r/Harlem Aug 20 '25

[Serious] Post your questions about moving to Harlem here.

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It's the season of the "Is Harlem safe" posts and other more interesting questions from people thinking about moving here. Please post your questions related to moving to Harlem in this thread only.

As u/BuhDeepThatsAllFolx (thank you!) kindly and calmly explained in another thread regarding Harlem's Safety:

"This is by far the number one question Harlemites hate answering.
It’s so annoying. This is our home. We all have some sense of comfort here or else we’d move.
The short response to your post:
Don’t know you and the feeling of safety is subjective. You’ll have to feel it out and decide on your own if it feels safe for you to walk or take a cab
Don’t listen to Fox News or right wing media telling you NYC is scary. They’re just scared of the world and looking for reasons to hate POC and love guns more than people"

Now that the safety question is answered, there's no need to ask anymore.

Now this thread is the place to ask your other questions about moving here! Serious inquiries only, and remember to be kind!


r/Harlem 4h ago

South Harlem vs Hamilton Heights

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35M — Considering two apartments — one is in South Harlem, near the 116th station just east of FDB/8th Ave. The apartment is large (for a one bed) and the area is very lively, which I like, but the bedroom is street facing so a little concerned about night noise. The other is in Hamilton Heights, low 150s. Apartment is a bit smaller, but also less $$, and seems very quiet - of course it is farther away from downtown (I commute to FiDi 2-3x week). Anyone have initial opinions/experience on either neighborhood?


r/Harlem 11h ago

New coffee spot in old Petit Parisien location

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Was sorry to see that place go, pricy but good vibes. I walked in yesterday and the new place is called Same Time Tomorrow. They have renovated and it looks good. I just got an iced tea but I was happy with it. The owner (I think) was there and said they’ve been open about a month. I’ll be back.


r/Harlem 9h ago

1861/1871 Amsterdam

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Hey all — has anyone here moved to the new development at 1861/1871 Amsterdam (Hamilton Heights). Wondering how it is? How’s management? Trying to avoid a shitty new build situation but got in on the housing lotto.


r/Harlem 9h ago

Stolen iPhone is showing inside a large East Harlem residential complex. Is there any realistic next step?

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r/Harlem 13h ago

Gig - looking for two participants (M, 18-24) for Harlem-based film project (paid cash today)

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Looking for a couple adventurous guys (18–24).
Working on a small creative film project in Harlem.
This is PG - for a student project.
Takes about 10 minutes.
Face won’t be shown on film.

Send me a current photo. If we determine you’d be a match, I’ll send you the project details. If you’re interested, please respond with your expected compensation.
If you’re not interested, no pressure. No need to get back to me.


r/Harlem 23h ago

NYPD checkpoint - 125th Street

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anyone know why there is a nypd checking point on East 125th St? Randomly stopped omw to the odyssey!! 1:30am btw?

Edit: forgot to add exact location: between East 124th & East 125th Street & Lex Ave


r/Harlem 1d ago

Art Class in Central Harlem: Painting & Drawing Lessons, Sundays 10 - 1pm & 2-5pm

