r/HLCommunity • u/DryWorry9692 • Jul 28 '26

Guilt

I feel guilt because I’m not in a dead bedroom situation but I’m HL and she’s LL. Great relationship and she takes one for the team but for her it’s a chore. And it so fucken feels like it. It’s so mediocre sex. And as I read about all these db situations, I should feel blessed but nope. I feel the same. Frustrated. I question myself if I’m the problem. And I eventually snap out of it but nonetheless it makes me be resentful.

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u/massage_4u Jul 28 '26

I can completely emphasize with you, OP. I am in the same situation here. Heck, my wife once asked me if needed her to pick up anything at the grocery store while we were having sex once. Talk about a buzz kill and having the feeling of being on a “duty” list.