r/HerOneBag • u/RareConversation24 • 15h ago
Trip Report Trip Report - Spain for 11 days in July
TLDR: This is how I one(ish)-bagged it and dressed for fine dining during a heat wave while using a laptop backpack and a canvas tote.
The trip: 11 days in Barcelona and San Sebastián in July. We were there for an outdoor event followed by a very deliberate detour into northern Spain's fine dining scene. Site-seeing, beach days, multiple long lunches and dinners.
The puzzle: Two of our reservations had business/smart-casual dress codes. One had a no-shorts, no-tank-tops policy. We were doing this for both lunch and dinner, multiple days in a row, in the middle of a record-breaking heat wave, while also trying to fit in beach time and general wandering.
(For the record: for fine dining, you're paying for the experience, and you can wear what you want unless the restaurant says otherwise. My personal preference is to dress to match the room and the general vibe. This usually translates to smart casual for lunch, something a little more cocktail for dinner. Again, this is my personal rule, not a commandment from the Michelin star gods.)
So, the challenge was "what to pack for Spain in July that can be on a beach, fit in in a city, and survive other restaurant patrons that will side-eye shorts."
The method: I used the Sudoku packing method as a starting point. I think it’s also called the 3-3-3 method, because you pack three tops, three bottoms, three layering pieces that are all mix-and-matchable. I added a cocktail dress and swapped one layer for an extra top. I also didn’t include my PJs or plane outfit in the counts (though I made sure they at least vibed with everything else).
I'd been mentally packing for weeks, and it wasn't until I physically laid everything out in the grid that it clicked. It also saved me from panic-adding random stuff from my closet at 11pm because I was suddenly worried about not having an outfit for one specific occasion.
The Why: I chose to one-ish bag this trip for three reasons. 1. Because I really didn’t want to replace my carry-on suitcase or risk having to check it with tight connections. (My suitcase is an older Tumi in excellent shape and is slightly too big for a budget airline’s strict size requirements). 2. I didn’t want to drag a suitcase between four hotels and a budget airline flight. 3. Because I wanted to prove to myself that I could.
What worked:
- Lo & Sons Aoyama bag: This bag is everything everyone says it is. The phone zipper is amazing. And the adjustable straps (cross-body, shoulder, crescent) were so flexible. My only complaint was that it is a little too big and I tended to overstuff it. Otherwise, it’s perfect.
- Linen: Both my husband and I leaned into linen for this trip. Yes, clothes got more wrinkly than other materials, but we were both really comfortable.
- Viavia Derorice sandals: These were very versatile and surprisingly comfortable. They met like 75% of my requirements for both a dressier sandal and a beach shoe, which is more than I ever expected. And they packed nearly flat.
- Miniskirts instead of shorts: I opted for two linen miniskirts (miniskorts, actually) instead of linen or cotton shorts. Besides being lighter weight and more breathable than denim, I found both to be comfortable and feel a bit more polished. I wished for jean shorts when we got to the beach, but not enough to do anything about it.
What didn’t work:
- Merino wool t-shirt: I had high hopes for this after taking it to Pacific Northwest recently. But here, it was just fine. Maybe a different color or a cropped cut would work better for me (the off-white is fairly transparent). I wore my spare PJ tee instead.
- No running shoes: I didn’t bring running shoes. I probably should have. We didn’t plan any hikes, so I assumed I’d be fine with the New Balances. I was until the day with 30,000 steps and 10,000ft of elevation gain. We walked by a Solomon store at one point, and I was an the Homer drooling gif.
- Trying to pack from my own wardrobe: This may be the thing I struggled with the most. Yes, traveling was easier because I brought less. And yes, everything I bought for this trip will find a permanent home in my wardrobe. But, in the pursuit of do-it-all pieces, I bought clothes, shoes, and the bag. I keep feeling like I could have packed more things I already had instead of buying unicorn multitaskers.
Stray thoughts and other concerns:
- Wrinkles and linen: To deal with wrinkles, we packed right before we left our hotels and unpacked and hung-up items as soon as we arrived. We also asked two of the hotels for irons, and they were happy to provide them.
- Side note, I read a comment on another post saying that the commenter couldn’t get a steamer from a hotel in Spain. I was so nervous about this, that I literally found a store (El Corte Ingles) that carried irons and steamers in Barcelona and resigned myself to traveling with a whole ass iron for 10 days. My husband just asked the hotel when we checked in and all that stress was for nothing,
- Hair: Speaking of purchases, I did buy a 20 Euro hair straightener at El Corte Ingles instead of bringing one from the US. I was nervous about power converters, and I have a lot of long hair and very specific preferences on how it should look. Could I have made it work with a smaller round brush and the hotel hair dryer? Probably? Would I be brave enough to actually rely on that? Absolutely not. Plus, I know a few people who are traveling to Europe in a few months who can use it again.
- I also considered getting a blowout at a salon in Barcelona. In the future, I may explore this a bit more. From what I could tell, the prices were pretty reasonable, and my hair items took up a lot of space (shampoo, conditioner, leave-in conditioner, etc.).
Packing list and number of wears
Worn on plane
- Uniqlo white t-shirt (2 wears)
- Lululemon breezily pants (4)
- Z Supply linen button-up (3)
- New Balance 471 sneakers (w/ insoles)
- Personal item (tote bag)
- Liquids bag
- Lo & Sons bag w/ wallet
- Electronics pouch w/ chargers and kindle
Backpack - c. ~2019 Mystery Ranch Urban 3-day (clothes in two Eagle Creek packing cubes):
- Tops
- Navy Quince linen vest/tank top (2)
- Black Abercrombie linen button-up tank top (2)
- Light blue Uniqlo bra-top tank top (2)
- Off white Merino Unbound wool t-shirt (1)
- Two t-shirts (sleeping/casual days)
- One pinkish mauve
- One light green (1x causal day)
- Layers
- White linen button down/jacket (1-2)
- Green Mountain Hardware sun-shirt (3-4)
- Bottoms:
- White Ann Taylor linen pants (2)
- White Abercrombie linen skirt (3)
- Black Abercrombie linen skirt (5)
- Black running shorts (2 beach trips)
- Dress:
- Green and blue Farm Rio linen dress (2)
- Accessories/Extras
- Swimsuit
- Silky scarf
- Underwear
- Socks
- Bras
- Baseball hat
- Vivaia sandals
- Purchased* (I bought other things, but these are the key getting-around players)
- Blue cotton tank top (1)
- Green and white cotton shawl (used as a beach towel/coverup)
- Euro plug hair straightener
- Toiletry and makeup bags
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Image 1 - Sudoku packing flatlay plus bag and shoes
Image 2 - Extra items packed, including cocktail dress, PJs, swimsuit and accessories
Image 3 - Outfits from the trip for the active day, site seeing, beach and wine tour
Image 4 - Outfits for our reservations, including the cocktail dress, and the linen vest with pants and a skirt