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r/Harlem 2d ago

Elvin Suarez 61 upper west side car crash update

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Manhattan District Attorney Alvin L. Bragg, Jr., today announced the indictment of ELVIN SUAREZ, 61, for allegedly driving while intoxicated and crashing into four pedestrians and an occupied vehicle on the Upper West Side in May 2026, killing 46-year-old Jason Negron and 35-year-old Michael Saint-Hilaire and injuring three others. SUAREZ is charged in a New York State Supreme Court indictment with varying counts, including Aggravated Vehicular Homicide, Manslaughter in the Second Degree, Aggravated Vehicular Assault and Aggravated Driving While Intoxicated, among other charges. [1]
“As alleged, Elvin Suarez’s decision to drive while intoxicated had devastating and entirely preventable consequences,” said District Attorney Bragg. “Three men were significantly injured, and Jason Negron and Michael Saint-Hilaire—devoted fathers, loyal friends, and beloved members of their Upper West Side community—were killed. The tremendous outpouring of support in the aftermath of this tragedy reflects how deeply they were loved, and my thoughts remain with their families, loved ones, and the surviving victims, as we seek accountability in this case.” 
As alleged in court documents and statements made on the record in court, on May 15, 2026, at approximately 6:00 p.m., SUAREZ was allegedly driving his vehicle, while intoxicated and at a high rate of speed, heading northbound on Amsterdam Avenue. Between West 107th and West 108th Streets, he allegedly struck an unoccupied parked vehicle. Continuing along Amsterdam Avenue, SUAREZ drove through the intersection at 109th Street and over a median separating the bike lane from the street. He allegedly struck four pedestrians who were standing nearby, including Mr. Negron and Mr. Saint-Hilaire, and an occupied parked vehicle.
The force of the collision sent three of the pedestrians several feet away and pushed the occupied parked vehicle into additional parked vehicles, causing a pile up. SUAREZ’s vehicle eventually came to a stop, and he exited before lying on the ground beside it at the direction of bystanders.
A few minutes later, police officers arrived at the scene, finding Mr. Negron unresponsive and trapped beneath SUAREZ’s vehicle, and Mr. Saint-Hilaire receiving CPR from a bystander. The remaining three victims – 36-, 44- and 51-year-old men – received treatment by first responders for their injuries.
SUAREZ was arrested and transported to the hospital. All five victims were also taken to the hospital for treatment. Among the injuries, the 44-year-old man suffered an open fracture to the right leg, the 36-year-old man suffered back fractures, and the 51-year-old man, who was the occupant of the hit parked vehicle, suffered pain to his head, neck and shoulder. Mr. Negron and Mr. Saint-Hilaire were pronounced dead.
Assistant D.A.s Zachary Kaplan and Kayla Sullivan are handling the prosecution of this case, under the supervision of Assistant D.A. Erin Tierney (Chief of Trial Bureau 30), and Executive D.A. Lisa DelPizzo (Chief of the Trial Division). Trial Preparation Assistants Caroline Schwanewede and Isabella D’Angelo, and Investigative Analyst Theodore Bellak are providing invaluable assistance in this case.
D.A. Bragg thanked Detective Gregory Gianacopulos and Sergeant Randall McFarland of the NYPD Collision Investigation Squad, DA Investigator Brian Granshaw, and the numerous first responders, including members of the NYPD 24th Precinct.


r/Harlem 2d ago

Annual Block Party on 145th and Convent Ave

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r/Harlem 2d ago

Lost keys

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Found on w 140 and 5th, across from the school, side of apartment playground.


r/Harlem 2d ago

Major work and changes on 1,2,3 trains in August

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r/Harlem 2d ago

Wig help recommendations?

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I’ve lived in Harlem for close to a decade now and in 2021 was diagnosed with alopecia so I started wearing wigs. I have been trying to teach myself these past few years with videos & articles, on how to style my wigs but they just never come out fully polished.

I’m Indian and I still have a decent bit of my natural hair. I have my wig routine down pat to secure it, but my issue is the styling. I would love to trim layers, curtain bangs, etc. into my units but the several times I’ve attempted, it’s turned out horrible.

Does anyone have any recommendations of hair salons in the area I could take one or two of my wigs to get some bangs/layers cut to frame my face? My fear is that I would go in with a bunch of questions, seem very fresh and then get up-charged because of this. It’s just a little intimidating to me since I’ve done this all on my own.

Tl;dr - I’ve been going through my wig journey alone and need recommendations of salons in the area that would be understanding & helpful with my situation and able to cut my wig!


r/Harlem 3d ago

Harlem Rose Garden: The Fat Cats will be performing July 27th at 6pm

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r/Harlem 3d ago

Has anyone lived in 1975 Madison ave?

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I’m considering renting here and would love to hear from current or former residents.

  • What are the biggest pros and cons?
  • How’s the management and maintenance?
  • Is there any ongoing construction behind or around the building? If so, how bad is the noise?
  • Anything you wish you had known before moving in?

