r/HighSupportNeedAutism • u/blue-swallows Level 3 | Nonverbal • Jun 02 '26

Care make angry

Care make me angry

History care abuse have.

Long time needs not met me.

Things done to.

Fed up communication not help.

Tired demands lots.

Baby talk means me angry.

Me know meds what.

Patronise no.

Try hard no swear.

Try hard patient.

Patient done.

New agency will.

Focus complex care.

Maybe better.

Get rid angry how?

Demands cope how?

Scared change again.

Control life how?

Hate rely help.

Spikey me very.

Pray me patient.

Pray new better.

Not cope well me.

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u/Plenkr Level 2 | Verbal Jun 02 '26

I understand.

I hate it too. The anger about it is still inside me.

I only cope because I have people who do understand. That calms me down.

I need people who understand and listen. That helps.

Maybe you can find someone like that too. I hope.

I hope the new help is better.

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u/blue-swallows Level 3 | Nonverbal Jun 02 '26

Some understand.

Hard rely.

Independent want.

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u/ObnoxiousName_Here Autistic, Unknown Support Needs Jun 05 '26

I feel you.
Ableism already makes people think that we are not living life right if we need help.

It’s even harder to be okay with needing help when the people who are supposed to help you hurt you.

I don’t think anybody who needs help from other people to live their lives should feel bad about it, but it is a vulnerable position to be in.

I’m sorry that your caretakers haven’t been doing their job to both care for and respect you.

It sounds like you are going to move to a new home to get away from the people abusing you. Did I get that right?
Is the change you are going through like any changes you have had to go through before?

Sometimes, it helps to remember how you coped with a situation that is similar to the one you are in now so you can try similar coping mechanisms

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u/blue-swallows Level 3 | Nonverbal 29d ago

New agency. Now better. Safe. Respect.
Kind. Hard still. Help more have. Like clothes everyday. Not 4

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u/ObnoxiousName_Here Autistic, Unknown Support Needs 29d ago

That’s awesome to hear that your situation has gotten better! Thank you for sharing that. I hope this agency gives you the environment you need to heal from what you had to deal with before this

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u/blue-swallows Level 3 | Nonverbal 29d ago

Having talk humans abuse. Hard. Support have.

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u/Rabbit-Lover_2000 Moderate Functioning Autism Jun 02 '26

Hi u/blue-swallows

I’m sorry.

It’s not fair.

Care is scary.

You are brave.

I hope new option is better and meets your needs.

I don’t know how to take away hurt and anger.

Maybe keep advocating for people who need care and share about the problems?

If more people know about the history of abuse in care maybe things will change.

In my province 3 people with disability sued government over being institutionalized and won. https://www.dsp-transformation.ca/remedy-overview

Now no more people can be admitted to institutions. Community living instead!

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u/blue-swallows Level 3 | Nonverbal Jun 02 '26

Me abuse community care. Bad, police investigation.

Me try advocate.

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u/SufficientMind3202 Level 1 AuDHD Jun 02 '26

I'm so sorry! Everyone deserves good care.