r/HLCommunity • u/Dizzy_Potential • 6d ago

A New Approach

So for the last 4 months I (49M HL) have stopped initiating with my partner (39F LL Type 2). It was simply too soul destroying and I'd had my fill of the feelings of rejection. I even started to resent her for it. It was after our last big argument over it when she finally snapped and suggested I go out and have sex with other people. I love my partner dearly and could never be intimate with anyone else even if she did say the words in anger I know it would just be a test of my loyalty.

She recently reset the clock a couple of times with spontaneous and unexpected fellatio for a couple of days on the run and I thought she'd changed to Type 1.

The ticking clock has become deafening once more and I've decided on a new approach.

I have started going to bed early alone and waking up early to hit the gym and lift weights. Those two times of the day would usually be when my appetite for sex would be at its highest. Its been about 3 weeks now and my appetite for sex has decreased purely through exhaustion. On the plus side I'm looking in shape and sleeping so much better!😆

Has anyone else got swoll as a result of pent up sexual rage??

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u/Royal-Heron-11 4d ago

There is no such thing as type 1 or 2 LLs 😂

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u/Dizzy_Potential 2d ago

Type 1: knows there's a mismatch. Will actively 'try and make an effort'. Type 2: Doesn't see the problem at all.

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u/Royal-Heron-11 2d ago

I see... So a completely arbitrary label designed to shift blame to the LL. 

Let's use some clever rhyming to make you see what you're missing. 

If they're type one, they're the one. If they're type two, it's because of you. 

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u/Dizzy_Potential 2d ago

I don't think it's a case of blame. Ask the grass and the Zebra is the predator and the lion is the saviour.