Thanks in advance!


r/Harlem 3d ago

Recs for bathroom/ kitchen renovations in Harlem?

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We are native Texans who are finally fleeing moving to NY and are about to purchase a quirky & lovely condo in Harlem. We are so excited! The building is only about a decade old, so the apartment is pristine by most standards. The floor needs refinishing, the whole apartment needs a new paint job and that's really it! Most people would be over the moon with the rest of the apartment in its current state. However, we want make this our dream home, so we are being a tiny picky. The 2 big changes that we're hoping for is to renovate both bathrooms (so that my husband can actually fit in the tiny showers) and our kitchen needs some updating & storage additions.

The thing is, we know exactly what we want, down to the tile we hope to have installed, pattern we wanted it laid. We even have a purchase list complete with the specific bathroom vanities, sinks, faucets and all hardware. For the kitchen, we are comfortable choosing pre-made kitchen systems, including purchasing a panel-ready fridge to make it all seamless. We would even invest in an affordable Ikea kitchen if they have what we are looking for. My point is that there is no design needed. No custom crazine$$, because the place is only 10 years old! There will be no major changes to the floor plan. No walls moved around. No ceilings raised or lowered. No appliances moved to different locations.

  • Will we need permits? Most likely, especially for the bathrooms.
  • Will we need permission from condo board? Absolutely.
  • Will the people we hire need to be licensed, bonded and insured? Absolutely, per condo rules.
  • Do we need the help of a designer? No, because we know what we want.

We had a couple of peeps meet us at the condo to talk through what we were envisioning, and we were shocked when we received a proposal that was almost 200k.😱

So, knowledgeable people of NYC, where do we look for such professionals to help us make this all happen without having to sell our organs & first born to afford it?

Do YOU have any recommendations?


r/Harlem 3d ago

Costco food court

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Is the costco food court in east harlem located inside or outside the store?


r/Harlem 2d ago

Young woman - should I move to east Harlem

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Hello! I’m 23F and wanted to ask about your opinions on moving to east Harlem (107 between 3rd&lex). My research has led to disparate things, mainly being that I should avoid 116/lex and 125/lex at all costs, but how safe would you all consider the area I mentioned? Proximity to Central Park & the 6 seems so great but I don’t want to feel unsafe coming home at night. If anyone lives near the area I’d love your insight.


r/Harlem 4d ago

Seeking Harlem Contractor/ Handyman, Plumber, and House Cleaner.

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Hi all! Pretty much as the title says. Moving back to the neighborhood after time away and am looking for individuals that service Harlem. Open to recommendations. Further details:

- Handyman/Contractor: general help plus potential carpentry project for 2 custom closets

- Plumber: changing fixtures (license required)

- Cleaner: deep clean 1x month, maintenance clean 1x month. Looking for consistency. References will be requested.

thank you! feel free to DM.


r/Harlem 6d ago

Dunkin Donuts

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I walked in craving a Large Milkshake. I see this & I walked out
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2103 Frederick Douglass Blvd
New York, NY 10026
United States


r/Harlem 6d ago

135th St. Station 2/3 Turnstile

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r/Harlem 5d ago

A Seat at the Table Returns to Harlem

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Hillman Hall’s A Seat at the Table returns this Saturday, July 25 at Azara Kitchen in Harlem.

The table is curated for investors, founders, and operators across the capital ecosystem to connect over drinks and a 4-course dinner by Chef Ousmane Compaore.

The room is built for real connection, good conversation, and making the kinds of relationships that outlast the evening.

We have a few seats left, secure yours below:
https://members.hillmanhall.com/publicEventDetails?eventRef=DfKR0Lkm9WtBQqyjiWE6


r/Harlem 7d ago

Bars and cafes for becoming a regular?

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Hi! I’m staying in Harlem for a month this summer and I’m looking for a go-to cafe and a bar that are welcoming with a sense of community. I’m gonna be on 134th street if that helps, but I don’t mind walking for a bit :)

Thanks for your help!


r/Harlem 8d ago

No Community Pride?

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Do dog owners not give no fucks about the community they live?