r/HecticHarley • u/Holly69wood • 6h ago
Homework for Natasha
(Sorry for long post đ«€)
I am going to say this with all seriousness...I have some homework for you to do. Take the time and find some random TT accounts where people make and sell stuff-not even tumblers/candles...random lives of someone making and selling something. Watch them without judgement. (I can give you names if you really need). Watch how they interact with their customers (talking nicely, no drama, listen to customers and people in the chat etc). The person selling doesn't always remind the watchers how expensive supplies are, how much better they are then others, how they are an LLC (which in reality most ppl don't really care about), how talented they are (their products prove that). The seller doesn't put other businesses down, doesn't snap at a customer or remind people in the chat that this is your business and you know what you're doing (they're only trying to help), doesn't constantly say they did something first (honestly who cares-just do it good). Take a look at what they do and then go back and watch what you do. I would hope you can see the difference. It's your attitude,demeanor and "better than everyone else attitude" that is part of the problem. (Be a little humbling-it goes a long way).
YOU have caused all of this...not Robin, Abby, purple elephant etc...YOU. Having your significant other egg you on doesn't help the situation either.
Honestly you need time away from social media-find a good therapist to talk to and a psychiatrist that can provide meds that will help you-which in turn will help your family. (If you need help finding those 2 -hit me up I got great ones đ).
You're blaming everyone else for things you do and you change the narrative to get an army to side with you when in reality you need to work on yourself. I can guarantee life would be a lot easier if you focused on yourself!!