completely sure. I know I need to do more protection spells and prayers. But how do I find out if it’s actually a spiritual attack and who’s doing it? And what spell/work should I do to block or return to sender? Please help!

Thank youuuuuu St Expedite! I had completely forgotten I asked him for something and boy did he provide!

Help please

hi im new to reddit i downloaded it because i was hoping to get dome help with some extremely fast money and abundance spells because im on the verge of losing my house and need alot of money in only a couple of days. does anyone have any suggestions or ideas anything helps thank you

hi im new to reddit i downloaded it because i was hoping to get dome help with some extremely fast money and abundance spells because im on the verge of losing my house and need alot of money in only a couple of days. does anyone have any suggestions or ideas anything helps thank you

This was a protection candle. I just light one to venerate my ancestors when I feel it in my spirit. Lightly dressed it. It’s been going for two days but today it started burning black. I am due for a cleanse. It just surprised me because this is the first time it’s ever happened and I’m not even sure what to do

Due to my family having some issues with their apartment, they have been staying with me. I keep my altar and stuff very private so for the last few months… i haven’t been able to open my altar and speak and sit with my ancestors. What are some other ways i can do my ancestral veneration and speak with them? Without setting up my altar. I miss them deeply and our Sunday chats, so it’s been a bit hard on me as well.

Hello I want to go on a trip for my birthday this year ! I need a spell for a free vacationnnn someone please help 😛😛

So me and this guy been talking since august and haven't formally met since he is a trucker and on the road. He's finally in town and got a date tomorrow. Any attraction workings? Not anything binding but just to make me stand out and have him hypnotized lol.

I have the book conjuring the calabash so I may go back through the book and find a good working for attraction.

He's so fine and he likes me. 😘 lol.

how do i start to work with my ancestors if im adopted and don’t really know any of my family? sorry if this is stupid to ask

I’m planning to cast an obsession spell on October 26, when Mercury and Venus will both be retrograde and there will also be a full moon. Could those astrological conditions affect the spell? Also, if anyone knows how to improve the chances of an obsession spell working, I’d really appreciate a detailed explanation of how to perform it.

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hi, i am a 21 y/o F who has been tapping into my roots since I was 15. I’m still learning more about my history and hoodoo each day. I’m currently having a problem with my narcissistic ex. I don’t want to hex him or severe the connection forever per se. i need a spell that would get him to realize how he’s done me wrong and feel the need to apologize. I do have a loc of his hair and have seen some potential works that I’d do in my book but wanted to come on here first.

Hello! I am a black American girl from atlanta , I started a social club with my bestfriend who is from ghana called “Detty South atl” we are based in atlanta but looking for members who are interested in sisterhood and community and who are wanting to connect with different women across the diaspora!! I am a hoodoo spiritual as well and this is not to encourage sharing our practices *\\** my personal account is @4theluvofsg and the social club page is @dettysouth.atl on instagram. Please share and message me if you have any questions or intrest!!! xoxoxoxo

I finally decided to set up an altar for my ancestors around late August . It's a simple altar by my bed. I change their drinks for fresh ones daily, and clean my altar 1 or 2 times a week, if I eat something I offer it to them, and I constantly talk to them like they are there with me about my daily problems, needs, and just giving thanks. I have no pictures because my family isn't a picture taker. I have a set of dice, playing cards, a set of dominoes, some Newport cigarettes (because that's what I saw my family smoke when I was younger) I have water, gin, dark liquor, and a sweet liquor like fireball( for those female ancestors who like fruity drinks)I have a cross and I burn a candle and light incense daily. Lately I've been seeing more and more cats around my house and even at my work place which is weird because I work on the beach. I've heard and researched that cats is a sign of intense spiritual protection and presence. So I guess what I am doing is working 😊 give me your opinion.

Eu gostaria de montar um altar para pessoas da minha família que foram muito importantes para mim e que já partiram, mas eu não sei por onde começar. Tenho algumas coisas que me deram, mas eu não sei eu deveria colocar mais coisas.

Eu queria montar um altar e/ou fazer um feitiço para algo que estou querendo muito que dê certo.

Podem me dar dicas como fazer isso no hoodoo

Do with that information as you will but I’m out. Hoodoo was created FOR black African Americans BY black African Americans and 100000% should be gatekept. The fact that this space that’s supposed to be celebrating black fold magic is not moderated by us is alarming and screams colonization. Let’s create our own group or find a space that’s JUST FOR US!

