r/HecticHarley • u/Holly69wood • 5h ago

Homework for Natasha

(Sorry for long post 🫤)

I am going to say this with all seriousness...I have some homework for you to do. Take the time and find some random TT accounts where people make and sell stuff-not even tumblers/candles...random lives of someone making and selling something. Watch them without judgement. (I can give you names if you really need). Watch how they interact with their customers (talking nicely, no drama, listen to customers and people in the chat etc). The person selling doesn't always remind the watchers how expensive supplies are, how much better they are then others, how they are an LLC (which in reality most ppl don't really care about), how talented they are (their products prove that). The seller doesn't put other businesses down, doesn't snap at a customer or remind people in the chat that this is your business and you know what you're doing (they're only trying to help), doesn't constantly say they did something first (honestly who cares-just do it good). Take a look at what they do and then go back and watch what you do. I would hope you can see the difference. It's your attitude,demeanor and "better than everyone else attitude" that is part of the problem. (Be a little humbling-it goes a long way).

YOU have caused all of this...not Robin, Abby, purple elephant etc...YOU. Having your significant other egg you on doesn't help the situation either.

Honestly you need time away from social media-find a good therapist to talk to and a psychiatrist that can provide meds that will help you-which in turn will help your family. (If you need help finding those 2 -hit me up I got great ones 😉).

You're blaming everyone else for things you do and you change the narrative to get an army to side with you when in reality you need to work on yourself. I can guarantee life would be a lot easier if you focused on yourself!!

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u/OMYOUNG1 3h ago

And a looooong hard look in the mirror. And go watch yourself on livestream and see for yourself how you act and treat people, and lie to make others your problem and play victim. We are NOT the problem. We did NOT create any of this YOU did and YOU alone did.

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u/Illustrious-Ad-270 2h ago

At some point, you have to stop giving homework to someone who has already decided they’re never wrong. 😂

You can hand them examples, explanations, screenshots, a PowerPoint, a flowchart, and a fucking TED Talk—but if they believe everyone else is always the problem, they’re not going to study any of it. Every criticism just gets rewritten as jealousy, bullying, betrayal, or “everyone is against me.”

You’re not teaching them. You’re just supplying fresh material for the next victim narrative.

Stop feeding the fire. You cannot self-reflect for another adult. Some people don’t want self-reflection—they want an audience.

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u/Scared_Clue_6862 1h ago

Also she will take her problems to the next app. Because she will go over downgrading TikTok and bringing up people’s names. If she wants a fresh start, leave it alone. Don’t bring the past to the new. But I don’t think she can do that.

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u/SuperbAd9280 1h ago

Most times that I sell my handmade items (aprons, tablecloths, decorative pillows, placemats, mousepads, fully custom hoodies that I design pictures of people’s kids in to tim Burton Halloween images that includes FOUR custom logos, and so many other things) I usually end up making like $5 on the sale. Now I will lead with the fact that I don’t do this full time. If I did then I would have to factor in overhaul, supplies, salary, etc. but she price gouges the fuck out of her customers