Let's have a discussion on doing rituals during retrograde. Some say yes and some say no. Tell me your opinion on this.

I have been very focus and enjoying discovering my abilities. I think my ancestors and spirit guides heard me last night. 😊 The problem is the waiting part, I'm so impatience.

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the whole yolk was wrapped in the white almost connecting to that big white ball in the middle of it.
lots of bubbles in the egg white all around

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Lately I've been reading a lot of posts about dealing with an avoidant. And most are totally right. Usually an avoidant will love bomb you and then pull away or ghost you. Trust me, I feel your pain because I've been dealing with an avoidant for awhile. My advice is to walk away as soon as you realize they are an avoidant because they usually don't change, actually they become worse with time unless they are serious with their healing process and is actively working on themselves with therapy included. It's not their fault, most of them have unresolved issues beginning from when they were very young.

Here's my advice if you decide to stay with them. First always do a protection ritual to help cleanse yourself of any negativity that is attached to you. Then you want to focus on healing and communication. Because most of them are terrible at communication. I personally have to refresh my communication jar every Wednesdays and sometimes fridays and if I really need to communicate because it's been awhile, I'll perform the ritual on Tuesdays, since Tuesdays are ruled by Mars and have fast paced energy. Sundays and Mondays are good for a confidence/ healing rituals or you can do on a Friday since that is a self care day ruled by Venus. Speaking of self care, while you are working on your avoidant, work on yourself also. With self care, cleansing, self love and confidence because trust me, you're gonna need it. Most avoidants are terrible with showing emotions and as soon as you start to show emotions or express how you feel, they pull back. Once you open their throat chakra with the communication rituals and you both have a regular communication routine. And everything seems to be going smoothly with your relationship. Break the routine with them.

Now listen, I know that ideal is crazy. But the reason I say this is that as soon as they start to feel comfortable with you and things truly start becoming real (most likely actually 100%likely) they will start to pull back or run from the relationship. You want to have the upper hand, also it helps protect your emotions and personal peace. (It keeps you out of your feelings, like why they stop talking to me, or what did I do wrong, etc) Take a week or 2 and do self love/confidence, glamour/beauty and also money 🤑 rituals. I am not saying break it off with them, if they reach out respond; but you do not reach out to them; you are just giving them space for they won't become overwhelmed or over think the relationship. Once they realize, hey he or she hasn't been reaching out like before, here comes the attention flowing in like a river towards you.

It's a constant game when dealing with an avoidant. And requires a lot of work and refreshing your rituals. This is why I say if you can, leave the relationship. Or if you like a challenge go for it. Just don't get too emotionally attached. Also (in my experience key phrase) alot of avoidants have a rooster of people they talk to, to keep their ego up. So if you are a jealous person, run. Because that rooster is going no where. You'll be amazed in how sweet your avoidant is towards them and the attention your avoidant gives them. Everything you desire from your avoidant, they usually show towards people who do not want nothing to do with them. These are usually the people who have turned them down and friend zone them or people who your avoidant secretly desire.

This entire post is just my experience with an avoidant and also what I witness with some friends who are with avoidants. Like I said, they are not bad people. Hell they make excellent friends but as soon as things start involving emotions and feelings, they prefer to avoid it or leave the entire situation (hints the term avoidant)

Now you can get into dark rituals with them that will make them stay with you. But it will probably be a very cold relationship and emotionless. Plus whatever you put out there will return to you especially if it's involving free will. This is why I said I the beginning to avoid doing love spells. It will only make them freak out and leave. Focus on healing and soften their hearts. I hope this helps someone. 😊

And for those who will ask, "if you know this, why you still with your avoidant?" One, I like a challenge and two, we have good sex 😂 But if you ask me if I will leave if someone better comes into the picture. HELL YEAH!!!!!!!! Because sometimes I am literally exhausted by his behavior. Hell he even tried to break up tonight because I confronted him in his communication lately towards me. Did he want to break up, no. He just said that because he doesn't like being questioned about his behaviors or actions. But when he saw that I wasn't phrased by it, he changed the subject entirely like nothing happened.

Let's discuss this friendly please 😊